Anyway, I just don't know what to do from here. I feel completely broken. I haven't stopped feeling pain since it happened. It hurts to breathe, it hurts to exist. Thinking of him is painful, but thinking of other guys is unbearable. I feel like I don't want to be happy, but I can't stand feeling so miserable.
He told me that he wanted to still be friends and he sounded like he meant it, but I don't know that I can go back to being just friends. I love him and I want him in my life, but I'm positive that I can't be around him until I stop being in love with him. And I don't want to stop being in love with him because that'll mean that I've given up on us being together.
As you can see, I'm a total mess. The first time I'd had my heart broken was painful, but now, the second time, I feel destroyed. I don't know how I'll be able to love again, I'm too scared of this happening a third time.
I guess what I'm asking is, what should I do? Should I tell him what a hard time I'm having and say that I don't know if I can be friends, or should I pretend I'm fine to avoid awkwardness if we do ever become friends? Other than that, any helpful words would be wonderful. I feel so lost and broken.
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