I don't understand my best guy friend, anymore?

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So, my best guy friend & I have been best friends for almost a year now, Before would call me beautiful, ask me why I didn't want to date anyone at the time & would say things like I feel like we connect a lot when you're sad I'm sad &when you're happy I'm happy & how he feels like he can be himself around me. He gave me a bracelet that was his grandmother who passed away, & told me to not take it off. people began to notice how much time we spent together & thought we were going out & a lot of people began tell me that he likes me I tell him that I like him in which he got upset & saying that I had hurt him & cried a little bit saying that he never cried over a girl before & that his mother had told him a girl & a guy can't be just friends because that's not the way God intended it to be & he said that the first person he thought of was me. After, he called me saying he doesn't want to ruin our friendship for a relationship. Months after, things were up & down he started to see a girl whom he didn't like at all but oddly is in a relationship with this girl right now. We got into many arguments, one leading into us not talking to each other for almost a month because he felt as if I still had feelings for him. He ended talking it out with me, & said that I came back at the perfect time in his life. When I confided in him as to who I like, he immediately told me how another girl likes the guy I like and that he isn't like him. He didn't even help me with the guy compare to my other guy friends who did. Instead, he just said that he laughs at the guys I choose to like. Often times when we hung out together, whenever we would walk he'll always bump or walk very closely to me or sometimes taking my hand and squeezing it or even playing with my fingers. I once said that he had a girlfriend & he got upset saying that wasn't his girlfriend but that is his girl. Often times, he would never invite her anywhere, it's always either me or another female. Then this summer he would message me almost every other day asking to hang out but I was always busy and so I couldn't, but the one day I wasn't it ended up raining & when I had message him asking him if he still wanted to hang out he completely ignored me for about two days, only to find out that he was moving. When he moved, he called me & told me how his girlfriend found the letters I had wrote to him that he saved but she couldn't find the letters that she had wrote to him and was upset, but he ended up finding it later on hidden somewhere else. Now, we message each other & he says that he misses me a lot, however one day he tells me to call him but I was busy & told him I would call him later on, I finished what I was doing earlier than I expected & call him but he had went out. I message him saying that I had call & when we gets back to call me, he had read the message but he never bothered to call. I message the next day asking how he's doing & he completely ignores me, for no reason.

At this point I'm confused. What's going on with him?
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This week I made a surprised phone call and when he picked up he was just like I miss you so much and we talk for a good bit about school and stuff and he was telling me how girls are all over him where he is but he's trying to show his girlfriend that he loves her and I simply said OK, and he was just like I know you probably don't believe me but idc. And once I told him it was that he was having problems with her being immature he was quiet and just changed the subject back to something I had said before
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I messaged him on Monday after not talking to him for almost a week and it's been like two days now and he came online multiple times those two days and completely ignores my message. All I said was that I miss him dearly. And so my friend thinks that he's ignoring me because he may be busy which is possible or that he could be really gaining feelings for me now and feels bad because he's in a relationship and so talking to me doesn't make things better for him. Yeah, I don't know where she got that from but yeah
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Earlier this week he called me even though he was grounded his grandpa let him called me for like 10 min max but we spoke for longer but he just told me how well he was doing in school & stuff & I told him how I was having trouble with some of my guy friends & he just laughed & said that it's because theyre not like him and they don't know how to handle me like him. The convo was short but nice, b4 he hung up he told that he loves me & called me by a nickname he only calls me &I said it back
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I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore and idk, I feel like I'm just forgotten in a way. On his Instagram he has pictures of her and tag her in stuff and always like her pics and then I'm just there. He only like my stuff every once in awhile. Idek why I care, I shouldn't care I'm just his best friend GOD I don't know why I feel like this but I do. And once again, someone was just like its obvious that he likes you he just won't admit it and then I see stuff like that and I'm just like no he doesn'
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So, I called him back. at first he seem sort of distant but then he changed his attitude. He just asked me to stop asking if he was OK. I think he is working things out with his girl because he mentioned her name but he said that he was going to sleep so idk. I told him that I feel like he doesn't tell me things and he just said that he's sorry if he doesn't feel like spilling all of his feelings out for me and to just give him time. We had intense silences but we brighten up the convo and end w laughter.
I don't understand my best guy friend, anymore?
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