The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish (This Take isn't weird)

This myTake isn't weird

Obviously, if I'm doing this myTake, I've got a foot fetish. That means I find female feet attractive and that's all. I know there is a slight stigma attached to fetishes and with the foot fetish being the most common (by all accounts), foot fetishists often seem to be stereotyped as pervy loners. I'll be honest, I'm sure some of us are. But pervy loners are not exclusive to foot fetishists. I have a foot fetish and I am (mostly :P ) a normal guy. I want to get married and raise a family. I want to meet someone I can speak to and connect with. I find many parts of the female body sexy aside from feet. Feet just happen to be one more thing I do find sexy. I don't do anything criminal or weird and would never violate someone's boundaries for my own gratification; something which many guys without foot fetishes can't say.

Plenty of women seem uncomfortable with the subject so I thought I might do a Take explaining the benefits a man's foot fetish could have for his female partner.

NOTE: This all applies to me and the majority of foot fetishists in my experience. Everyone's sexuality is a little different.

1. Foot rubs

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

Yep, this is the main one. Some women LOVE foot rubs but can't get their partners to do it because they're either too lazy or don't like feet. If your boyfriend has a foot fetish, he will jump through hoops to massage your feet. You can come home, pop off your shoes and most guys with a foot fetish will volunteer to give you a massage for the next hour anyway you like. They'll practice and find ways to make you relax and enjoy your massage so they can do it more often. Your feet basically have their own personal masseuse now.

2. Shoes

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

At some point most guys will complain that their girlfriend has too many shoes. Guys with a foot fetish however won't complain. Hell, they'll probably offer to pay for half of them. To them (us), the wide variety of women's shoes make women's feet sexier and draw attention to them in the same way that other forms of clothing (e.g. lingerie) do for other parts of the female body. If you go shoe shopping, he will be interested and it's a personal fantasy of mine to go shoe shopping with a girlfriend and she teases me the whole way through. The wide selection of female footwear will catch his interest as much as yours which provides plenty of oppurtunities for fun and you have an excuse for buying more shoes. :P

3. Variety

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

In long term relationships, sex can get boring and it helps to have options available to freshen things up. A foot fetish means there is one more way to experience sexual pleasure. Obviously, it shouldn't be one sided but if you're looking for another way of turning your man on and he has a foot fetish, you basically have 2 'On' switches to his sex drive on the end of your legs, giving you the chance to bring variety to your sex life and explore new things. Who knows? You might like it.

4. Intimacy

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

Many men with foot fetishes seem to be secretive with it. Obviously most people don't broadcast the details of their sexuality for the world to hear but even for foot fetishists in relationships, it can be hard to open up about this in case the woman rejects it and believes he is weird. Therefore, if the woman accepts it, it can bring her and her partner much closer. They will have a stonger bond as he will have shared secrets that only she knows of him and have kept it between them. This is guaranteed to make you special in his mind and can lead to a great amount of trust.

5. Pampering!!!

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

Women generally love to be pampered. Foot fetishes are an oppurtunity for that. Not only will you get foot rubs (see 1.), he will love to get/give you pedicures, foot baths or paint your toe nails for you. He could also buy all this for you as a present and the pedicures could be his present too. ;)

6. Attraction

The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish

This means that there is another part of your body that can be attractive to (some) men. Everyone has body parts that they are proud of and some they aren't so proud of. It's natural. I know some women (that I've seen online. I don't really stare at girl's feet irl you'll be glad to hear. ;) ) that look pretty good but have incredibly sexy feet (people disagree on what this means. Some fetishists love toes, some prefer soles. There is a wide variety). That makes them more attractive to me than women who have 'ugly feet' but look great otherwise. It opens up more options as well as meaning there are now more parts of your body that he is attracted to and only you know that. You can tease him in public without anyone else ever knowing by just dangling your foot in his view.

Conclusion

Foot fetishes come in many different forms and, like most forms of human sexuality, they are too unique to just sum up easily. But in my opinion, foot fetishes provide a genuine oppurtunity to bring a couple closer as it offers unique oppurtunities such as those I outlined above. It makes that person unique.

I hope that I will be able to explore my fetish in future with an open minded and mature partner and I will make sure that she reaps the benefits. :)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • This is a very important point in our modern era!
    First of all; I hate to see women complain about people who have interests on feet or neck or whatever... They are telling; eeeeeewwwww please i dont want to date with a guy have have interests on feet, neck, hands or fingers. Okay; have you ever thought if they will like you and they will prefer to date you? LOL Have you ever thought on ur weirdnesses while swearing to these guys? LOL...

    On the other hand; being fetish or being a guy who have interests on some special parts of women MEAN these men are completely sensitive and they are lovable guys if you don't search a jerk who will want ur hole only! (I am sorry to tell on this way, couldn't find a cooler version :P )

    As for ur take; it is great man! Congratulations ^_^ All of your sections are nice; just I do agree on mostly 4 and 6 ... Life isn't only for sex; life is beautifulnwith variaties, and I do believe always the more couples are passion, the more they will have a better relation and these men who have interest in some more special parts of women are always so sensitive and passionate ;)

    If you don't like a person like this, ignore;isn't it so difficult? :)

    • Thanks! :)

    • I must thank to you post an important issue like this for men ;)

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  • "The perks of dating a man with a foot fetish (This Take isn't weird)"
    LOL!! I laughed so much when I read the title. XD
    Well, nice take. I like foot masaages but I still wouldn't date someone with a foot fetish. Simply because I don't want the guy to pay attention my feet more than he looks at my face.. O_o

    • I had to be clear with the title. Lol Plenty of men may just stare at a woman's breasts more than her face anyway.

    • Thanks for the downvote, Lmho. Well, breast are sexual organs, so of course they like breast, but not all guys care about breast more than they care about agirls face, lol. Many care about pretty face more than any other things.

    • That wasn't me actually. I upvoted you to prove it. :P I actually prefer a face to feet. I just prefer feet to breasts and butts.

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  • I would not mind at all to be with a guy that has a foot fetish, I see the positive side of it (considering the fact that I like foot massages but rarely get them even though my feet are pretty to me
    at least). I'm not trying to be creepy but I have a small foot fetish as well but it's just because I think they're pretty. My friends have pretty feet and I compliment them about it (although the only thing I find slightly odd/attention grabbing is the length of the toes because both my friends' second toes are longer than their big toe and etc. But I love my toes the most because they're in perfect proportion and cute lol)

    • Great. Thanks. :-)

    • I really enjoyed reading your description :) Have a great weekend

    • @Bartosz thanks lol you too :)

  • As for myself I learned how to put coats on properly. The different styles of polish. color coordinating the polish for an outfit. I love giving foot massages. Taking my girl out to buy shoes watching her try them on. There is always a plus with us kinds of guys.

  • Im cool with dating one because i love foot rubs. He could give me a pedicure as well.

    • Nice. :)

  • Yeahh I'm still not sure if I'm open for this. I hate feet and just can't imagine someone getting aroused from them. Luckily I have ugly feet so I won't attract them anyways.
    Just one question, do foot fetish guys get irritated if their girl never wears shoes where you can see the foot like sneakers or boots or so?

    • "Yeahh I'm still not sure if I'm open for this. I hate feet and just can't imagine someone getting aroused from them. Luckily I have ugly feet so I won't attract them anyways." That's fine. Still, you'd be surprised by what some guys can be turned on by. :P "Just one question, do foot fetish guys get irritated if their girl never wears shoes where you can see the foot like sneakers or boots or so? " I don't. It's like guys that like breasts. It's great to see them but a girl doesn't need to wear a really low cut shirt all the time.

    • Yes but like never. I can't wear heels because my ankles are too weak (I also don't find them comfortable) and it's always too cold for flipflops and sandals. I basically always wear sneakers.

    • That's fine too. As long as they 'make an appearance' sometimes (i. e. at home or in bed).

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  • I dated a guy with a foot fetish, even though feet aren't necessarily a turn on for me I must say I still enjoyed the attention my feet were getting. in a way, him opening up about his fetish did bring us closer... damn! and after reading this I wish I had a boyfriend with a foot fetish so I could get a nice massage now haha :)

    • I actually made a take about the foot fetish thing if you're interested. www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22178-the-perks-of-dating-a-man-with-a-foot-fetish-this-take-isn-t-weird

      It's great to see that you're open minded about that. :)

    • thank you :)

    • You're welcome. :)

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  • I don't like foot rubs. Too ticklish for those.
    I don't like shoes. My feet are so small and thin that pretty much no shoes fit correctly so my feet get chafed whenever I buy a new pair. I prefer just using my old and worn out shoes. Heels suck ass.
    I don't really need more variety and I don't get the appeal of feet so I'm reluctant to using them sexually.
    A strong bond forms when two people connects on several different levels, not just when one of them admits to having a fetish. Claiming that it will somehow miraculously bring two people noticably closer together is an exaggeration...
    I don't give a shit about my feet so I don't care about pampering, pedicures and nail polish. And like I mentioned earlier I can't stand foot rubs.
    And the attraction part... I don't even know what to say honestly. I don't care? Nor have I ever felt the urge to tease someone like that in public, that's actually pretty distasteful even if nobody notices -_-

    All in all I don't get foot fetishes and none of these "benefits" would actually benefit me since I don't care about my feet at all.

    • Fine. That's down to you but in my experience, many women would be different. It's fine as long as you don't think that guys with foot fetishes are perverts or anything.

    • So far the guys with foot fetishes I've met have all been creepy perverts. Asked if they could cum on/lick my feet, see pics, smell my shoes etc...

    • I won't lie, many of them (/us) are creeps. Some of us wouldn't do that and I wouldn't ask any woman anything that sexual unless I was in a relationship with her for a long time.

  • Yeah okay... but I hate people touching my feet in all ways.

    So... telling me that pedicures and foot rubs/massages are a plus... doesn't work for me. Sounds like a major negative lol

    • That's fine. Not for everyone obviously. :)

  • Firstly can I say, this is a very very good take! Well written, well said and well done.

    I think everyone likes their own things, and the rewards for the female here are many! It's nice for both guy and girl to enjoy their attractions. The pedicure is a great point and the intimacy aspect/variety is gold. Literally, the girl running her feet up his thigh can heighten the moment!

    Could you check out my question pls? It's partly about a foot on crotch moment? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1677761-why-do-i-fantasize-about-this-female-friend-who-wronged-me

    • Thanks. :) I'll check it out.

    • Sure, it's a really good take! And thanks, would appreciate your thoughts.

  • Nice take. I wish more people understood this.

    My boyfriend has a foot fetish and he just told me from the start, he was confident and open about it and I appreciated that. There are so much more to people than their fetish and it does create variety.

    I think the only thing that annoys/scares women away is when men are too obsessed with their own fetish, you have to take time to please your partner outside of yourself and you shouldn't ignore other parts of their body as well, it's ok to have a fetish but be open to trying/liking other things as well.

    • Good post. I'd agree that guys with fetishes need to be open to other experiences. May I ask, do you have any issues with your boyfriend's fetish and how does it affect your relationship?

    • No not at all, I actually love it but he also loves other parts of my body and makes that known as well. But I love so many things about him, his foot fetish isn't who he is. He also told me about it up front, right in the start of our relationship which I really respected.

    • Do you often get foot rubs from him?

  • I'm a foot goddess. I love having pretty feet and men who appreciate that ♡

    • What do you mean foot goddess?

  • 1. If it isn't weird, why are you anonymous? Haha Irony. xD

    2. The shoe thing - you do realize that high heels deform the feet. What self proclaimed foot guy would want that? o. O

    It's not a huge deal and not a bad thing. ^-^

    • 1. I'm always anon. XD Some people might think it's weird and arguing with them isn't worth it. 2. I didn't know they deformed them. How long would she need to be wearing them for that to happen? Agreed. :)

    • Oh, it depends on the woman and how prone she is to it. But if a woman is wearing heels - especially tight ones (if she's got wide feet) her feet will start deforming. As in the big toe will slant to the side to 'join' the rest of the toes and it will form a bunion on the other side - a protruding bone that hurts.

      images.huffingtonpost.com/...nsBunionSurgeryNY.jpg

      It can be a genetic thing - so a person can have that either way, but if it's not it can be caused by tight shoes being worn often or worse yet - heels being worn often.

      It looks scary. o. O

    • It does look weird. Obviously heels are hardly functional so wearing them would be a rare thing.

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  • You were so nice throughout the take and comments :) Good!

    I don't know why the hell women like foot massages :/

    • Thanks! :)

  • You had me at shoes☺

    • You girls are so predictable. ;P

  • All I know about Foot Fetisch is that they like to suck and lick them , is that really so? ;o

    Beside I wouldn't mind Dating someone with a Foot Fetisch ;D

    • Yep. I know it might seem weird but if you think about where people put their mouths in other sexual situations, is it that weird? Great. :) I do worry that I'll find it hard to be open about it.

    • It is just protrayed as weird :b Don't worry about it. c:

    • I can see why to be fair. Thanks. :)

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  • i actually enjoyed reading this

    • Thank you. :)

    • @Autumn-bunny do read this take

    • @Jude_Wills nope

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  • You had me at footrubs. :) mmmmmm

    • I don't mind to rub ur feet and massage them

  • I think foot fetishists are Goddess's gift to women tbh.
    I have no idea why so many people are so freaked by them.

    • "Goddess's gift" - Really?

    • Yes, absolutely

    • So you'd like to be with a guy who has a foot fetish then? Can I ask why? I'm just curious as plenty of women don't seem to.

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  • Wow. You got me fucked up dude.

    • What do you mean?

    • You clearly know what i mean. Your creepy as fuck and so is this fetish. Seriously, its disgusting.

    • I actually didn't know what you mean but now that you mention it, why is it creepy? There is nothing wrong with being attracted to a part of the female body which is all this is. I respect women and also am attracted to many other parts of women's bodies and personalities but also feet. Is it anymore disgusting than being turned on by a butt or vagina?

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  • As a person who is disturbed by feet and doesn't like having hers touched, or touching others, this thoroughly grossed me out.

    • Well I applaud your commitment for reading it. :P

    • The only benefit I saw was more shoes and that's about it.

    • Oh yeah... @Klaatu51 Where the hell are you at man? You're like the king of the foot fetish.

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  • I'm extremely ticklish so the foot rubs wouldn't work for me. Lol.
    Nothing wrong with a guy who has a foot fetish unless it's under creepy circumstances. A guy stole the insole of my friends shoe and put it in his mouth...

    • That's creepy and it's tools like that who have led to this stigma. He got someone involved in his fetish by stealing something which is wrong regardless of his sexuality.

    • Yeah, this was a complete stranger! She was taking the bus to work when this happened. She was so traumatized she called me up to tell me the story because she couldn't believe what just happened. But yes unfortunately bad behavior like this leads to the stigma of having a foot fetish.

    • Did he just attack her and take her shoe or something?

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