Why does me call me 'his love' if he has a girlfriend?
My friend keeps calling me his love even though he just got himself a girlfriend!
Why does he do this?
It's not like a pet name for me...it's just that on every opportunity we're together he tries to show me that he cares for me...touches me...makes me laugh, puts his face SO close to mine...whispers in my ear sometimes, messes up my hair, pinches me (just like in grade school xD)...
And, we were talking the other day, and joking around (teasing each other like we always do), and he tells me; ...'You should see me in bed!'!
He tells me he loves me on many occasions...but in a coy and cute way. :) I kinda do the same... He tells me he hates me and then a second later he can't take it anymore so he tells me he loves me!
And...all in all, I'm 'his love'... WTF
What does he actually mean by this?!?
I need to know. I just do! Please help!
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What Guys Said 3
Ugh, the "I love you / I hate you" act is a seriously bad sign. It shows a complete lack of self-control and an inability to form healthy relationships.
Hitting on you that hard when he has a girlfriend is another seriously bad sign. Unless they're explicitly in some kind of open relationship, he's obviously willing to lie to his current gf.
He sounds like an almost certain serial cheater and a drama queen. I'd stay the hell away from him unless you're into that kind of thing!
What Girls Said 3
It sounds like he is interested in you and does love you but does not want to be more than friends because he is scared of ruining your friendship and loosing you because if things go further and then go wrong. He will loose you as it will be very hard to going back to just being friends.
Now that he has a girlfriend on the scene I would be careful about your behaviour around him and the amount of time that you spend together. You can still be friends and do things together but you should not be messing around with each other and flirting because that is not respectful to him and his girlfriend and I don't think she will be happy if she found out.