My boyfriend is giving me the silent treatment?

[Anonymous]

Ever since this past Friday he hung up the phone on me and has not made any effort in contacting me. So far he's been out drinking all this weekend with his friends and even made a post on his Facebook saying "nasty attitudes should be quarantined." Any thoughts or comments would be greatly appreciated.

[VestEer]

Wow...you're going to let him do this to you? That's just messed up no matter how you look at it. Send him a message back saying, "Douchebag pansys who use the silent treatment don't deserve a girlfriend".

Well no, but you get the idea. Not cool of him to do any of this, regardless of how upset. You don't ever keep silent on a issue, that's elementary school crap. A wobbly bridge is better than no bridge.

[harrison92]

hes just teaching you a lesson for what ever reason. you must of said somehting for him to hang up. if you want him to contact you... stop contacting him! he will soon come running back

[Anonymous]

What did you do to piss him off?

I'm sure he is not acting that way for no reason at all.

From the little detail you've given, it sounds like you gave him a legitimate reason to be upset yet because he's not the one crawling back to you and trying to make up first, you've decided to get GAG to side with you?

[Asker]

LOL first of all where in my question does it state that I'm trying to get GAG to side with me?

[Opinion Owner]

You seem to be trying to get GAG to side with you because this is a condensed version of an identical question that was asked yesterday. Seems like you are the same QA. In both posts, you don't admit anything that you may have done wrong. You just say "Well he hung up on me. Well he posted this on his FB." but you convinenetly leave out anything you did as if you just stood there and he acted like this for no reason at all which I highly doubt is the case.

[Asker]

Thanks for taking the time to notice and answer you earned a thumbs down.

Kudos!

[Opinion Owner]

lol, oh no, one thumbs down, what am I ever going to do with myself!? Please. I am way to confident, strong, and have way too many great things going for me than to let one thumbs down by the QA for no legit reason get to me :)

All I'm saying is that you convienently make your boyfriend look bad while you don't mention anything you may have possibly done to lead to his actions. You act as if you just sat there all innocent and did nothing and he just hung up on you for no reason at all.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't believe that is the case. I believe you are one of those females who gets into it with your man, then tries to vilify him while you make yourself out to be the victim so that you don't have to take responsibility for anything you may have done wrong. And people on this post such as VestEer need to not make assumptions about your boyfriend and the situation when you've barely even given info about both.

[Asker]

I believe both of your answers suck badly.

Regardless what the fight was "about" I still find it to be disrespectful for anybody to hang up the phone during the middle of a convo.

[Opinion Owner]

:) My answer doesn't suck. You probably just think it doesn't suck because I'm not feeding into your "I'm a victim" bullsh*t.

You are way too sensitive and you sound like a baby. "Wah, your answer sucks so I'm giving you a thumbs down." "Wah, he hung up in he middle of a convo." I'm sensing you GAVE him reason to hang up on you. Hanging up in the middle of a convo is not necessarily disrespectful unless it's your PARENT. But a girl who most likely gave you a legit reson to hang up; then it's

[Opinion Owner]

not disrespect. In fact, sometimes hanging up on someone is necessary because they just want to fight or argue or be dramatic or have a nasty attitude. So because of that, you may need to remove yourself from the situation and if that means hanging up then so be it.

You sound extremely immature and childish with the way you are so unwilling to admit any fault and apparently lash out at people who suggest you may have been wrong. Keep it up and you're gonna get dumped.

[Asker]

I'm not even saying that I'm a victim LOL! When did I claim to be a victim on my question? You really need to learn how to read and not assume more than what the question states out to the publics eye. That's why your answer sucks because you just assume.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, stop. Don't direct your nasty attitude and your childish ways towards me by trying to argue with me when all I did was simply do what you asked: give any thoughts or comments. Apparently you don't truly greatly appreciate thoughts or comments unless they're in yur favor.

I know how to read, just fine, thank you very much. You are acting like a victim here. You refuse to tell anyone why he hung up on your ass. My answer doesn't suck lol, the only person who disagreed was you and that's

[Anonymous]

Tell him you guys need to talk. Hurry, before it's too late.

[Asker]

It's not the first time that he's hung up the phone on me during one of our convo's. I'm just really tired of being the one contacting him back because he's only getting away with thinking that hanging up the phone on me is "ok behavior" which I find disrespectful.

[Opinion Owner]

Tell him how you feel, and that you aren't going to tolerate that bullsh*t anymore.

[Asker]

Oh I have told him that hanging up the phone on me is simply just something I'm not going to put up with. He just dosn't seem to get the idea that I'm not going to put up with that. Now he's waiting for me to come back to him and act as if it's OK to ignore me for 2 full days straight..

[Opinion Owner]

Not a good sign. I think he is using this as an excuse to break up with you and when he starts dating another one and you confront him, he is going to tell you that he thought you guys broke up.

[Asker]

If he is using this form of behavior as a way to end things then let it be. There's only so much crap a person can take untill they're fed up. Thanks for your feedback by the way.

[Opinion Owner]

Ur welcome & thanks.

[FlaggLives]

He's teaching you a hard lesson and showing you how much you upset him. wait for him to contact you and give him time to reinitiate communication when he's ready.

[risingphoenix201011]

Why did he hang up on you?