she's playing with you.
Im not ready for a relationship excuse bullsh*t
dont talk to her for weeks.
make her suffer by telling her non directly that you don't take this sh*t.
or A: your f***ed, she's just using an excuse like I just wanne be friends with you not having sex with you or anything like that.
or B: she really needs some time up
2 ways to handle it! the good way... probably won't end good or the bad boy way.. wich is more productive and works better
Or A: you can be all emotional be her puppet and listen that she's not ready for a relationship while you keep on pushing her. while that pushing pushes her further away of having a relationship with her
Show her who's the one leading the relationship, if she doesn't wants you then FINE! I won't talk to you for weeks, of course she will be worried more and more why you suddenly don't talk to her again, of course she knows why ...
and she will understand how sincere you are to have a relationship with her, and how much she hurt you. (in a woman perspective)
she will feel bad about it and everything
the bad guy would just say something like: f*** it, I don't want this b**** anymore, if I'm not good enough for her I'll ignore her, I'll just answer her messages, but not get mad or cry about it.
Be hard to get, not some second choiche or some puppet of a girl
You think it doesn't work? it works very well, do not get toyed by the girls.
She's testing how high on the hot scale bord of boys she can get, your just a toy...
What I'm saying is, she will flirt with a lot of boys, starting low, with ugly boys, if she succeeds she will get hotter boys and so on. just keep on toying, she had her ex, now she expects someone as hot as her ex or someone hotter...
Girls say that the inside is more important than the outside? ... psh my ass!
3x major stuff for girls! if you want a girl you need.. Nr1 looks, Nr2 humor and Nr3 social
social in other words, there must be a connection