Why do guys in my class like looking at this girl in particular?

[Anonymous]

She's pretty quiet and she barely has any friends and whenever we have to get into groups nobody asks her so she'll join the guys group. She doesn't wear fashionable clothes they're just plain and she doesn't do her makeup or hair it's just down every day and she barley has friends but boys would always stare at her I mean honestly why? She's not even popular at school so why would they stare at HER? she's so weird literally all my friends who are girls don't like her. I have WAY more friends than her too so I'm a lot popular but guys don't look at me as much as they look at her. Why would they like such an outcast?

[hibay]

Probably because those guys at your school don't like catty, mean, vain girls? I feel bad for this girl, she's probably very nice. So what if she doesn't have a lot of friends and you and your friends think she's "weird"? Guys aren't attracted to girls because they wear trendy clothes and have a lot of friends. She's probably got a naturally pretty face, a nice body, and a down to earth personality. Why don't you and your friends like her? Boys might like her for all the same reasons that you don't. Being yourself and being a nice person are attractive traits.

[Anonymous]

Those guys don't put their minds in boxes labeled "GO WITH THE FLOW AND ONLY LIKE WHAT THE MAJORITY LIKES"... Wish there were more people in the world like that..
I'm sure you're a great catch in your own right and that girl is no better or worse than you.. but having more friends than her or being "popular" doesn't mean more guys will be attracted to you. I know you're under 18 but at some point you'll have to grow up and realize that your views on human attraction are severely flawed, my dear.

[enigmatta]

Would you mind describing her? Physically? Or maybe post a link to a woman/actress that looks like her? If it's not her personality or humour, or brains, it must be her face or body.

[Janson]

You sound a little conceited honestly. But since you're under 18, I'll give you a pass. The number of friends is meaningless to me, and most guys. The girl you described sounds like someone i myself would gravitate towards, simply because she seems to enjoy the finer things in life, and is not overly concerned about her social status. She sounds humble, down to earth, and unconcerned with the rabble that girls your age tend to drone on and on about. I don't blame the guys in your class for taking an interest in her. I would too

[jesseray]

Guys do not care about fashion and makeup as much as the fashion and makeup industries want you to believe. Indeed, most young girls develop an obsession with fashion and makeup because they are insecure to the point of being neurotic, irritating, and just plain unsexy. A girl who is secure with herself, humble, and able to relax on all that fashion and makeup stuff? Sexy.

[Sinister]

Wah Wah Wah! So what if your soooo popular and have so many friends that doesn't mean every guy should kneel down and bend on back for you, they will like whoever they want no matter what you think, say or do. Maybe she isn't into the fake that seems to run rampant in high school she's just being her. Maybe if you changed your outlook and attitude then maybe guys would like you, but from the way you sound, I doubt it.

[shacodraco]

Does it piss you off that she's hotter than you without even trying? Guys don't care how many friends you have, if a girl is pretty she is pretty and guys will like her. Get over yourself.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Maybe you and all your friends are bitchy and they like her personality.

[Troyana123]

should be very attractive or perhaps is this attitude that she has and to intrigue the guys

[Asker]

What do you mean by "attitude"? What kind of attitude intrigues guys?

[Troyana123]

Because it is different to the others girls, and sometimes it Seems men think is sexy

[janine167]

Is she gorgeous?

[Asker]

she's kind of pretty