There are a lot of posts on here asking things such as:
- How many sexual partners makes you a slut?
- How do you feel about your partner’s number of sexual partners?
- What number is normal for a girl?
- Would you sleep with a whore and marry a virgin?
I just wanted to make a short myTake to talk you all through some basic maths. When you take into account all monogamous heterosexual sexual encounters then by logical deduction girls have exactly the same amount of sex as boys. This is pretty obvious but I’ll repeat it again very slowly and very clearly: when you look at every single time ever that exactly one girl and one boy have had sex with each other, all girls and all boys must have had sex exactly the same amount of times.
What this means is that thinking that boys must have had more sex than girls literally mathematically doesn’t work. If boys want more sex they are going to have to accept that girls will be having more sex too. And girls who think that they shouldn’t have much sex because boys should have more sex than girls would mean that therefore boys would be getting less sex.
How does this answer the above questions? Well it just puts things into perspective, every time a boy or girl calls the other gender a pejorative word for promiscuous (eg slut, player etc.) they are discouraging the other gender from having sex. And every time you try to stop the other gender from having sex you are making sure that your gender will also have less sex by logical deduction.
I think that most people can agree that sex in general is a wonderful thing (safe and consensual sex of course). It makes you happy, has innumerable health benefits, and well who doesn’t love sex? We should all be enjoying sex as much as we want to! So if you want more happy, fit, healthy people in the world who are having more happy, healthy sex let’s all stop shaming each other on our ‘number’ and propagating mathematically incorrect stereotypes that some numbers are better for some genders than other numbers. On average boy’s number = girl’s number so let’s just stop counting and move on.
Have a lovely day everyone :)
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