The most unnattractive thing in the world...
is neediness. if you feel a shift in the relationship (especially after the honeymoon stage) whatever you do, DO NOT act needy!FOr guys doing this to a girl, it is a big turn off and a woman that was your girl will not be your girl. Stay confident and casual. Be aloof but yet be caring and loving naturally. Even in the beginning, try to take it slow. Even though the natural dopamine love drug high makes you want to tell her your constant love and chronic affection. Portion the emotions out. Spread it out like butter on toast. Enjoy that bliss moment. don't fear what's to come either. Fearing what you think might have bad happen will probably happenDont be needy. it bothers people! Almost anybody! Am I right guys? don't be the obligation. Be the attraction
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Good thing I don't have this problem.
What Girls Said 3
Well said! Neediness and uncalled for jealousy is what ended most of my relationships!
I think selfishness is.
I don't mind a bit of neediness. I'd rather he was a touch needy that very distant and off with me - at least I'd feel loved.
What Guys Said 3
You are only right for some people. Some people want an insanely needy relationship and to be attached at the hip. Needy people can get along with other needy people just fine.
The most unattractive thing is being boring.I agree being needy, desperate and clingy is bad. I agree that being insecure, jealous or even having some anger issues is wrong too. But SOME of the above qualities to some extent is forgivable in some circumstances.If a person is fun to be around, it's easier to forgive their flaws.But if a person is boring, there is NOTHING they can do to save themselves.
You're right. You must be really good with girls.