Do you think my baby daddy wants to be with me or is he just using me for sex?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy have been friends with benefits for a couple years. Then recently we had a baby boy so I always have a good time with him and we really get along but every time I ask him why we just don't date he says that he wants to wait after college so I need to know if he is just using me or what. And what do I do not to fall for him when we constantly see each other and have a child together.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Its horribly obvious you're being used. you have a child by him and he won't even date you? He just wants you for sex, he does not like you at all. Control yourself, have your dignity whenever he comes around and stop letting him get free rides if he's not paying for the ticket, if you know what I'm saying. If he can't give you what you want then you sure shouldn't be giving him sex

[nermalinda]

It sounds like he's not making you feel as secure as you would like. I think you would be happier if you found a guy who made you feel the way you wanted to feel and basically made you happy and also cared about your child. That would also make you get over this guy.

[C2013]

Please find someone else. I had a friends with benefits once he found out how I felt he asked me to have a baby with him. Like a dummy I agreed. He changed for the worse after I had a miscarriage. You & your baby deserve better find a man who LOVES you & your baby. He is using you like my friends with benefits did.

[Anonymous]

He's using you , If he wanted you he wouldn't wait . That may be the father of your kid , But it doesn't mean he's the right one for you.

[loolool]

next time, condom or anal