He would go days without talking to me if I didn't text or call him. He's on vacation right now alone (the first vacation time we've both had with our BUSY schedules for over 5 months), and he's called me maybe twice and ignored my texts. I know what you're thinking, no he's not cheating ;). We had an agreement that when things bother me-I tell him in the moment instead of later so we can fix it. So I talked to him, as I have before..and he apologizes profusely and says I'm right and promises to be more attentive. And then he doesn't do it :(.
To give more examples...he didn't call/visit when I got gnarley stitches, he ignores/ditches me when were with his friends, and when he goes out alone he doesn't text at all (we agree individual time is muy importante).
So my biggest issue is basically that he doesn't give me as much attention as I want/need, says he'll do things differently repeatedly, and stays exactly the same! I am his first "real gf" and we've been dating for about a year now...but is this something to break up for? Maybe I'm just being too needy, idk! I def think there's certain things that can be compromised and I don't want to give up the love of my life for something that may be not as big of a deal as I'm making it. What do you think!?!
PS-I'm a pretty decent looking human and I share that with him every night...I just want HIS attention, not other guys' :(. Help!
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