My boyfriend has a fan club? Why does it bother me so much?

[Anonymous]

So I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we love each other very much he is always there for me and our personalities match a lot. He is very attractive and he does some modelling work and I found out there are a group of girls that built this stupid fan club in his honour this being going for one year. For some reason it annoys me a lot the way they talk about him they obsessiveness about his attractiveness and just everything he does also it makes me feel insecure about it like I'm not good enough for him. He is really naive and I can tell that he doesn't care about the club or any other girls that hit on him he always has this bored look on his face when it comes to other girls do I have no reason to worry but still it annoys me a lot ? What can I do

The fan club is to that big there is only 20 members or so but still...

[Paris13]

If it doesn't seem to "turn him on" about this "frivolous fan club," then don't let it bother you. I can understand why you would be annoyed about a bunch of sex starved Sally s lusting over your model man, but he chose you to be with, so don't feel as though you are "not good enough", you should know better than this, sweetie. If he has the start of a future in the modeling field, you may as get used to the groupies and the fan club females. There is nothing you can really do about it, so either keep your "insecurities" to yourself, or you may end up NOT making it to the six month with him.

[Anonymous]

There's no reason to be annoyed; you should be proud. Out of the all the women who adore him, YOU are the only one he calls his girlfriend. That should make you feel very special.

I'm not saying it's easy to develop such a mindset; I remember feeling very jealous when I saw my girlfriend dancing with other guys after we first started dating. But who was she leaving with? Me. So I learned to stop feeling jealous and keep in mind that regardless of who wanted to talk to her or be with her, she had chosen me.

[Prof_Don]

Having a high in high demand guy should boost your ego, not make you insecure. Train your mind to think this way! :)

[CellLuddite]

If I had a fan club, I know for sure I'd date every single girl in it.

[Anonymous]

you boyfriend's name wouldn't be hot stud lover cupcake would it?

[Asker]

Ahahah noo why?

[kambo_trick3y]

It couldn't be hot stud lover cupcake. She said "group" of fangirls, if it was him she would have said "every girl on our entire planet and even some female aliens located on other ones."

[Opinion Owner]

and don't forget his male fans like me.