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How does trauma play into your fantasies?

So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
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How common is severe stress and depression among college students?

A happiness professor at Yale said online that 40% of college students were so depressed they believed they could not function and when I studied this statistic, google said the rate was over 40-46% that said they could...
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Did I just get played?

I am very lonely and have no one. No friends, no family, live in a city where its hard as hell to date. So I went on a dating app, very cute guy messaged me. We texted for 2 weeks, we got to know each other very well. By...
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As a Latina mom, is preferring western parenting and culture unusual?

I'm a Latina that was raised in Florida (ages 4 to 20) with somewhat traditional parents and my father still had old-school views. I've always felt out of place, as if I never felt connection with religion and that my...
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Are relationship standards actually attractive or a red flag?

There’s the extreme of superficial and unrealistic standards as well as double standards having standards for someone else they don’t hold themselves to. At the same time when someone has real standards if she then...
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Is he just busy and hurting, or actually not interested in me?

Exchanged #'s with a guy I'd see around. We texted for over a week. He said he's desperate for connection and having trouble making friends. I invited him to an event. He said he could make himself available". OK I...
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Is it a bad idea to be friends with my apartment leasing agent?

I ask because I feel already an imbalance of power. Leasing agent is a few years younger then me. Weeks back our community had a social event, we chatted and exchanged #'s. That nighy she invited me to do a dance class...
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How do you meet new people?

Im kind of having trouble to meet new people. I need to have new connections but I don’t really feel that people want that now. My colleagues at work all rush to their lives once work is over, people at gym don’t even...
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Is it okay to prefer an outspoken child over a fearful, obedient one?

I'll be honest and many of the old-school people might criticize me for this but if I had to select between the extremes (if those were the only options) of a fearful, submissive and obedient child or an outspoken one......
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I feel awful about what happened with the guy I was dating. Did he lie all along or was he just avoidant?

I was dating a guy for a few weeks and had been on a couple of dates. Things were slow paced but I figured from what he explained as wanting to build an emotional connection first, that this would obviously build up...
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Is it time to give AI total control of our nuclear weapons?

According to an article in New Scientist, AI is rather keen on having a nuclear war. In over 95% of war game scenarios, they very quickly go from diplomacy to launching a nuclear attack at a far earlier stage than humans...
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Why do you think rich, wealthy people or doctors are generally more sophisticated (less violent) in their crimes?

For instance a male stalker (common criminal mentality) that got rejected or dumped, will likely stab his victim. However, suddenly rules changed when it's someone very wealthy or they're doctors. They can still have...
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Do you know why you're drawn to your type? Have your type/taste ever changed, if so why?

As I'm way in deep with therapy, psycological, myself, I'll figure I ask you all, as it would be interesting to know. As for me I have been drawn to guys who've been through some bad stuff which in one way has matured...
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Do you agree or disagree with Charlie Kirk?

“When you stop having a human connection with someone you disagree with, it becomes a lot easier to want to commit violence against that group.” - Charlie Kirk. Do you agree or disagree with Charlie Kirk? Charlie...
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He committed to someone he told me not to worry about, now wants to have an affair with me?

2 years ago I got into a long distance open relationship with an avoidant man, who hasn’t had a relationship last longer than 8 months in the last 10 years… We kept meeting up and traveling together, but when I expressed...
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Would you date someone with different political views?

there's this guy who I really like and he's asked me out a couple of times but he's extremely left wing whilst im definitely not. Im British and he's American. We met due to work and were both constantly travelling...
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Is it wrong for a Latina woman growing a healthy foundation with a ugly caucasian man?

I see two people growing a healthy foundations over their connections then most people having rigid checklists and doing interviews process before dating. Healthy foundation: I see a respectful, honest and a safe...
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Why More and More People Are Quitting Social Media: My Perspective

It’s no longer a secret and not something Meta and probably TikTok can hide either. More and more people - namely younger ones - are quitting social media in record numbers. There are even news reports on it as well. It...
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A Reminder at Christmas...

Holidays can be a time of happiness, joy, festivities, indulgence, and relaxation. Sharing holidays can form newfound connections, long-lasting memories, and deeper relationships. But not everyone gathers at a tree. Not...
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Do guys like having a deep emotional connection with a girl or is it too much?

Do guys like this? I mean say you like a girl. She’s physically very attractive and you are able to connect emotionally on a deeper level, you can talk about things in depth, not just surface, but is it too much? Or do...
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