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I want a girl that likes me for me. So I pay for the first 5 dates then split 50/50. In my case with my ex, we setup a joint bank account and put equal money inside. She agreed to this.

Then when we were about to breakup suddenly, you didn’t make me feel special. She knew I’m not looking for a gold digger and a girl that likes me for me. Especially as she knew about my background before meeting me!!

I make double her, and come from a wealthy background. I do go after pretty girls and she did say she’s used to being provided for.

Is there anything wrong with what I did?

If she actually liked me she would stick it out right? Not to mention I was good to her, consistent and caring/sensitive!

If you are really rich is it okay to split bills with your beautiful girlfriend who makes more modest money?

You pay for like the first 6 dates then split it 50/50.

Reasoning, both are working and you’ve only known her for a few months. You as the man don’t want to be used for money/date a gold digger. You want a girl that likes you for you.

Is that fair play?

The guy is from a really rich family and only recently started making a lot of money.

The first few dates the the guy paid. Then 50/50 on everything. Is there anything wrong with that?

He would spend hours on the phone everyday and drive to see her a lot straight after work.

Treated her well, caring, emotionally available. Even when broke up he did not insult her. Did gift her but not expensive things.

Girl felt the guy should have contributed more monetarily to make her feel special.

Imagine dating a guy from a really rich family and he earns double what you earn, making good money.

Let’s say he is cautious he pays for the first dates then requests 50/50. So you set up a joint account and put equal money in. He also gets you modest, not like designer stuff.

The reasons are due to concerns of being used, finding a gold digger, and being fair. Also concerns of like what if the girl leaves you and you’ve made this financial commitment to pay for the majority.