why would you care about a person who screwed you over. and why would you project that onto your next relationship.
people get hurt all the time, even with the best of intentions. that's part of life. its unreasonable to take it out on another person, including yourself.
imo if someone screws you over be happy you learnt sooner rather than later how a shitty they are, and take w/e else you learnt into your life. but not asa blame.
im not sure what you want. would you want the person who was willing to screw you over to have not done so? do you think they would be a good person suddenly? they wot. there going to b the same jerk. so good you found out and good riddance.
you can't control your life based on others remorse. you control it based on your actions.
if you feel bad, what good does remorse do you. none.
some people do feel remorse. over and over again. and they convince the person they are with that they feel bad so they start over and over again. it can go on for decades. I think its best to just to learn the character of a person and walk on.
remorse won't help when what you need to do is move on, imo. remorse can just confuse things, because most times what people want when they say remorse, is really just them to feel bad and come back. they want to illicit the desire in them for change, to believe thy have changed and things are OK.
a jerk is a jerk. no matter how remorseful. .. often the bigger the jerk the more the remorse.. for 'now'.
some people get off on remorse. it makes them feel they have the power to hurt someone and the power to draw them back in with their 'remorse' its a whole ego fetish.
imo, your dignity and self respect, is the important thing. not their 'remorse'.
Wow wow woooow there! First of all the phrase "why do ALL guys" or "why do ALL girls" should never be used under any circumstances. That is a gross exaggeration and inflicts a negative image onto HALF OF THE POPULATION. Do you not realize how ignorant that makes you sound?
I'm sorry you have had bad experiences in your romantic life, and maybe it seems like all men are horrible because all the men you've been with HAVE been horrible. And you know what? There are just as many cruel women who screw guys over all the time. So its not like guys are the only guilty ones here. Unfortunately a lot of people are just shitty.
Because they don't love her to begin with.Some people get into a relationship for a wrong reason. Apparently some women chose the wrong guys with self-entitlement attitude so no,whatever you do (love him,lowered your self esteem) won't change them.
Some people find love as a type of game, they will hop from one relationship to the next just because it makes them feel good about themselves, some type of weird power complex.
I have actually had my heartbroken, so I could be asking this question to girls but honestly this question shouldn't be focused on a specific sex but directed towards the assholes/bitches that don't seem to care.
There are many guys that aren't like this, and care about the person they are with. Maybe your just attracted to the wrong people.
You should ask the girls who've screwed me over why they don't feel remorse. Girls who think their sex is somehow better and exempt from doing shitty things are the same exact people who fuck guys about without even realizing it. You are a sexist and you need to stop being ignorant.
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You are missing the point. The question is why are some people cruel, guys and girls both. What you describe is the definition of cruel: hurtful without remorse. It's not an easy question to answer and it's not by any means limited to guys or to relationships. Girls and children and be just as cruel.
First off, why would a guy who cares so little suddenly feel remorse? He wouldn't.
Second, not all guys are like that. Most are not. But unfortunately women's desires are very uniform, much more than men's. For example, some men like tall women, some short, some medium. By contrast, almost all women prefer tall men. That's just one example. What that means is that men who are truly romantically successful can get away with a lot, because there just isn't much competition.
Not all guys do, but the ones that do this, don't see anything wrong with going for what they want (sex) and getting it.
If you're hungry, you get food. You don't feel bad about it.
When they are horny, they get sex. They don't see any reason to feel remorse over it.
Why don't girls? I've never "screwed" a girl over, girls always did that to me, went out with me just to dump me just because I'm the nice guy type that wants to be loved and have sex eventually or do sexual things in the meantime and just cause I want to explore her beautiful body too
Why do women do exactly what they complain about men doing, which is make generalizations about all men based on the actions of a few? Fucking hypocrites.
Why do girls go for jerks who treat them like shit? Perhaps girls should gain better perspective and better judgment
Because most guys that have the status looks, money so they know that they don't have to take what they can get and they know that they'll hardly ever get rejected. It's rare for a guy/girl to respect men /women when they know they have options and men/women make it known that they have options by fawning over them.
Blanket statements don't work. You are describing douche bags and they do exactly what is expected of an douche bags to be terrible.
It seems like you keep picking the wrong type of guys. You can smell a jerk from a mile away.
Because they can and women choose guys like that.
Idk girls do the same thing and cheat more
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