Why must the dynamic of the relationship change?
Some men are full of sh*t, why is it men always say" just be honest babe",.or my personal fav "no matter what just don't lie to me".
How is it a man can say what ever he wants to say, if it is hurtful or inappropriate at the time, etc what ever the case may be, and he's just being "honest".
But the moment we decided to be honest...well oh boy all hell break loose you men act like women on your mensuration.
Attitude, distant, some even bring up the b.s. even after you apologize for hurting there feeling...it's like a f***en joke.
Why is it when we let the cat out the bag, and let you know "hey babes your really not slick, with it,.or I knew you did it 3months ago, hun "u really don't have one up on me. Etc...whatever fits.. All I'm saying why must the dynamic of the relationship change..lol...why is it when you believe you have one up on a person or..u out smart them your great..until they burst your bubble...then I have to offer you cheese with that whine...
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
I wish I could empathize with you, but I can't. While I agree with you that people are afraid of the truth, whether it comes from a loved one or ESPECIALLY when it comes to self discovery (accepting that you are flawed is pretty damn tough), I seriously have NO idea whether or not you are a crazy person.
Please understand, I must've read like 20 posts here on GAG coming from men and woman who give one side of the story, whether it's complaining about their loved one or, hell, even another GAG user. They SEEMED sane and legit, until you actually examined deeper into their story and found out it was actually the person giving the story who was truly insane, not the person who they were ranting about. After all, a clouded mind will perceive EVERYTHING around them as bad, but for all the things they see bad, the one thing they can't see is THEMSELF. Sorry to go all Yoda but, I really am trying to make a point and it usually just comes out kinda weird.
So...I'll be neutral and say I hope everything works out for you.
What Guys Said 7
This is called Girls Ask Guys.
You have no question here. This is just one giant hateful rant against the other gender. This whole thing just sound stupid and sexist. You should all be ashamed of yourselves.
OP - Grow the f*** up, and stop acting like a victim. Just because you have bad taste in men doesn't mean all men are like that.
Men are more sensitive than women? LOL...that's comical.
Gotta admit I'm confused. How about telling us exactly what happened, what you wanted to have happen, and maybe we can help figure out how to make em match up.
That's what guys do. We're not very good at empathizing since that would make it harder for us to club prey and drag it back for the fire in our cave. I'll give it a shot though. I feel for you. You're a good person and just misunderstood.
How did I do? ;-)
What Girls Said 2
I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. May I suggest you be single for a while in order to sort out all you insane insecurities?