She might have new what would make you mad but its not your crazy gfs fualt that you abused drugs or that you beat up A Girl. You need to take responsibility for your actions, that was all you even thought this girl sounds messed up. And you lefted your gf for a girl because she had money and you wanted sex? If your that shallow to leave your gf for someone just because ypu wanted money and you were going to get free sex I think you also need therapy because something tells me there's something else wrong other then your rage issues. Maybe you haven't quite dealt with the death of your ex girlfriend? At first I thought you were a little crazy whenn i read this not going to lie but now I feel like there's much more going on underneath the surface that explains your behavior. I think that maybe you abuse substances because you subconsciouly never dealt with the loss of your ex gf and it would explain why you blew up like that. I strongly suggest you see a therapist and still get help with your addictions. I also think you need should create a diary to help you understand you own self more, like your thoughts and feelings and it will keep you from holding everything in cuz thats not healthy, leave this extreme pycho ass bitch of a gf you have because this bitch is crazy, somehow she figured out your trigger and she fired at it then mulipulative you to believe it was the other girl just so she would have no competition because npw both girls are out the picture. She sounds like a pychopath and she scares me. She got you to do her dirty work for her. she's evil and can't be trusted. Also I think your other ex gf deserves a apology. Even if she hates your guts I thinknyou owe it to her and youmwill feel better. Try to surround yourself with positive people you can't afford to surround yourself with crazy twisted people right now you need to heal..
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Its pretty terrible of your military girlfriend to have set you up to blame your ex, obviously you wouldn't want to associate with her anymore. First, realize that you have a problem that needs fixing. Your reaction isn't acceptable, violence is no solution. Really, by dumping all your emotions unto this poor girl you nearly killed, do you think you accomplished anything by it? Does beating anyone to a pulp restore whats been lost? Learn from your mistakes. Keep going to counseling, therapy, the gym, any place to release stress. Most importantly, learn from your mistakes. Back up photos, be careful with sharing password information, and really get to know a woman before inviting her to stay at your place. I really hope your situation improves. All, the best!
I understand you would be upset to have memories erased but your reaction was beyond over the top and plain wrong. Hopefully, counseling will help. I strongly suggest you enter into an anger management program as well since you didn't mention whether you were under the influence of alcohol or drugs when you beat this girl. Psychotherapy might help too. Until you have your temper/anger issues sorted out, stay out of the dating scene in the meantime.
Regardless of what she / she did - you have NO right to beat up your ex. That is FUCKING PATHETIC. Over fucking pictures? Come on. Get a fucking grip. You are pathetic. How are you not in jail? Go check yourself in if not already there.
Hitting a woman is fucking disgusting. I don't care your reason - you HAVE NO EXCUSE. You are sick and need help. Violence is never the answer unless your life is being threatened and you have no option. We live in a civilized society and it is people like you that are contributing to the downfall of society. Dramatic yes but true.
I hope once you found out the truth you tried the same shit on the military girl and she knocked the shit out of you. Although I doubt that happened because you would probably be too afraid to confront her physically as you know she would destroy you. People like you are pathetic. I am sickened to read this post and hope karma comes around for you. People like you belong in the zoo or jail not in society with normal people. Violence isn't the answer except for the lowest members of society - you probably can't express yourself intelligibly and resort to violence. Again seek help and a jail cell.
If you nearly beat someone to death, you will likely be going to prison if caught, it constitutes (here in the uk) as GBH. What your ex did was wrong and horrible, but you tried to justify it by physically maming her. You need to sort whatever problems you have in your life out, calm down and THEN find a nice girl and not rush into a relationship. It seems to me the types of girls you are attracted to are bad for you and this compounds any problems you allready have. A relationship with a person should be a positive thing, not destructive.
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Hmmm... you're a damn psycho. Also, stop trying to blame someone else for you losing control. It YOUR fault that you loss control. Hopefully some type of program can help you... and neither one of these girls should ever deal with you again. Good luck.
Naw, you're garbage and nothing is going to change that.
Also may want to go to a therapist who specializes in personality disorders
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