Why do men have mistresses?
After almost a year, I realized I was the "other woman". I got caught up in all the fireworks and his charming ways. I don't understand why he'd... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
Some men just aren't capable of settling down and being monogamous. They try to tell themselves and other people that they can be like that, but the reality is that they can't. Until they can be honest with themselves, they will continue to hurt themselves (and drag other people down with them).
What Guys Said 3
Ouu that stings just to read. Sorry to hear that girlie :(
It's not just men tho, 9 years ago my ex-wife was cheating on me with my best friend.
in one day lost best friend which I beat the sh*t out of, my wife, kids, house, and the shirt off my back plus all the toys I lost through a messed up divorce.
So yeah I wonder why sometimes too.
You fell for a trick, MOVE ON.
What Girls Said 2
Cheaters are master manipulators. They can use tears to gain your trust and manipulate. They are selfish and entitled, and either compartmentalize or don't in their heads. It's a form of abuse to their spouse. It isn't a gender thing because women cheat about just as much.
I recommend you read NOT Just Friends by Dr. Shirley Glass, but do take the parts blaming the scorned spouse with a huge lump of salt. The fact that this guy cheated on his wife wasn't her fault or your fault, it was HIS fault.
Also, some people are naturally monogamous and others are not.
Some men or even women can be selfish and take others for granted.
get yourself together and move on.