is neediness. if you feel a shift in the relationship (especially after the honeymoon stage) whatever you do, DO NOT act needy!
FOr guys doing this to a girl, it is a big turn off and a woman that was your girl will not be your girl. Stay confident and casual. Be aloof but yet be caring and loving naturally. Even in the beginning, try to take it slow. Even though the natural dopamine love drug high makes you want to tell her your constant love and chronic affection. Portion the emotions out. Spread it out like butter on toast. Enjoy that bliss moment. don't fear what's to come either. Fearing what you think might have bad happen will probably happen
Dont be needy. it bothers people! Almost anybody! Am I right guys? don't be the obligation. Be the attraction
I agree being needy, desperate and clingy is bad. I agree that being insecure, jealous or even having some anger issues is wrong too. But SOME of the above qualities to some extent is forgivable in some circumstances.
If a person is fun to be around, it's easier to forgive their flaws.
But if a person is boring, there is NOTHING they can do to save themselves.