I would tred lightly, while she could have been rejecting you, she could also honestly truly feel this way. Out of all the guys I have ever known, I have turned down the guy I was the most crazy about, the only guy I could see myself marrying, for that exact reason! Part of me feels that it was the biggest mistake of my life. However, another part of me goes look what you are doing, look what you have done, if it where really meant to be then he will be there when you are ready and will like you more for what you have done with your life. So far, I am still not ready. Deep down, I don't think he is either.
Think about what SHE said. What do YOU think she was really saying? What do her dreams look like? What do your dreams look like? Do they line up now? Will they ever? No matter your answer to these questions, go and live your life now! If it is meant to be it will happen and she will love you more for what you have done with your life and you have allowed her to do. Don't think of this as a rejection, think of it as an opportunity to be you, before you become and us.
Ask yourself if SHE'S worth it to you. Could you live your life not wondering 'what if' if you don't make a move? If you really like this girl I would give it some time. Who knows? She may be ready sooner than you think.
Sometimes, it really does mean they aren't ready for a relationship. And, if they were looking for one, they may consider you. However, even if a girl (or at least me) isn't ready, if it's the right guy, she'll become ready. But, if you don't make her ready when she's not, then waiting for her won't make a difference, because you aren't the one. Sorry.
For me, it means that I am not ready to get emotionally involved. If I am not interested, I will let a guy know right away. However, if my response is 'I am not ready for a relationship'...it just means I have some things I need to work through or get over.
You don't want to get mixed up with her. She's most likely a liar and a coward. That's the typical excuse when they don't want to go out with you. I think it's stupid. Even if she wasn't ready for a relationship, you could've hung out as friends.
that's usually an excuse for "im not interested." I said usually. Not always. Sometimes the girl truly isn't ready because of something going on in her life. But it's usually an excuse so don't stick around
Sometimes it could just be that she wants to see what you are all about. Afterall it doesn't make sense to jump into a relationship, realize it's not working and break up after 3 weeks. So she just wants to be comfortable when she's getting into one,
From what I've seen, they say that because they truly aren't sure that they are in the right position to have one, whether emotionally or physically. Emotionally in the sense that they have been hurt and think they can never be 'well' again. Physically because they think they can do better than what you have to offer (appearance, stature, status) and are looking for a quick way to get out.
It means she has some issues regarding her past relationship that is concurrently brought towards the present. However, it also means she is willing to take small steps to be friends before she decides to take a large leap. You may like her a lot with sincerity but she may not see it that way, she may see it as a line of willing or not willing to date to jeopardize her emotion.
I'm not like the others who think it's a definitive meaning of she isn't interested in you. I know some girls who are pretty f'd up and can acknowledge it and admit that they really aren't ready for any relationship with any guy.
That being said, definitely move on emotionally. Don't wait around for her. If another girl comes in your life, then take that opportunity. But I wouldn't say write off this other girl forever. If you're still single and she does start opening up, then by all means take that opportunity too.
I would move on cause chances are she isn't ready emotionally and probably has other things going through her life right and just considers me as I a friend first. Plus she knows I like her but doesn't have the same feelings toward ke as I do toward her. I think her saying "I am not ready for a relationship" means I don't want to be in one with you right now or maybe it just took her by surprise.
Come on, girls are always ready for a relationship. I mean they want that stick and The Rock would say... strudel too. She's ready for a relationship, just like any other girl. But she just doesn't want to be in one with you.