My girlfriend and I did things too soon, and it might have made me a little messed up and unsure of things. I doubted myself and my decisions and actually broke up with her because sometimes I felt like I didn't like her and was only in the relationship because I cared about her. I felt that way for a long time. When I was with her though, it was darling and good and that thought was out of my mind, or was contradicted by the great times and feelings I had with her. One day the bad feelings just brought me to break up with her. I cried after we broke up, and now, a few days later, I am slightly wondering if I made the right choice. This was my first real relationship, and I'm going to see a therapist to try and sort my feelings out. Everybody is different. Everybody has their own boundaries and opinions on things like this. When I was with her I had a great time and it was good. She made me smile and laugh and feel great. I don't know if I made the right choice, but she said she'll wait with me after I get sorted out to see what I feel like then. I mean a lot to her and she means a lot to me. I care about her, but don't know if I love her yet, and we've been through a lot, and kept going. I think everybody is different and each person needs to figure out where their morals lie, and not try to get answers off the internet. I used to do that, and what I read might have harmed me and my potential relationship. My mom told me that if you have sex or do things too early on it can mess with your emotions, and I think so too. I felt weird and I can't tell my emotions apart or categorize them correctly sometimes. We started doings things too early on, and it messed with our relationship. I know I'm restating myself a little. Just leave this comment knowing that I believe everybody is different, and that people have their own opinions. Sex might really confuse you and your thoughts and more.