So, although I am single, I like Valentine's day. I get all these good ideas of things I'd like to get for a girlfriend should I have one. I don't let it discourage me too much, I like to think of ways to make people happy, Valentine's day is kind of my "what if" holiday. I realize I have all these great ideals I even think if exs whom I am on good terms with. I know its inappropriate to get them gifts but still its nice to think about it.
I have all these ideas and I just don't have anything to do with them. I feel like I need to channel this energy somewhere. Despite my positive outlook it can still be depressing.
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Try a Valentine's Advisory blog! LOADS of guys start to flounder over what to do/say for Valentine's Day.
Having said this, it's better to be single on Valentine's Day than to be in a fake relationship on that day and slowly watch the whole thing wilt along with the pretty flowers you got her and disintegrate as soon as the candies are gone...
You could make cute cards and stuff and bring them to a nursing home and ask the staff to give them to people who maybe don't get a lot of visitors. That would probably brighten their day and make you feel good about doing some acts of kindness :)
My goal this year is to make v-day my "f***-it-I-only-live-once" holiday. Be a pimp about it. Use some of your ideas on some cute girl, use it to flirt, whatever. I'm single, I have some ideas, and I'm using it on someone I have zero chance with. F***it, I only live once :)
You might take old t-shirts and make vest with them, you get some old t-shirts, and cut down the middle on one side, then you cut the sleeves off of them, (just don't cut the seams open) You should have a vest to put over your other clothes.