Must Haves for Your Romantic Getaway

[DrKatSmith]

Planning a getaway can be a frazzling experience. You want the right ambiance and mood, but you worry you might forget that one thing that will throw the weekend off. To help you thwart major disappointment, keep reading.

First a few suggestions:

Resist the urge to over pack by planning out your day and evening events.

Be aware of any on property rules. Some locations may insist that guests refrain from provocative clothing or lack there of, language, jokes and/or comments made or directed to anyone regarding sensitive subjects may also be prohibited (i.e. religion, sexual orientation, etc.). And by no means anything illegal or unsafe like weapons.

Now for the Must Haves for Your Romantic Get-Away:

Some items may seem obvious, but you'd be surprised how many of us forget the simple things. The list is extensive and all things may not apply to your venue, but something may spark some creativity.

• Lingerie, underwear pajamas
• Bathrobe
• Shower / water shoes
• Bath towels and washcloths
• Toothbrush, toothpaste, mouthwash, floss
• Deodorant, soap, shampoo, conditioner, lotions/creams
• Hair comb/brush, flat/curling iron, blow dryer
• Medications (store in original prescription bottles)
• Linens and blanket or a sleeping bag
• Pillow and pillow case
• Means to pay for any extras
• Sun hat or baseball cap/visor
• Swim wear and beach towel
• Sun block and/or tanning lotion
• Reading material
• Notebook - pen/pencil/stationery
• Electronics (Laptop, MP3 player)
• Outer wear (sweater or coat if necessary)
• Athletic shoes and socks for walking
• Water bottle
• Flashlight and batteries
• Bug repellant
• Rainy weather supplies
• Sporting equipment that may not be supplied by the facility (ex: fishing rod)

For Your Pleasure:

Here are a few ideas to spice tup your time away and set the mood for some adult fun:

• Adult games like Intimate4Play
• Massage oil/gel
• Adult toys and personal lubricant
• Body paints
• Batteries and/or cords for recharging
• Romantic or Erotic movies (Device to play)
• Sensual music
• Beverages (wine/alcohol)
• Cork screw
• Yoga matt (s) or blanket
• Picnic basket
• Insulated wine or lunch bag
• Luxurious bath products
• Decadent sweets/fruit
• Flowers

Finally, at arrival, review any guest services, activities, coffee service, breakfast/meals or special amenities. Check room for your security, cleanliness, (i. e. bed bugs) and a safe for valuables.

Now, all that’s left is for you and your lover to enjoy each other and the possibilities that quality time permits.

[crystalt70]

You're making me wish I had a significant other to go on a romantic getaway with. Lol. Nice take. I love that you included the lists of necessities AND fun stuff. I'm not a huge planner of vacation activities, but I thoroughly plan everything else. I just don't want an itinerary once there. I want to be able to relax, be spontaneous, be carefree and just enjoy. If going on a romantic getaway with a s. o., I want to be able to just bask in each other. Even if that means we don't leave the bedroom for a good portion of the trip. Lol.

[Phoenix98]

All I need is the countryside a sea of stars and a blanket, but for the women your ideas should help.

[NearlyNapping]

That raft needs a big mast with a rope swing.

[schmoopy]

Ohhhh I've always dreamed of going on romantic getway like this one!! Next time I have a boyfriend I'll suggest that we/force him to go on one lol

[mskay]

All I really need is just a tent, sleeping bag and night starry sky. 💙

But your idea sounds really cool!

[SensualScribe]

I would disagree with the laptop/electronics. Why would I want to bring those on a romantic get-away? Isn't the point of a get-away to leave all of that behind? I would be highly offended if my significant other brought anything more than a phone and that phone better only be used for emergencies. People are way to connected to their devices. Surely you would live a few days without connecting to the internet.

[DrKatSmith]

The point of the electronics is to possibly bring your own entertain, went, like music or even a romantic movie. It's not to detain you from being present. A little bit of an open mind goes a long way.

[SensualScribe]

I did not mean for my comment to be rude. Sorry to offend you. However, I am pretty taken back by being told to have an open mind. You do not know me at all and can hardly judge how open minded or not I am. If you knew me or even took the time to read any of my other comments on the site I believe you would think otherwise. Also, even though the intention may be to entertain, we all know how addicted some people are too their devices and I am sure it would be quite tempting to avoid using them for other purposes.

[DrKatSmith]

Again, not attacking you, simply addressing your comment about my inclusion of electronics. We don't know each other, agreed, so with no hostility or defensiveness on my part I simply offered clarification and the suggestion of a wider perspective on the article. Hope you have a day filled with love and success.

[SensualScribe]

Thank you and you as well! No hard feelings at all here. Thank you again for clarification. :)

[LittleSally]

Isn't No.1 Money?
xD

But for a relaxing getaway you don't really need money - just some skill, some imagination and someone with you. =)

[VonHoffer]

I also have to have plenty of romantic music, lots of hugs and kisses, and plenty of time for never being apart but always together!

[VonHoffer]

I'll need a lot of bath products when we take baths every night. If we were husband/wife, we would need our virginities with us. Never had sex but first as husband and wife!

[John_Doesnt]

I must have a chick who is willing to get naked.

[cl_517]

so romantic!! I don't have a significant other, but I'm always the one that forgets to pack things! aha I need a weekend getaway with friends or a spa day!!

[crystalt70]

I'm game. Let's go!

[Anonymous]

Life must be so hard for you

[DrKatSmith]

Come on now, play nice. There is no need to attack anyone for desiring to take some time and acknowledge the importance of romance and time away from work and other responsibilities. Put out love and you get it in return. Put out bitterness and you experience more misery.