My experience in life have shown me that women who feel truly loved, cherished, respected and safe are more orgasmic!
My contention and what I have heard from my male friends is that women have a lower sex drive then they do. I have heard many times my friends complain that they don't get enough at home. Not saying they went elsewhere, I'm just saying they often complained.
I believe that such a man is unaware of why a woman, ( who I personally believe has a higher sex drive than a man) would appear to have a lesser sex drive. I will leave aside cases of past abuse. From women who have not had the pain of abuse, why is it that men complain, sometimes mildly, that she is less sexual then he would desire?
If you know how to make love to a woman's heart, from the start of the day, love her for who she is and not for what she'll do for you tonight, you will see the true sex drive of a woman.
Some men have understood that. But why isn't that news spreading like wildfire? Are we too selfish? Do we not want to make the effort? Is romance dead? Our ability to seduce is just our ability to unbuckle our belt?
Most of my partners have been multi orgasmic. According to them the important thing is not technic, skills, or stamina, but it is being helpful, generous, caring, understanding and a good listener; in and out of the bedroom.
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