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oh god you cannot be serious with this. Everyday grls bitch and moan bout how they can't find a good guy and here you are trying 2b a jerk seriously man not wise. I think jerk isn't the quality you should be lookin 4 its confidence, cause grls love confidence. WE don't like feeling like crap whenever we talk to you or like its a constant struggle to get your attention and if you're not gettin any grls because you're a nice guy chances are you're going after the wrong type of girls, the ones who want to play games, and that'll only leave you with a headache once you're in the realtionship
If girls are dating jerks they're idiots. The thing that attracts girls most is confidence. So if you're a sweet guy and shy, you should definitely come out of your shell and girls will be all over you :). Girls might like the jerks because they mistake their douche-iness as confidence...
but in all honesty, bold guys (with confidence but NICE) have always attracted me the most...
Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn at your pic
You definitely don't want to be labeled as a jerk. That's kind of like a girl saying how do I be more like a slut because they get all the guys. It's the same scenario in a way. You only want it for the time being and in the end, no one really wants that type of person. Just be yourself and remember that good things come to those who wait!
Thank you.
may I ask until when until when we are 40 year old virgins or older virgins while she give her virginity to jerks if it's mean or offensive I'm I just don't get why girls have sex with jerks but marry nice guys explain that for us if you don't mind
i mean may I ask until when until when we are 40 year old virgins or older virgins while she give her virginity to jerks if it's mean or offensive I'm sorry I just don't get why girls have sex with jerks but marry nice guys explain that for us if you don't mind
meet somewhere in the middle...don't be a complete asshole but don't be a baby either...make her guess a little bit because a girl needs to know that they are not the only one that likes you...make her wait a little bit to hang out with you...it drives us nuts but for some reason we stay with those guys because we have to work to keep them
its not about being a jerk, girls want a guy that can defend them, and walk on their own. Its all confidence and keeping your heart intact. go to a gym, work out for 2 months and learn to have a simple conversation with females so you don't come off as desperate or insecure
Stay the way you are. Girls will date the jerks, but would never marry them.. They are just play toys to have fun with for a little while.. but when we are ready to settle down and marry.. We ALWAYS come looking for the nice guys. I for example have always been attracted to the nice nerdy guys. They are always the best boyfriends. Don't change who you are, or you will just become a play toy.
So you want him to stay single for a long time, until some woman whose basically been screwed over by guys and as seen as damaged walks along and falls in love with him because he is nice?Ya right why would he want that she will have so many issues and probably make his life a living hell. He won't have a clue on how to deal with that.
Wow.. your retarded Tex151. Maybe I need to use smaller words so you can conprehend what I'm saying. I'm saying he will be alone the rest of his life if he turns into a jerk. Noone wants a jerk.
Who said jerks will be alone the rest of their lives, if anyone is going to be alone the rest of their lives it would be the nice guy, hell he can't even get a date, how the hell do you think he's going to get married? A jerk has plenty of options and if he chooses to get married all he has to do is pick which one he wants.
Thats not true. I used to date jerks in high school, and so did all my friends.. but after high school we dumped those guys, cause they weren't worth it, and started the look out for the nice guys, and now we're all engaged to the nice guys. Never been happier! We regret not talking to them sooner back in high school. So eventually Tex.. you will get dumped for a nice guy.
If I get dumped by some chick, so what that's life it happens, take some time off and find another girl, it's that simple. You may have dated a jerk and dumped him, but do you think he's crying in the corner right now, hell no he's probably happy with another girl, maybe even married.
Lol actually not really, he always messagesme .. No matter how many times I tell him to leave me alone and I block him, he;s always trying to get me back. So you will be miserable because no girl is ever going to want to marry you.
Dontbe someone your not, and the guys her are jerks to their girlfriends, most of the time they date complete whores or a girl whos to stupid to leave them. Be yourself, I'm a terribly nice guy and I'm with a gorgeous girl who not a whore at all and her family is great. Just be yourself dude, you'll find the right girl.
I don't think it's so much of a jerk that girls like, but more of a self arrogance. Which some girls see as confidence. Some girls like guys at are full of themselves. To be honest I have some really good friends who are like that. Lol, they tend to tell me I try to bring that big headed-ness down some notches which they tend to find attractive. Lol. So if you're gonna be that kind of guy you'll have to find yourself a girl that doesn't let that bother her.
Hahahaha girls don't like jerks, but we like guys who have enough confidence to get what they want and if that makes them 'jerks' then so be it...be more confident, hit on girls you like and get their numbers, set youreself a mission to basically shag (have sex with) flirt with, hook up with, use and discard- as many girls as possible, and then one day, you'll be a jerk my son X-D...
There is some truth to that. The jerks do get the girls, but they sure as hell don't keep them. It's not by being a jerk that you'll get a girl, it's about confidence. It just so happens that guys that are jerks happen to have a lot of it and can charm their way into a girl's heart. What I think you need is to be less insecure and more self assured about yourself. And you don't have to treat a girl badly to get them.
Only retarded girls go for people who are actually jerks. I think most guys just misinterpret nice, confident, and assertive guys as being jerks because they "steal" the girls that they are interested in. The fact that you want to be a jerk is probably evidence that you are already a jerk, which is a turn-off for most women.
Guys want to be jerks because its easier to "get" women that way than being the nice guy.
Whether its for sex, fwb, ons, getting girls is MUCH easier in theory this way, and this theory has been proven time after time through stories, observations, personal experience... I agree the girls who are into jerks are setting themselves up but hey, the guys arent.
Actually not only retarded girl go for jerks it actually is all girls.
UGH! Dumb girls go for jerks. I had my fair share of jerks when I was younger, and I have been with my current boyfriend for three years, I love him to death, and he is a frickin teddy bear! I could never see myself being able to have a relationship with a jerky guy.
A lot of times around highschool/ earlier college age girls follow their heart without consulting their head. They follow their instincts to find a strong alpha male type of man. And who has the strongest alpha male personality? the type of guy who acts most like a predatory feral beast aka the typical asshole. These guys have their time to shine but later on most girls figure out how to balance their instincts with logic and end up going with more stable men who can actually take care of them
Pls dont... I have lots of trouble finding good, sweet men and the population doesn't need another good one turning to the dark side! lol
Sounds like you may be after some young gals who like to play games but I have no idea.
Okay, but if those guys are getting all the girls, why not do what is working? I'm nice, clean, and confident, and asked this girl to join us going out, "If you come with, we can find a Leprechaun." (St. Pat's day) She said she was busy, but I saw her that night with some Emo guys partying it up in the same place. Those guys were making out with other chicks at the end of the night.
Maybe those were the other plans she had? Its possible or maybe she doesn't want to date anyone and just wants to party. How old is she?
24. I don't think so, she's always "busy" but its sweet when I think of her.
24 is abt that age - it just depends on her mentality and what she wants right now. You never know - try being her friend and going on with life. =)
That's just an example of a lot of girls that I meet. They're all busy.
Are you unfortunate looking? lol Not to be rude buuut that may pose a problem depending on the gals that you are asking out.
I don't think I'm horrible but I don't think I'm the best looking guy in the room either. OKay, so should I give up?
Well, nooo - never give up. Just kinda chill is all. BTW, for any given person, there is always some1 better looking and more unfortunate. lol
Dude, don't be a jerk. Sorry some dude burned you recently, but don't sink because of it. You don't need to be a jerk to get more, you just be assertive about what you want and take more initiative at getting it.
So bascially turn into a demanding jerk...
To answer your question, try to be a jerk, but do not make yourself out to be a psycho... meaning don't go overboard. Personally, I let doors hit women in the face, and cut them off. If one is having a bad hair day, I let them know that their hair sucks.
Hope I helped!
Oh my goodness that's horrible!!
Dont even turn sour, all the girls right now might ben falling falling for what you see jerks but as soon as they realize they'll come around because you'll be the cute sweet oone and that's what you want to be labled as not a jerk :) make the right choice
Well I don't know if it's jerk type of girl you want then yeah become jerk but if it's more nicer mature girl your after stay as you are and just learn you flirting techniques :)
Maybe. But girls are always "busy". Even if I say they're "missing out on one heck of a fun time!"
Hmm If your saying that to nice girl's then they may already be putting you in the jerk category my friend, try learning to talk to girls as friends not meat and practice flirting the proper way and stop listing to who ever learned you that line please.
I think I wrote that wrong. Like if other people are doing something at work, and I invite a girl from work to go us with us, and she's "busy".
From what I've seen, jerks can 'get chicks', but the good 'nice' guys (not pushover pussies, just nice) end up with quality relationships. If you want to just have fun and 'get chicks' being a bit of a jerk would probably help. Just act like you don't give a sh*t about them and they'll go for it. Although, I shouldn't talk as I am in a very similar situation as you. I guess it depends on how much you want or are willing to change your personality.
Good Luck!
Don't become a jerk, there are a LOT of girls that go for nice guys, you're just after the wrong girls... and if a girl likes a jerk, she doesn't think enough of herself to be with a nice guy anyways... so yeah. You're better off without her.
jerks get shingles eventually because their reputation is so bad that some girls they end up don't give a s*** about them. moral of the story-being a nice guy with a good head on his shoulders is way better than a jerk.
Lol