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How To Turn A Guy On

Ladies, have you ever touched a guy in a certain way and he started giggling rather than taking deeper breaths? I certainly have had my share of women who would do certain things in the name of turning a guy on and with such confidence too, that I couldn’t help myself but burst into laughing or raised my eyebrows at the least.

This is not only because every guy is different, but also because there isn’t such a manual to turn a guy on anywhere. In order to help fellow dudes, I will list a few here and hope that you ladies will share this information and also use your imagination to turn a guy on further.

1 - Looks are what you can easily start with. For this you may even practice in front of the mirror. Take one of those magazines and look at those female models pose. They always have this seductive look as if they want you no matter what. If you can master that look and use it on a guy, he will melt like Irish butter. Give him that look, suggestively, while you too are having dinner outside or when you are getting naked in front of him. It will have the same effect. Make sure you don’t overdo it otherwise it may look cheesy.
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2 - Make small, suggestive comments during the day, in public, in a crowd, brush up against him while passing. Compliment his sexual prowess discreetly. Subtle moves like this throughout the day will raise his excitement that he won’t be able to release immediately, which will build up the potential for when you two are alone.

3 - Moves such as stripping or moving your hips against his body would drive him crazy. If you want to turn him on with a touch, do these moves away from him at first, slowly getting closer all the while biting your lips and touching yourself. Then when you get close to him making him thinking you would kiss him or let him touch you, go back.

4 - Tell him sexy things like how attractive he is and how bad you want him, compliment him and boost his ego a little. While part of turning a guy on is physical, most of it could be mental.

5 - Guys are visual creatures so while doing all these moves, if you have attractive clothing on, it will drive him even more crazy. A t-shirt that shows your curves, a shirt that has a generous cleavage if you still have your clothes on, or a lace underwear or a lace night gown if you are somewhat dressing down would surely turn him on. But it is best to look tastefully to leave something to his imagination.

6 - Wear a perfume that he likes, especially around your neck and as you lean in closer and whisper in his ears he can smell you, which by itself will turn him on. Scent is something that works in public, too. As you get closer to a guy, or pass by him, he will surely get to smell you and go “mmmm”!

7 - Guys like to see girls in suggestive positions, any activity involving you bending-over will be great for him! Or even leaning over to show a bit more cleavage would do the trick. I guess you've already noticed that.

8 - Kiss him on his neck, nipples, chest and stomach while moving your finger tips alongside on his body and even bite him gently here and there. If nothing else did it, this would surely turn him on.

9 - Very slowly exhale or even whisper into his ear while occasionally kissing, nibbling and licking his ears, and kissing his neck. You can also do this after pushing him on to the bed and then working your way further down on him.

10 - Touch him on his thighs, hips, upper leg and around his groin area, without actually touching his “you know what I mean”. That would make him go crazy.

11 - Suck and gently bite his fingers and kiss the inside of his hand. Also take his hand and gently rub it on your face and all around your body. Make sure his hands are clean or you can get some cooties.
"Touch him on his thighs, hips, upper leg, & around his groin area, without actually touching his..."
12 - Slowly move all over his body, while gently brushing up your breasts on to his body and touching your lips to his body along the way. You can do straight moves, or even curve around. The less expected your moves are the better for him. You can use also your fingers barely touching him at the same time and that will just double the pleasure.

13 - Nails down his back is another one of the moves which turn a guy on. Now, you really have to be gentle with little pressure while doing this, otherwise it will feel like you are scratching his back, which is also an equally-pleasurable feeling, but you are not trying to make him go to sleep, are you?


Now if you see, all these little tricks are part of foreplay. As much fun it is to play with him, it is just as much fun to return the favor, so also make sure you give him some time to perform his mastery on you and don’t miss out his subtle, or not-so-subtle cues he sends your way throughout the day.

What Girls Said 19

  • The only sure way is to go down on him. And yeah SLUT UP!

  • Woah!I will definitely try this!Thank you!

  • It's funny, a lot of these are common knowledge, but no one ver thinks about thouching a girl in these ways.

    I think it's incredibly sexy for a man to touch and kiss to tease me. My boyfriend doesn't do this as much as I do it to him, I wish he would though!

  • This article is AWESOME! But guys don't forget girls like passion too!

  • Thanks soo much. Your article is the most helpful one I have read. I'm gonna try this.

  • Wow you jus gave me more ideas

  • Thats really good...i kinda done it all and I even have few more tips...

  • Wow , I'm sooo gonna try this .

  • i think this article is complely amazing

  • I came here expecting to find something new, but was disappointed by a wall of text of the most generic things people do during sex anyway.

    You should have called it "The beginner's manual on how to turn a guy on".

    And if you giggle at your girlfriend for doing something you don't enjoy, instead of guiding her, then you have only yourself to blame for getting mediocre sex. It takes two to tango and if something isn't going right, then let her know, instead of creating crap articles online.

  • Mmmmmmm!! Love this article! Almost all of those tips I had done, but sometimes I forgot to do those sometimes. I'm sure my guy would love this when I do that more. :D My favorite part is to lick around his hips, and around his groin surely turned him on! :D :D Now that I am in the mood to DO HIM TONIGHT!!!!

  • I have done all of these and I still feel like I don't really turn him on...I'm not ugly, I look AMAZING for having 2 kids...no stretch marks, I wear size 1 jeans, and I'm tight still, C cups, perky t*ts, He says its just because he's getting old but he's only 22..and I'm 19...I strip for him, I give him lap dances...so what the hell am I doing wrong?

    • 2mo

      Try sneaking some Ketamine and Tussionex into his coffee in the morning.

    • 2mo

      But a very tiny bit of ketamine

  • I don't think ANY of these tips would work on my man.

  • That like really helpful!!!! I'm gonna try all that stuff out. . . .whin I'm 23!!!

  • im trying this tomarrow.. I'm going to the lake with a really sexy guy and he wants it bad so I'm gonna give it to him ;)

  • A very good article, as an amature it's nice to know that I'm doing things right, haha. = )

  • I do a lot of these things and it doesn't even turn him on. It makes me feel like I'm not even sexually attractive to him.

  • I find my hubby loves it when I run my hands up his legs, as if on the way for his penis. I lick and bite my lips, shifting my eyes from his penis to his gaze. touching him everywhere when I get there drives him nutty, but the ultimate is touching his bootyhole! yea some guys don't wana go there but if he's clean and just showered, short nails and lots of lube will make his head spin! go slow, I use my middle finger, never more than half way in. massage gently upward while blowin him- he MELTS!

  • Wow...this is really good!

What Guys Said 7

  • We want PASSION. And we want a good head. It is all about the right attitude and few good techniques. Oral sex is very important for a relationship or marriage to function properly. It is easy to get into a day to day struggle to maintain attraction in the relationship - but if you are able to spice up your sex life, then there's no easier way to do it than by giving your man great oral pleasure. If you need more tips, check out this free blog --> link

  • Wish a girl would try this on me :P

  • This is really good

  • Awesome article. Thanks man, it's true that guys need to be turned on mentally too... but it's never really said.

  • After reading this I have to jack off better yet get a blow job. I don't think I could have answered any better. While I was reading this I was thinking of my girl got to go.

  • Lick his lips, warmly with yours and slowly begin kissing him, giving him your tongue, bit by bit. Move your hand lower and lower, and stop as you find the shaft. Zip it down (you know what) and hold it firmly, to rub it tenderly. With your index finger, rub it's head gently, till it's wet, wetter and wettest. Get off him, NOW! Move to the bed, lie on your back, hold him by the collar and pull him on top of you. Or is it woman on top?Need I explain more?!!


  • These things are all good.I like a girl to be a little rough with me to but in a playful way.

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