Well there's this girl I've really liked for a long time and today I finally told her how I felt...and she tells me...
"I like talking to you too... thing is I'm not ready to go out with anyone yet but I want us to be friends a little longer"
I then I asked her "is it because your not ready or because your talking to other guys?"
She said "kinda both even though I haven't really been talking to a lot of guys its mainly because I'm not ready for a relationship yet"
Those were the main parts of our convo but what does it mean?
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shes not ready for a relatinoship with YOU!, she may like you, but not enough to make a full blown relationship out of it..this is what I say to guys all the time even though its not true, its just the easy way out..i mean she could be telling you the truth about wanting to be friends longer, that is always a possibility, but from my experience and other girls experience that I know, this is what we would say when were not sure/ or don't want a relationship with you..i would move on...ive waited around for guys that give me those b*llshit lines, and nothing has EVER came out of it, except me waiting around like a fool while the guy talks to other girls and never has any intention of settling down with me