Also, when did you have your first serious relationship?
Sorry if these are personal questions, but I'm curious, because everyone says there's always a time and place, but if you haven't found them yet, there is always doubts.
I met mine in high school. My soul mate and the love of my life (Same person) was my (now EX)Girlfriend's best friend. Though it's not like most people think. I didn't leave one for the other, and it's not like she stole me away. At the time, she was just a really good friend to both of us, and after a while, my ex and I broke up. A few months later, me and my current girlfriend met up, and we became the best of friends. We hung out a little more than weekly. It was pretty great.
So over time I developed feelings for her, and I worked on a strategy for how to tell her. Figuring I'd lead up to it, with hints to see if she'd respond, but nothing. I amped it up over time. Eventually it was big enough so that I was with her on valentines, making her dinner, and I got her a cake, some how she actually MISSED that. So I just went for it, and told her how I felt, and made sure it was pressure free as possible. I made it sound as sincere yet casual as I could.
She shot me down.
Still, a few months later, she told me she has been rethinking how she felt about me, and she realized she had feelings for me, too. She asked me if I would be her boyfriend, and because I'm not an idiot, I said yes.
We've been together for almost six years. This entire time we've both been ridiculously happy, and on cloud nine, at all times. I can count on my one hand the amount of times we've had so much as an argument. It's really been just that smooth. It's perfect. We moved in together almost two years ago, and as of last month, we got engaged. Everything beyond that is still fuzzy on the details, but we can figure that out eventually.
So yeah. That's out story.
That is probably one of the perfect stories. Really cute. Thank you!
No, thank you for your kind words.
I found my soul mate on FaceBook. She added me because of the mutual friends we had in high school. I didn't exactly know her, so...I asked "Do I know you?" We talked every couple of days, and soon everyday. I told her I had some questions to ask her. I got her phone number, we FaceTimed, and I asked if she would like to be my girlfriend. She said, "Could I answer that later?" We continued talking and I fell in love with her. So...one day, I asked "Have you ever considered meeting?" The next things I knew, I flew 1600 miles over just to meet a girl I was unsure about. Who cares? Life is short. I was there for 6 days and everything went perfect. Before I got on the plane, I asked her the question again and she said yes. We text almost everyday, FaceTime on the weekends, and visit each other twice a year. We've been together for a year already. I love her with my everything.
You can find someone anywhere.
Mine was by chance. Never expected to meet him or even talk to him. It was and is my first relationship. I wasn't looking and I wanted to be single nor am I into online dating (I find it weird) but I gave him a chance since he made me laugh, I found him very attractive and I'm never bored of him. I think its a time and place. I actually met him on gag. When I was talking to him I was talking to another guy who goes to my university but I felt a stronger connection to the guy on gag then in person. I flew out to see him, we both fell in love (talked and Skyped for almost a year beforehand) and 3 weeks later he sold his house and moved to Illinois. We currently live together and he is making dinner right now lol... I love him so much you have no clue. Probably the best thing that's happened to me on this site :P
I met mine when I was 6 years old on a swim team. Only I didn't know I'd met him then. He transferred teams after the first year and I quit when I was 13 so I forgot he existed. Then, on vacation, half way across the world, I looked up and there he was again. His parents recognized me and reintroduced us. We hit it off and now, five years later, here we are, still dating and discussing marriage.
We're not married, but there won't ever be anyone else for me. It's him or no one.
This is lame, but he is my first serious relationship. I had one before him, but it only lasted nine months and wasn't very serious at all.
First serious relationship, which I'm still in, we met in college. I was 17 though because I went early. He was 19. We started dating the summer after that first year, and it's been about 2.5 years now, though we had a break for a few months. Right now I'm still not sure he's my soulmate, but he could be!
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online dating ,when I was 19, he's my first and hopefully last boyfriend, been together over a year and a half now. things are awesome :)
Everyone keeps saying it's this kid I've known since I was little. But I doubt it. I like to think my soul mate is still out there somewhere.
I haven't. where the hell is he hiding? lol
I think aMuse is trying to tell you something.
After high school and it was kinda by chance.
destiny not chance.
I guess.
Didnt yet lol
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