Do not do it if ur not comfortable! Otherwise the relationship will nosedive REAL quick. If he doesn't want to respect that than keep it moving. And the common misconception is that an open relationship means dating and screwing other people. In the pimp world u would be considered a bottom bitch - meaning he is sincerely committed to u but wants to sleep around with other chicks.
Ur relationship is brand new, and he may be afraid of being tied down hence the reason for keeping his iptions open. If I don't like the idea and he doesn't want to respect it that means had doesn't respect u!
IMHO I would cut ties to ur relationship and if he shows lack if sympathy with u voicing ur opinion u should end it now bc he's going to haunt u until u agree and the only in one that will b hurt is u and it WILL cause resentment bc ur giving and not receiving.
Best of luck to u Hun
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Rosie
At least he was honest. IT is normal for SOME people. Everyone isn't monogamous.
However, if YOU ARE 100% monogamous, you should find someone who IS 100% monogamous.
There are MULTIPLE relationship dynamics that many couples have. That include swinging, open relationships, poly relationships, est.
The REASONS behind them vary, the most common factor is the ability to enjoy emotional and/or sexual gratification from other people, while maintaining a stable relationship.
IF this ISN'T a relationship dynamic for YOU then YOU should leave the relationship, AS HE may CHEAT ON YOU.
ITs only been two months, you can find someone else.
If it was about you, he'd break up with you and then go date other girls. I think he just wants to have more options as great as he thinks you are (I know that sounds wrong). He's probably just confused on what he wants but doesn't want to break up with you in fear of losing you for good.
Let it subside.. no real harm was done but if he starts to act strange like not talking to you as much, getting distracted, cancelling plans then I suggest you stop seeing him before he does.
It's normal for some people. It's obviously not your thing.
But yes, for many many guys, one girl, no matter who she is, will never be enough. They may settle for one girl, who is the best girl in the world for them... but she will never satisfy all of his needs, if one of those needs is to be with multiple women.
I seriously doubt it has anything to do with you. He's likely just not ready or wanting (or capable!) of being in a committed monogamous relationship.
I hate to be negative, but based on your reaction to his proposal it seems like this is the beginning of the end between you guys. Sorry.
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it seems to me like he used you. as if he only dated you just to get laid. bc really? after 2 months? you guys aren't serious enough yet and he brings it up. he wasn't serious about you and he won't be with any of the other girls.
definitely not normal. should totally leave... someone has to end it.
Some guys just can't settle down young, but that does not mean you have to even hear this nonsense. It's like a fantasy but in the real world, NO ONE is going to date him on those terms. If I were you, I wouldn't take it personally, but I would let him go.
He isn't ready to commit to you and only you. Yeah, I know it hurts but there isn't really much you can do about it. Give yourself some space and think on it. Do you like him that much that you are willing to share him?
I wouldn't be with him after he said so. If he wants to date other people, fine, but not while being with you, unless you're ok with it, but you're clearly not.
I know it hurts. But I'd leave.
Break up with him now, even if he brought up the idea.
He is saying you are not enough for him and likes other girls. He probably cheated on you at this point to be honest.
Because many guys want to have their cake and eat it... If they can get more they'll take it.
No its not, he's a loser, its not so much wanna date as wanna sleep with other woman honestly
I'll be honest you probbly should leave this guy, he seems like someone he would cheat. It oes not seem normal to me honestly.
I would assume he is just not that into you and wants to sleep around
Could have cheated, and or he's currently cheating, and feels bad about it
Not normal. If it was me I'd tell him to F off.
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