Men care less about the size of your breasts than you think

I'll try to be as concise as I can. We can't escape the media - it's with us all of our lives and influences us even when we think it doesn't although the extent differs from person to person. Like how men have been influenced by porn many genuinely believe that size matters and that having a large penis (something between the range of 7"-9") is the ideal for all women and who can blaim them when you can see the enthusiasm of these women in porn who are impressed by being large. This visualization overwrites any vocal or written opinion by real women even when they continue to say that what is too big.

Similarly, many women have been influenced by the media; TV, magazines and even porn and believe that women look better (and may even be superior) with larger breasts and equally bigger is better and if you look, just as Yahoo Answers is filled with men who wonder if their penis is up to snuff it's just as filled with quesitons by women wondering are their boobs "big enough?" are "small boobs good"? "Will exercising make my boobs bigger?" Pills exist for men who think they will make them bigger but, there are similar products available for women, because the market exists.

If you look at Nuts and Zoo magazine, they celebrate women with boobs bigger than an E and when it comes to porn even those in the bigger ranges of even J cups are loved.

Men care less about the size of your breasts than you think.

Kate Upton is praised by many for her 32DD bust but isn't the taste of all men


The reality is that the average man doesn't care how big your boobs are, they would rather be with someone between an A cup and a C cup. Have you ever heard the expression "more than a handful is a waste"? Men love this expression and it means that if your boobs are bigger than a D cup then it's probably too big for their taste. Of course, cup sizes change according to weight but, the rule still applies.

There are men who do enjoy big boobs, huge boobs and massive boobs but these men are not as common as you think Sure, busty women may walk down the street and you'll get stares but, it's because you have boobs and being superficial creatures men see larger breasts as something impressive to look at just like how women may still be drawn to a large bulge even if they don't like big penises.

Men care less about the size of your breasts than you think

Mila Kunis is allegedly a 32B but most men will prefer her despite her small breasts


If you go to a club you may think that men will like you better for having bigger boobs. The truth is men will want you because you're a woman and a potential sex partner and having bigger boobs are more fun for sex. For the average man looks and personality are equally important but will vote for smaller boobs because the media has informed them about the negatives of having larger breasts so they believe smaller is better.

It will seem like this entire take is me bringing busty women down which isn't my intention. You really appeal to one audience without seeming to be harsh to the opposite. Personally, I'm one of the men who prefers very large breasts - H, J and even K cups but, it's because of my taste that I've seen first hand how men genuine feel about large breasts.

Men care less about the size of your breasts than you think

Leanne Crow who is a 34K is an example that bigger isn't better.

Ultimately, men can't be lumped into one group and like women they can't be generalized. There are men out there who like them large and men who like them small. The vocal who express an interest in women like Kate Upton aren't the voice of the majority so women with small breasts don't feel pressured or hated for being small. After all, the averge cup size in the UK is a C cup.

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  • Many of these responses are missing an important point. There are numerous sites devoted to small boobs, but what guys look at for fantasy does not correspond to what guys do in real life. Many men look at porn involving threesomes but that doesn't meant that is what guys want to so. Some women have rape fantasies but that doesn't mean that they want to get raped.

    Social studies that show 3-D computer generated images of a woman with different sized breasts that ask men to choose their preference does not necessarily translate into what guys prefer in real life.

    If all men preferred large breasts, actresses like Kate Hudson and Keira Knightley would not be famous. If all men preferred large breasts, girls with small tits would not find husbands.

    So, here is my assessment of how guys actually stand on this matter.

    1. Some guys are obsessed with big boobs and they will insist that a girl with small boobs should get implants. They will pretend to speak for all guys and say that big tits are the only thing that's worth a damn.

    2. Some guys actually prefer small breasts. Most of these guys don't want to see a girl with no boobs whatsoever, but they would be content with 32A or 34A boobs. For these guys, the small boobs should be proportionate to a girl's body size. The attraction for most is not that the woman looks like a pre-teen; it is the image of innocence.

    3. Some guys, probably most, don't care if you have 34A or 36D, but they really don't want anything larger than 36D. They are content if they have two boobs to suck on and play with and they are more interested in other physical features as well as your intelligence and personality.

    This is, of course, the female version of the dick size question. Some women prefer large, some prefer average (afraid of being hurt by a horse dick,) but most women realize that your ability as a lover depends on your attitude more than your dick size (as long as you have at least an average 5"-6" probe.)

    Why do these questions keep getting asked over and over and over?

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  • Lets be real. When you jack off to porn no one ever searches "small tits". Even if they do, the "big breasts" search is probably more common. You're comparing small boobs to really big fake ones. Of course that makes the female figure really awkward when the boobs dont line well with the rest of the girls body. I mean, espcially if a guy is a "boob" guy. Would you rather have a A cup girl or a B cup or a C cup...:)

    • As I posted in a comment above, "small tits" is not a common search term. "Teen" is the porn genre focused on petite girls with small to medium sized breasts, and it's the second most common porn search term in the world.

    • You're Wrong, I Love Small Tits, I Search Small Tits Far More Often Than I Do Big Tits. Small Tits Does Not Always Mean Young Teens. There Are Lots Of Pages Dedicated To Flat Chested - Small Tits. Small Tits Are Amazing And Are Just As Enjoyable As Big Tits.

    • The boobs I posted in the take are all natural, actually.

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  • Lets be real here beast size and penis size are kind of similar in how there perceived. Both are not good when too big but not great either if small. My boyfriend is a ass guy and let me tell you I have a great ass shape proper curved and I've mainly improved it because my boyfriend is obsessed with touching it. But my Breasts are C cup. Therefore for some reason he doesn't pay attention to those and I think there okay size but he's made me insecure. When I ask him to touch my chest he remembers them but for the most part it's not natural for him to touch my chest.
    The only problem for girls is that if they have small breasts the man she likes may not like her because of them. But penis size is something only seen when your close in a relationship and even if it's small her love for you will make her stay.
    Breast size does matter guys who say they dont are the minority and there's nothing wrong with wanting a girl with huge tits. Another thing I've noticed is that there are more boob guys then ass guys.

    • so i just have to say, breast size is a non issue for most guys, and the guys it is issue for make it non issue if they like a girl. and the rest (vast minority) are people you dont want to be around anyway. if guys are too small, girls are indeed mean to you. i really have experience on this. nobody is in love the first time they have sex and if you're a certain size, there is really no woman on earth that will like it, just tolerate it. and even thats rare. i think we all just rally on these questions though. so maybe we are just two that have bad experience?

    • I disagree. I think there are far more ass guys than breast men. Most guys I know will trade big tits for a fit, toned body. I don't even care that much about the size of a girl's tits, but I won't be with a girl who's sedentary and has a body to match.

  • And yet you choose a picture where Mila Kunis is wearing a massive push up bra and/or her boobs were photoshopped. without it, it looks more like that

    uproxx.files.wordpress.com/.../...ackie-bikini.gif

    And I'm not saying she looks bad. I'm saying guys have no perception of reality. Often you hear guys say they want women to be skinny, with reasonably big boobs, like VS models. Like this

    i311.photobucket.com/.../...oel-vs-swim-jan-05.jpg

    But that bra, as advertised pushes 3 - 4 sizes. The reality looks more like this

    s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...4aac5e8ec6.jpg

    The model candice swanepol, also allegedly has a b cup
    So when you read a certain actress has a b cup, that's what it looks like. Not the pushed up photo shopped version

    • Stop this nonsense... this is boardering on child pron

  • Wish I had the last girls boobs omg lol. If she lost like 20 pounds she'd have an awesome body and huge boobs still. So Lucky!

    • I think she's a 34M but is naturally thick.

      www.foxhq.com/.../2.jpg

    • Yeah my opinion still stands. You can tell she has some weight on her.. if she lost like 20 pounds she'd look really good and still have abnormally large breasts. They'd probably look less abnormal even.

    • I think them being abnormal is what makes them sexy. I love breasts that big.

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  • I went from 36DDD to 34D with weight loss (60 lbs) and I've been very conscious of the fact. It almost made me hate the weight loss for the longest time, really. But im definitely getting better about it because of my boyfriend making sure to say I look good a little more vocally now. This helps some too (:

    • That's good for both you and him. Remember though that although your breasts are smaller being a 34D is still a big deal (pun intended). :)

    • I only ever cared because he prefers them bigger, and for awhile they hung a little more from the weight loss. Now theyve finally started adjusting right and filling out to a decent shape with eating better even though staying the same weight. (: But I understand, and thank you

  • I hate leaving typical answers, but well you're more or less correct, tit size isn't a massive deal to most guys.

    Though I will say that I do think we sometimes enjoy putting down larger breasted women so others feel better, which is a little unfair, I mean it is all the genetic lottery, at the end of the day.

    Breasts are breasts.

    • In the UK there seems to be a huge stigma with having large breasts. Besides magazines aimed at men, most times a woman with large breasts is mentioned they always complain about how they hate them and want to make them smaller whereas in America larger breasts seem to be embraced more since there are far more US women with large implants than there are in the UK. Here women only seem to go big if they were flat before whereas American women seem to go large even if they were large before.

  • I have the same boob size as Kate Upton. We're sisters. Lol.

  • Totally agree. :)

  • I could care less about the size of a woman's boobs. I'm far more interested in her overall body shape and her fitness level. Facial beauty also goes a long way, but boobs are generally overrated.

  • Now, I may not be the breast, umm, best, authority on the subject, but tit, err, it, seems to double D, I mean, seems to me, but I think veteran GAGers and boobies, dammit, newbies, can agree that we all cleavage... I mean... no no, that is... I like breasts.

    • Dude I think you my might have to thing for tits... lol This is the reason why I don't wear any bikinis right here 😆😆😆😆.. LMFAO

    • *I think you might (sorry for the typo)😜

    • *have a DAMNIT TYPOS!!!

  • Well I sure hope so because I'm a 36a

    It's so weird. I have wide round hips and a bigger than average butt and I'm tall with long thin legs but it's like my body just completely forgot about my chest

    I hate it so much

  • actually if you're less than a B (full Bs) you better have a gorgeous face or ass.

    i care about tits lol

  • Now with this take you let men care more about it, boobs are... girls better keep on their insecurities. .

  • Those footballs /watermelons in last pic are horrible indeed, how these women manage them :D

    And its the female version of dick size questions?

  • Let me put this bs to side and give it to yll once in for all baha

    BIG BOOBS ALL THE WAY

    • While you're entitled to your opinion and I prefer big boobs, this take isn't about shaming small breasted women. There's noting wrong being small or average.

  • Keep dreaming. Send a flat-chested girl and a busty one into a bar and see who gets the most attention.

  • After the initial attraction, what her personality is like definitely is more important. But 9 times out of 10, the girl you approach at the bar, grocery store, school, etc needs to be attractive to you. That being said, boobs are boobs. Boobs are awesome. Boobs make life better. There are more attractive qualities on a woman's body than her boobs. Beautiful eyes get me every time. I'll take beautiful eyes and small boobs over average eyes (average to me is like dark brown or a darker color eye. That's just me though) and huge boobs any day of the week.

  • Okie dokie

  • No, we care. We don't stare at your tits all the time for no reason

    • I have been with my woman over 10 years. She has DDD breasts. I still stare at them and touch them all the time.

    • Are they sillycone?

  • The Size Of A Woman's Boobs Is Not Important, Whether She Is Flat Chested Or DD Is Never Important To Me.
    Who She Is On The Inside As A Person Is The Only Deciding Factor.
    My Wife Is A Wonderful Woman With 36 DD, I Would Love Her All The Same If She Was Flat Chested.
    My Cock Is 5.5" She Loves That I Am This Size, Sex Is Beyond Enjoyable For Her.
    We Have An Amazing Sex Life, We Are Content!
    Size Simply Does Not Matter.

  • This is so presumptuous of you to claim to speak for the average guy. Especially when most of the evidence contradicts you.

    Such as researching show girls with bigger boobs were approached more often.
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18089285

    Or this field study showing female hitchhikers with bigger boobs got more rides from men. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18380130 . And there are more but I don't have time to write a dissertation.

    Do you really think the girls in zoo or nuts like lucy pinder, michelle marsh, or sophie howard would be as popular as they are if had A or B cups? please.

    Anon girl got it right regarding porn sites. I'm not aware of one dedicated to small boobs but know of plenty dedicated to big boobs (scoreland, babygotboobs, boobpedia, etc)

    And if that's not enough, below is Google trends world wide search data for the last 10 years comparing searches for "big boobs", the blue line vs "small boobs", the red line. Big boobs wins by a mile.
    www.google.com/.../explore

    Your K cups example is just absurd. No one wants that but C, D or DD is a nice size.

    This post is about as believable and accurate as a girl saying a guys height doesn't matter.

    • I'm not going to link them on this site, but there are numerous sites that make porn specifically featuring small breasts, and "teen" is the second most searched porn term in the world (behind milf), and teen porn actresses skew heavily towards small and average sized breasts.

      re: your google analytics link, "big boobs" is a common porn genre term, while "small boobs" is not. Here's a new chart with "teen porn" included, which is the de facto small boobs umbrella term.

      www.google.com/.../explore

    • You're interpreting teen porn to mean "small boobs" when more than likely it means "young girls". But if did mean small boobs, why are there few sites dedicated to small boobs compared to big boobs? The only thing this proves is that guys like younger girls. No shit. You might as well compare search results for "porn" to "big boobs". You're comparing apples to oranges. Besides see the research from pubmed you ignored supporting the claim that yes, boobs matter.

    • 1) I don't presume to speak for all men since I use the term "many men" not "all men". 2) I like K cups, so you're wrong there 3) Boopedia is a wiki for boobs starting at a C cup which is the average size in many places 4) If you came here acting like this is a scientific take and not the observation of men's behaviour then that's your problem.

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