I read a thread here about why ladies like to be "hugged from behind" and to feel safe and secure while sitting on a guy's lap. I am a guy, and I always loved the feelings of tender affection, safety, warmth and protection that I feel when I am curling up on a girlfriend's lap.
I am married now, and I love the feeling of lap sitting and hugs from behind My wife loves the feeling of wrapping her arms around me in her lap with a tightened squeeze. And I love being in that position. She is very thin and very tall. I make a light load for her.
I also love the feeling of my feet resting on hers in this position. This suggests that I unconsciously desire a dominant, strong female figure as a partner. I say this because I also always loved if a girl borrowed me her sweater, or a warm down jacket for example.. It's like everything is backwards. But I am completely a heterosexual! My brother is the same way!
I am a househusband/artist. If it's normal or not, the reversed roles work for us. We love it this way.
But with so many girls that seem to prefer the "submissive" role, and guys who seem to enjoy the dominant role, I want to know if my problem is normal.
Are there any guys out there that prefer the submissive role, like lap sitting?
And are there any girls who like to take the dominant role and enjoy for example "lap holding?"
I am married now, and I love the feeling of lap sitting and hugs from behind My wife loves the feeling of wrapping her arms around me in her lap with a tightened squeeze. And I love being in that position. She is very thin and very tall. I make a light load for her.
I also love the feeling of my feet resting on hers in this position. This suggests that I unconsciously desire a dominant, strong female figure as a partner. I say this because I also always loved if a girl borrowed me her sweater, or a warm down jacket for example.. It's like everything is backwards. But I am completely a heterosexual! My brother is the same way!
I am a househusband/artist. If it's normal or not, the reversed roles work for us. We love it this way.
But with so many girls that seem to prefer the "submissive" role, and guys who seem to enjoy the dominant role, I want to know if my problem is normal.
Are there any guys out there that prefer the submissive role, like lap sitting?
And are there any girls who like to take the dominant role and enjoy for example "lap holding?"
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P.S. Please be nice! Insults hurt peoples feelings. Thanks!
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My Update above was or is not directed at anyone who answered! I apologoze to the fellow who thought it was directed to him! I added that update right after I sent the question! Thanks
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