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Real life examples of how women utterly annihilate men in the sex game!

Real life examples of how women utterly annihilate men in the sex game:

1) After a month of tons of messages being sent out on Adult Friend Finder, a 45 year old milf finally reciprocated my call to action and we hooked up. She showed me her phone and she had over 100 requests from Adult Friend finder. I asked her how she got that and she simply said she put up her profile. So me…1 hit from a month of requests, vs her 100+ hits as a usual daily thing. Really!! She was proof that a girl can have a different guy everyday if she chose. That’s why I laugh at men who say they have had like 100 girls because a girl can get that in half a year.

2) I was talking to a girl about open relationships. She and I are into this type of thing and I am still new. She said she got into it because her husband wanted it. So they did it. But now her husband can’t get any girls while she gets requests every day from guys and girls and her husband feels despondent. So she said she was having a ball while her husband wasn’t. Anybody see the balance here? No balance, girl gets it all.

3) A guy has to work his balls off for casual sex (or even serial dating). Just take me for example: I have to look good. So gym 5 days a week and I play rugby, so I’m often busy there. This includes eating well (which is more of a mission than actual exercise). Then I have to groom. I also shave everywhere, trim my beard, have different creams, night and morning beauty rituals. THEN I also have to be alpha in order to attract a girl. So I work on dominant traits on my personality, reading books on charisma, personality, psychology, sales and business. All this just to be that what attracts women. THEN comes the actual work of getting ready, always going out to meet women and having late nights (which impedes on the above behaviours) and making sure that everything is tidy, your room is cool etc. Every single one of my music, business and social goals were obliterated when I had 2 months of going for casual sex (to see what it was like) and I just get so jealous that a girl can just wear a pretty dress and go to a bar for like half an hour and BOOM…done. Or even better…online dating, you don’t even need to go out. This is the main reason why I am such an advocate for sex workers helping men out there. Again, women and their sexual power makes it so much easier for them then guys.

4) It's common knowledge that women can be paid for sex (even a couple of 1000 dollars) while guys have to pay FOR it. If that doesn’t highlight the power play for you, then you are a deluded person.

5) Due to the all the above examples and implications, most girls can forge their sexual path and they know it, hence they don’t see it as a big thing, whereas men cannot. If I wanted to do porn, for example, I couldn’t. Any girl could get paid to do it right now. Thats the difference.

So yeah, in terms of casual sex, women obliterate men and I believe that men shouldn’t be ashamed to get prostitutes as it’s the only way that it balances out there (at the price of your wallet unfortunately. But look on the bright side, all relationships bomb a man’s wallet anyway).

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  • Of course its true! That is the whole reason men are actually congratulated when they get laid. BECAUSE ITS A CHALLENGE. Which is why the whole slut shaming thing is BULLSHIT. Why would you congratulate someone for doing something as easy as a girl getting laid. They literally just need to snap their fingers, and they could have all the men they want.

    Which is one of the reasons modern women are such shitty. They are narcissistic, they can and do have multiple men on the side, and when they get bored with one they toss him aside with no more empathy than they give to changing one of their little outfits.

    • I like the first part of your opinion but not the second. I have met more humble modern women than shitty ones. Its not for her to stay with a man out of pity or empathy if she isn't happy. That's what nice guys do with their girls they marry and hence all that Ashley Madison bullshit. That's why I am an advocate for prostitution so that both men and women can get their sexual kinks out without any problems.

    • Yea notice how women don't need Ashely Maddison? by the way most women do seem nice, and humble at first. This is usually just an act. As for staying with the man out of pity I never mentioned or implied that, you make it seem as if they have very right to lie and cheat. Which they do not.

    • Never thought of this. This is so true. This explains slut shaming completely.

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  • i agree with this

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  • Hahaha That picture is PRECIOUS!
    The dude's face is priceless. xD

    Yeah, sorry, but I have to disagree with that... The thing you're forgetting is that men don't care about their reputations in the way women do. Let's suppose women CAN actually sleep with whomever they choose at any given moment - they probably still wouldn't do it (a lot of them, not all), while men would.
    The thing to remember here is that our society also defines us as people. We are never truly as free as to do what we want to. If nothing else inhibits us - surely the various VDs out there will.

    But nah... not all - not even most - women can get sex whenever they want to.

    • Thanks for the pic comment, it is cool hey:) Sorry I disagree with you. a) Lets take your reputations and "Let's suppose women CAN actually sleep with..." thing. Women have this option, many men don't. Its this lack of opportunity that makes men desperate and women not so, simply because you know you can get it if you really want to. Most women? please see my update.

    • Shit, I can't update... so two more things have happened to me in the past weeks. 1) Im in an open relationship, so I approached this other girl who is not that pretty by any means (like a 6... possibly 7 on the fhm/cosmo scale). She is also a swinger. So we chatted about everything and I didn't go direct at first but said I need a partner in sexual crime (hint). She said its good I am friends with some of the girls because they can help me get this person because: "she and the rest of the women constantly get requests" and guys don't get the girls. B) Staying in the swinging scene: A hetero couple almost always requests girls, not men, and the ones that do want men overtly say that you have to be a certain type of man. She got her MMF threesome very quickly.

    • Okay... but what respectable woman would want to be a part of a threesome? O. o

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  • If it was really THAT easy for women to get sex at any given moment, there probably wouldn't be so many questions on here from women asking how to get a guy interested in them sexually or what have you. Who knows though, maybe they're doing it wrong. I have no idea what goes on in the world of casual sex and dating as I'm not interested in being part of it and never will be. Not that I'd be all that successful anyways, just based on how unattractive most guys find tall girls like me.

    • Most girls questions are based on getting sex from a particular guy, yet there is probably a few guys that want them that are in the friendshipzone. If girls had the confidence of an alpha male, your sex path is for your choosing. I admit, it's all fair in terms of finding that unicorn partner that everyone wants. But sex, no, women have it easier generally. Put your self on adult friend finder, and boom..., have it. I personally love the fact you are a musician though. I'm writing a metal album now, it's not going to be pretty.

    • That's true, yes. There's usually at least one other guy they know who wants to sleep with her but she doesn't for whatever reason. The curse of the friendzone - even as a woman, I've been there. I wasted so much time on a guy "friend" who wanted someone else and later told me that I was too tall and ugly for him :(. That's the risk, I guess. I always think that guys and girls should go after what they want (or in this case, WHO they want), but it's not easy. They can't just pretend to be someone they're clearly not because they think that's what their crushes are attracted to. I've never been attracted to guys who act like "alpha males", but I do agree that having a bit of confidence usually gets you where you want to be. Obviously there is always a factor that you can't control that could be negative - for me it was always my height, since at 6'1" I'm as tall or taller than the average guy. I got past it though.

    • The last part of my opinion is completely hypothetical - I have actually been in a great relationship for 4 years now and we got married back in December. I've known him since I was 15 though but he was basically friendzoned due to circumstances, not that I intentionally put him there. So joining a dating site isn't in the cards for me, lol. I was making an assumption based on what I've observed as a tall girl, both in real life and on this site. I'm glad you love that I'm a musician. I love it too, haha! I mainly play flute and guitar (including bass guitar), and I was trained as a classical musician (flute). My husband plays piano. Good luck on your upcoming music projects :)

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  • This ia very correct. As for those who disagree, you have to look at it from the point of view of the one asking. Many of these girls are still in highschool and have not quite come to the realization of their being female. In highschool you dont realize that to get a guy all you have to do os look cute, frequently touch his arm and flirt. They dont realize that the guus are no taught and are dissuaded from being direct and open about their feelings for a girl. Perhaps a girl can't get her dream man all the time but if any woman went to any bar and ask all the guus for sex, she will never go home alone. As for reputation, I believe the feminist movement is doing a great job of making that matter very little in regards to easy sex.

  • This while this isn't the most idiotic thing's I've read on GaG this week, it is still pretty high up there.

    • Prove me wrong? This is as truthful as one can be. Please prove me wrong, I'm looking for solace in the fact that I'm wrong. WhyIt's the truth idiotic. Give me the why, and I will give you the respect.

  • Well I agree with this for the most part. Guys tend to struggle and barely get the time of day from girls their own age until their late 20's early 30's when that are financially stable. Then they start liking pretty good and start getting female attention. Girls start with all the attention but that slowly erodes. Once they hit 30+ they are what I call "over the hill". They start becoming desperate to settle down and have kids. This is where the power switches from girls to guys.

    • 😂😂😭😭😭 lol no it doesn't, at all. Im 33 and in terms of casual sex, women still have the power. Men can get some girls at this age but men also lose their youth and it actually gets harder for men as they age because you lose your social circles. Women just have to put up an online ad (at any age) and they set. Trust me on this. My friends with benefits is a 45 yr old mom and she has tons of men to choose from. All the time.

    • Again, this is generally speaking. These women at age 45 and so forth are delusional if guys generally want to settle with them. Guys are just looking for sex and then moving on. Women around that age are easier access. If you have money and are financially stable, you will get chicks left and right. There are plenty of girls who date older guys. As a matter of fact there is a current opinion/question from a female who is 21 and she likes this guy who is 37. So guys do get more power and get younger chicks generally.

    • By the way, if you want a higher success then you have to spin some plates. In other words have a few chicks to bounce back and forth to if your looking to get laid.

  • Although I'm not going to deny it's easier for women but... who makes it easier for them? Men.

    I have said this before - we have only ourselves to blame for throwing ourselves at their feet. Heck, I'm not perfect. If women were to pay me as much attention as they have gotten throughout their lives, I'd probably end up no much different from what they end up - spoiled.

    • so do you still do that?

    • No, I don't. But don't get me wrong, I haven't done a 180 and start treating women like shit. No thank you. I've simply abandoned the white-knight nice guy mentality I had and started treating women no different than I treat men.

    • In one way yeah, but it doesn't matter. Women only go for the top boys so all that's left is desperate men and a minority successful alphas. I don't blame men, or women. It just is. You can't blame the oceans for being salty. But then I want to live in a world where men are not looked down on if they get prostitutes or find pick up artists to help them out. It's like..., fuck you male person, you were born ugly or socially inept, now die in your loveless ashes.

  • I asked a question along these lines and included a poll. I asked, "Is sex for you just a phone call away?"

    Most women answered yes (I forget what the exact percentage was, but it was an overwhelming majority). Most men answered no.

    However, most women said that the men they could just call up and have sex with were not men they wanted to have sex with.

    • @Bluemax, man we know the truth. Women don't see it because its like one of those things that is a part of their life that they don't need to worry about or question. Yes I admit, getting that unicorn guy they want like men want that unicorn girl never works out for the majority, but to be desired by someone is better than nothing.

    • "but to be desired by someone is better than nothing." I'm not so sure. I've been desired by a few women who made me feel it would have been preferable to not be desired by them at all.

  • Wow you should be a college professor

    • Thank you. Could you please inform you fellow sisters as evidence doesn't seem to work.

    • @Scrambledagain Dude, she's being sarcastic.

    • Really? I thought she wasn't. I thought she really really really really thought of me as a college professor. Lol

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  • Only the super attractive women get it like this.

    • yeah a 45 yr old with 2 kids is at the pinnacle of beauty. No most women can get this if they have a somewhat good body (which is such a piss easy solution to solve). The girl with the open relationship isn't a model or anything either. She is a bit chubby.

    • That's just generalizing. There's really no way to prove that claim. Since you're not a woman you're not going to understand just like we won't understand from your point of view either. Both genders will say the other has it better or easier.

    • I could prove it to you. It's as simple as looking at the supply and demand in sex work. But that said, I could take your profile pic, put it up on adult friend finder and you will get tons of hits. I could take every single guys profile pic on gag and put it on adult friend finder, I would put down a $100 that not one of us will have a hit. We would have to work at it and maybe one of us will get something. This is a generalisation, but it's a truthful generalisation in the same way that I know traffic will be busy at peak hour. Sometimes it isn't, but generally, it is.

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  • do you have a fetish for this?

    • Fetish for what? Casual sex? Yes I do. I believe in exploring life but unlike travelling, you can't save up for a girl saying yes to you (unless it's a prostitute, hence my mathematical reasoning that prostitution is great for guys) women use their sexual power and man uses their business/financial power.

  • This condition has originated by social double standards. Just like you replied to VampireExpress - You consider women who happily say yes to sex is a prostitute. No woman likes to be called so. Therefore most of them will say no to casual sex, so that you won't call them a prostitute. But if you appreciate her for her sexual openness you would have been on a better status and won't post question like this.

    • Lol a) I did not say anything about calling women prostitutes if they want casual sex. B) i appreciate a girls openness to sex more than most, but that doesn't mean I'm gonna get laid and this post would still go up.

  • And then some idiot comes along with the idea of feminism. Women have it worse? Oh yes sure, lets put women even farther above men, let's make ourselves gods and turn society in our way and rape men and blame them!
    Suureee

    • Feminism is a big fucking joke (literally fucking men)

  • trollolololololol

    • Wow man , you must of won all the awards in debate class. We working with a real genius here.

    • have you ever had a girlfriend before?

    • Obviously! Am in an open relationship now too. I am meeting someone on Thursday for a hook up only (this girl gets me my threesomes and group sex), then with my current SO's consent, I have a friends with benefits who is like my sex partner in crime. I have 4 relationships going that's all consensual. That's why I know how hard it is for a guy because the ladies get it very easily and I have to work my arse off to get this.

  • I didn't read it all but that's all obvious stuff everyone would know

    • Dude... lol... you proved it more than I could with that statement. You don't need to read it, we all know the truth.

  • Dude--HOT women have an advantage, but only while they're hot! lol!

    • A 45yr old girl? Did you notice that. No, most women. An average looking girl could get tons more lays than even the hottest of guys.

    • Fair enough, but for most girls they aren't looking to get railed by tons of guys in the same way most guys would happily get with tons of girls.

    • Yeah because women know they have it easy and can focus on other shit. That's what makes it so crap. I could get tons of lays. I could open accounts on every dating site, go out every night to bars and pubs etc, but it's a numbers and chance game. Women don't have this problem, that's why it's fun for them in the casual dating works where a majority of men struggle to even get one girl.

  • I think you are probably right for most guys but it's different if you're in the top 5% of guys for what women want. Then you get more action than you can handle and women don't really expect anything from you but the opportunity to share your bed. Been there, done that. These women could have all the sex they want, so what? To have sex with every woman who would sleep with me was well beyond my physical capability or the hours in a day really. So I did the same thing women do, I got choosy.

    • Oh and it's only the top maybe 20% of women who can get most men. The only way the bottom 20% can get laid is to have no discrimination whatever.

    • Yeah... but let's see what you saying: 5% right? That leaves 95% of the men without shit. You say so what? You have done it (apparently) but the other guys can't, that's what. Most guys (especially on gag) can't be choosy. You can, most can't. It's like a rich kid can buy a Ferrari, I can't.

    • My point is it illustrates a market phenomenon rather than a psychological difference between men and women. I mostly agree with you, I'm just trying to give a slightly more accurate picture. To bring it into better focus.

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