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Do these college guys actually like us or is this just weird behavior?
So me and my friend (girls, both young adults) have basically zero experience with guys, and we’re both shy, so please help us because we feel like we’re losing the plot. Situation 1: My friend suddenly goes, “That guy...
Kelly_03
Xper 1 Age: 23 Female Coworker?
I don’t know her and never talk with her. She is always looking at me up close or at a distance. I have caught her looking directly at me and she will suddenly turn around becoming busy. This has been occurring months now...
Anonymous
(36-45) What are your thoughts on my best friend who betrayed me do you believe she is a narcissist?
So I founded out that my now ex best friend betrayed me behind my back and dated a guy I told her that I had a crush on for years and her excuse was something wrong I did when I was a teenager and I couldn't express my...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Learn to Let Them Go
This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...
He Said He Didn’t Want a Relationship, But Still Kept Coming Back — Then Posted His Girlfriend?
I want to share my experience because I’ve been really confused by this guy. This will be long, but the details matter, because it wasn’t just a simple breakup. It’s been months of mixed signals and push-pull behavior. I...
Leaxleaaa
Xper 1 Age: 26 Thoroughly confused by his behavior and don’t know how to ask him about his motives?
I went out with a guy 4 times in 3 weeks, with the most recent date being two weeks ago. He was busy last weekend but clearly hasn’t been prioritizing me. His communication suddenly dropped off, too, so I assumed he was...
Katarina88
Xper 5 Age: 38 Can a guy and girl go on a platonic vacation?
I (F27) have a friend (M26) im attracted to. We get along so incredibly well. We can talk for hours about anything without pauses. We have the same hobbies, interests, career goals are the same, etc. I’ve known him for 3...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are guys usually less obvious than they think in showing their interest in a girl?
I've been thinking about something. There's this girl whose behavior I tried to read in order to understand if she could be into me or not. And the way in which I do this "analysis" is often by assuming that she must know...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, My crush thinks I am a creep but has weird behavior like staring? (Long read by the way)?
I have a crush named Caleb, a sweet senior. I can’t date him because my parents won’t allow it and he doesn’t share my faith. I confided in a friend about my feelings, but she told him without my knowledge. When I found...
Anonymous
(18-24) Guy I was hooking up with wants to be friends?
I met this guy at a party in the city. We hooked up and dated for 9 days. It was fast and i fell in love. He then hits me with "I'm not ready for a relationship but I really want to stay friends because I really like...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you you think of my diary post today?
I've added/hidden bits for anonymity or context Today feels like a haze of frustration and exhaustion. The past few days have left me feeling a bit flat, like I'm carrying around the weight of too many inconsistent...
Crimsyjo
Guru Age: 47 I kinda miss him?
I met this guy I have know for a while yesterday at a friends hangout, we met in 2021 and this was the second time I saw him since then, we spoke in 2022 but he was abroad so it didn't really go anywhere, I used to have a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Help me out with this dude?
A guy I know he is always kind, very sweet and seems to be a good friend. I know him through my family.. but he just confuses me. But his behaviors are odd. Here are a few that have happened. He will engage fully with...
Anonymous
(30-35) I don’t even know he confuses me?
A guy I know he is always kind, very sweet and seems to be a good friend. I know him through my family.. but he just confuses me. But his behaviors are odd. Here are a few that have happened. He will engage fully with...
Anonymous
(30-35) Doesn’t seem interested but still talking to me?
I’m American and met a girl from East Germany while traveling in hostel. We were staying in same shared room. I find her cute and introduce myself when I get in. Invite her to hangout. Buy her a beer and have friendly...
Caz26
Xper 3 Age: 35 Can anyone help me debunk this weird behavior?
I've been thinking about this guy that seemed to like me but claimed he didn't. he led me on but of course but it's deeper than that. He had to like me at some point right? When I told him how I felt, he either lied (to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my crush interested in me?
Hey everyone, I wanted to share something that happened and get your thoughts on it. Recently, I approached a guy I like, let’s call him X. I was really nervous, and it took a lot of effort for me to start a conversation...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don't a lot of the guys on here get that just because you CAN stare at a woman creepily doesn't mean you SHOULD do that?
So there's been a number of times on here where a woman will say something to the effect of 'It's ok to look but NOT stare!' and then guys will come around and say 'its my RIGHT to stare so i will do as i please.' And i...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
Have you ever questioned weather or not you were doing the chasing in a relationship?
Many of you know me, I've been married for almost 10 years, and together with my wife for almost 12. Upon reflection of our relationship and how we met, i feel like she did more chasing than i did. For example, we met at...
worldscolide
Master Age: 42 He calls me sister but his behavior and how he treats me is confusing?
I have a close guy friend whom I hang out with and we talk a lot. He would say things like “i’ll always make time for you because i like you (as a friend)” and we hang out quite a bit. He’s very caring and takes care of...
Anonymous
(25-29) 