Girls on Tinder do smash. A lot!

[Anonymous]

I am a student in sexology and we did a research in sexual behavior on Tinder.

It's something we can't deny that it has a big impact on many people's sex lives. We asked questions to 300 guys and 300 girls who use tinder about their sexual experiences. They were easy to find since it seems to be extremely popular with people from ages 18 to 35! Here are some results that surprised me.

- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable.

- When we asked for numbers to the people that did have sex: Girls did it on average less than the few guys that did. That means that a couple guys score with almost al the women.

- These men do however show a lot of similarities: Muscular, well-endowed relaxed and (surprise!) a little beerbelly? The girls described the men's attractive personal traids as "they know what they want and don't hold back to take it."

- The opening lines that worked, were often extremely flat but to the point. One that seemed to work was just "wanna smash".

- It appears that these dates where sex was involved were mostly not related with hopes for relationships, just casual sex. The sex in most cases happened on a first date or even just immediately at someones place.

- The terms that came up most to describe the sex were: emotionless, hard, wild, fast, fun, physical and although that wasn't our question, doggystyle (lol). They rated their sexual encounters almost always as very good (other options were bad, mediocre, good). Many even said their best sexual experience is through tinder.

- Neither girls nor guys regretted the sex afterwards, but almost all girls like to keep it a secret, or with very close friends. Many guys liked to share their stories in detail. (not so surprising maybe)

- Something negative: Around 50 women admitted to have cheated through Tinder. Very few guys have. In almost all cases, the partner doesn't have a clue.

- Something positive: Almost everyone agreed that Tinder is a very positive influence on their sex lives.

So it seems that a lot of girls show more sexual interest than we thought. Also it seems (and not only through tinder) that women are, and this is increasing fast, daring to admit that they really enjoy casual sex without emotions and prefer certain guys simply for that purpose. This is a very posivive evolution for sexual/mental health. The number of women cheating however (this is also discovered through other researches) is also increasing VERY fast, and it is becoming less and less taboo, which in my eyes is a little shocking. The cheating doesn't mainly happen through tinder though, but apparently mostly at work with a boss or superior figure.

[alphadoggystyle]

yeah hypergamy is an awful thing, it worked it old society when women had less rights and more men where capable of having something to bargain with women for sex. Now since sex for women doesn't really have value, and feminist society makes it very difficult for men to gain anything to bargain with girls for sex, most guys are simply not interesting enough for women.

I mean hypergamy simply doesn't work in a feminist society, but you cannot change biology, and if this continues, more and more men are going to hate women, and loving relationships will be a thing of the past, because i dont know any sane guy who could actually love a woman if he knew that she had smashed lots of guys in the upper 20% and only settled with him because she wasn't good enough to secure any of those upper level guys for a relationship. How could anyone love a girl who settles for you after she realizes that her own value is not represented by what kind of guys she can have sex with, but rather what kind of guy she can keep. If women knew this from the beginning they might decide to not smash the top guys in secret before settling down.

[TheConst]

Also, what a joke. "- Something positive: Almost everyone agreed that Tinder is a very positive influence on their sex lives." What about 250 guys out of 300 who wasted their time? Also, you shouldn't misunderstand it. It isn't like 50 men fucked all the women, no. Out of them maybe 5 guys fucked all the hot top 50 girls. Then another 10 guys fucked all more or less cute girls. And the rest guys fucked fatties and uglies. And the girls who aren't actually were able to smash probably were just too lazy or 3/10 in looks or below, in other words, the unfuckable level of ugliness.

[termanator]

Yes my man alpha for life

[Bandit74]

Exactly why girls are having trouble finding guys interested in relationships.

Why do I want to spend the time taking a girl on dates for a month when she had pornstar style sex on the first date with a random guy they met on tinder.

Girls generally have higher standards for the guys they hook up with than they do for the guys they seriously date. Guys are more willing to lower their standards so it's not surprising that the small group of guys who are the most desirable would get most of the hookups.

[Bandit74]

Oh... take owner: is this study going to be published online anywhere or was it just for a project?

[myTake Owner]

Yes, it's true that women go for the most attractive guy, and men go for the most girls. Its a primal instinct where women want to mate with the highest quality genes (strongest, most dominant) and the alpha males (who have the option of many partners, spread their seed as much as possible. Although you'd think they aren't picky at all, they still are, but less then women. Most of the "successful" guys also described the girls they had encounters with as surprisingly good looking and often better than the pictures.

[myTake Owner]

The study seemed to have gone very well and brought up some interesting results so it might be published, but since scientific research i has to go through a lot of inspection before it can be published, it might take a while.

[Bandit74]

Yeah but it sucks for the guys who aren't "alphas". They have to take the girl on dates and wait maybe 1-3 months for regular sex. Meanwhile some dude on tinder was them to have pornstar style sex on the first date. How long would it take before its put online? and what would I search to find it?

[myTake Owner]

It's also something I noticed that "porn style sex" occurs on these casual encounters and women seem to enjoy that but many don't feel comfortable doing that with a long term partner. There's the saying, it's pretty misogynistic but also holds some truth, "girls want to be treated like a princess and fucked like a slut". The thing is that is hard to form these two contradicting bonds with one partner. That's why we often see women giving it up for some guys who treat them like "sluts" and have crazy sex in no time, but take a while to put out with a serious partner. it's like the saying "alpha fucks, beta bucks". I know that this isn't the best view I'm giving on my own gender, but as a future sexologist/scientist I need to be objective, and it's a harsh truth.

[Bandit74]

Well girls develop feelings for their fuckbuddies fairly often so I'm starting to think that for guys, aiming for friends with benefits first is the best strategy. If you get a yes, you get sex waay sooner and with less investment than a guy trying to build the emotional connection first. The sex you get will generally be more wild and then the still a decent chance she'll develop feelings or at least be open to a relationship afterwards. Like objectively I can't think of anything girls do for a serious boyfriend that they don't also commonly do for their fuckbuddies. Also the relationship guy often just gets cheated on and is completely oblivious to it.

[Bandit74]

also you didn't answer my other question... How long would it take before its put online? and what would I search to find it?

[myTake Owner]

I don't have any info on that yet.

[Bandit74]

how long does it normally take?

[myTake Owner]

It can take a month or two or longer. It all depends on the inspection.

[Bandit74]

Hmm, could you either comment on this opinion or send me a message if it gets posted online?

[TheConst]

Girls think that they aren't sluts if they only fuck the top 5% of guys. While in guy's eyes any girl who is easily available is a slut and it doesn't matter much if she is easy only for the best guys or not. A girl who is easy is off-putting when we talk about LTR because unconsciously it tells us that this girl isn't seeking to get investment for a man, she seeks good genes and if you invest in her... she would accept it so that you raise someone else's child. In ancient times there weren't any DNA testes so having LTR with a slutty girl was equal to risking being the cuck who raised other guy's children and lost his DNA and resources in the process. Guys who chose to invest in sluts just were unable to pass their DNA to the next generations.

[termanator]

Truth my brother

[Kirah]

"- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable."

This is pretty much common knowledge at this point, and also clear proof for the idea that women can get laid and get dates much more easily than men.

[TripleAce]

So who are the real perverts then? Men or women

[myTake Owner]

@TripleAce I'd say either both or non.

[Johnagain]

@TripleAce Yeah!!! Words in one of my songs.

[AndrewTroy]

That's not quite true, because women seem to be competing for a very small group of men. This would mean that, while women can have sex easily with that small pool, they cannot date that small pool easily.

[Kirah]

@AndrewTroy they could always just increase the size of the pool of men that they want to date. They'll find someone who wants to.

[AndrewTroy]

Kind of, yes. But I don't think attraction is a choice for women (or men, for that matter). It's like if I was sexually desired by homosexual men, and I'm not homosexual, and I said I can get a date easily. Sure, true, but not the date I'm looking for heh.

[Joeyzn8]

So Men hardly ever get chosen for sex Women have all the control over consensual luv making

[jokesonyou]

You know, most people were married in their early 20s as recently as the 1980s. Now it's something like 70% of people under 35 have never been married while half of all marriages end in divorce. 70% of those divorces are initiated by women. A reasonable expectation of being able to have a family, children, and experience things like love, intimacy, etc., is really the only real bond most men have to their society. When enough of them realize that bond no longer exists, how long do you think the whole thing will last before those men burn it to the ground?

[HershelBergstein]

@jokesonyou the reality is that those men that have dropped out of this entire scheme will be absent the day they'll be called for help for any reason or another.

[redeyemindtricks]

Lol, I'm tempted to set up a profile as a social experiment. My husband would think it was hilarious.

[BellePepper]

DO you have any sources?

[AndrewTroy]

She does have sources. She says so in the article Source: We

[GirlsLie]

"- Unlike I thought, 240 of the 300 girls actually had sex through tinder! Only less than 50 of the 300 men, which is remarkable."

Remarkable? That women can get laid easier than men? Who would have guessed!

Tinder creeps me out honestly.

[myTake Owner]

No that's not what's surprising. Every woman that has sex, needs a guy since the amount of homosexuality among the subjects was very low. Let's take 6 guys, 6 girls. one of those guys would have sex with 5 of those girls. It is scientifically proven that mankind has a polygynous primal instinct, but it's remarkable that the result is still so clear.

[GirlsLie]

I didn't know that was surprising either though lol marriage/being with one person for the rest of our lives is something that people created and force on each other, some people just aren't like that.

[myTake Owner]

That's actually very true. I like that you have a clear view and see thing realistically.

[GirlsLie]

It's weird because i'm the kind of person who is only interested in the person they love lol but that's not for everyone and it makes me laugh when people say "why don't marriages last". Well they really weren't all meant to from the beginning.

[jokesonyou]

But... gender equality..

[Betwyn]

I'm soo glad I don't have a Smart phone..

I don't think I'd trust myself with access to Snap Chat and Tinder lol

[LaurenGrace]

Quite a few girls i know have had lots of sex that they werent getging till they joined tinder
. you'll be suprised how many of that 20% group of guys are up to smash with a married women and do mfm with her an husband #

[LittleSally]

Haha Hilarious...

[myTake Owner]

I also had to laugh sometimes. But guys seem to take it really bad. I'm glad someone can laugh at it too.

[jjmarvin]

Which thing do they take bad?

[myTake Owner]

@jjmarvin That all the girls are fucking around casually and that only a couple lucky guys get to enjoy all of them.

[brain5000]

Talk about the "one percent!"

[Crazyced]

It is a rude awakening from the "I like nice guys who head on their shoulders" mantra for the unsuspecting men. They've been playing the game with the wrong rulebook. Like girl that would think men prefer to marry women that fucked tons of guys. It's only fair to expose how things really works.

[AndrewTroy]

Maybe you can explain the joke. I mean, the implications are true… but finding it amusing, unless I'm misreading the joke, sounds like laughing at suicide rates. If I didn't know better, I'd say there was an undercurrent of misandry, at least to the 95%. Whereas, it seems to me that it'd be more interesting (to everyone) to retrain the 95% to be more like the 5% (which I don't think is a fools errand).

[Johnagain]

@Crazyced... Only fair. So now let's ruthlessly run a mock & get laid with some of these sluts!

[BlackenedHatred]

there's nothing "lucky" about scoring some whore. And laughing about the fact that some piece of shit who is born with a certain face and a big amount of us average hoes get nothing is evil. You are scum

[lolman96]

mytakeOwner i bet you say the same thing about wealth distribution right? RIGHT?

[tattooedhandfet]

So it's a good thing that women wanna use you men just solely for fucking? I don't understand... because I didn't think the guys would wanna get used considering the stats (less than 50)

[tyber1]

The evidence isn't suggesting that guys are unwilling to be used, it is suggesting that women are choosing to use the same small group of men while the rest get nothing.

[tattooedhandfet]

No what this evidence suggests is that the women are pretty easy. But that's just my opinion.

[tyber1]

If they were easy, the number of men wouldn't be so small. They are easy, but only for certain men.

[tattooedhandfet]

No it seems they are all sleeping around. But not the guys. There is only a small portion of them hooking up and such a high percentage of women. Perhaps the women are smashing other women too. Did ya take that into consideration?

[tyber1]

We are basically saying the same thing.

[tyber1]

Actually we aren't. I'm sorry, I am tired. I still maintain that all these guys are trying to have sex, but women are only willing to indulge a small amount of them.

[AndrewTroy]

No, no, @tyber1 is right. The survey suggests that the girls are easy for a small group of males, while the rest find them difficult.

[higgsboson]

And no red pill man learned anything new. Anyone who denies the red pill (a) benefits from waiting betas, (b) likes living in the unreal Disney fantasy, (c) can't deal with facts, or (d) has a white knight savior complex fostered by mothers, sisters, and fake romance films. Either way, they deserve all the hurt coming their way, as they chose it for themselves.

[mistixs]

This sounds interesting but if you were really a student in sexology wouldn't you put this into a peer reviewed journal & not anonymously put it on girlsaskguys? I mean, if this in a peer reviewed journal I'd be really interested to see!

[RachelBrigs]

I'm a bit confused. Of every 300 female tinder users 240 have sex with tinder dates but only 50 of every 300 male users do the same- who are the girls having sex with?

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

With those 50 males. Think of it like this, every girl has sex once with one guy, but every guy has sex with 5 different girls once with each.

[myTake Owner]

@TheGuyFromMiddleEast Exactly This. so if you have 6 girls and 6 guys, 1 guy has sex with 5 girls.

[Scrambledagain]

@rachelbrigs have you not accepted anything I have said. My dear. A minority guys get the majority girls.

[0112358]

The other factor is there are likely more men then women on tinder. So in a given city lets imagine there are 2000 women and 10000 men in tinder. You go interview 300 women and 300 men. Not surprisingly more of the women are successful. The 'alpha guys getting all the girls' is also a factor which is why the guys who are having sex are having it more often. But both factors are present.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Actually, @0112358 is also right, never thougth of that. When you take a sample group, you also take the distribution characteristics of the whole group to a pretty good degree. Which means, the ratios actually gives us (Succesful Men in Tinder/Total Men in tinder) and (Successful women in tinder/Total women in Tinder) not (total sucesful men/ total number of men) and same for women. So, if there are significantly more males in Tinder than females, the gross number of men and women having sex through Tinder might actually be equal. So, it might not have produced a significant, scientific result in polygamy and female sexual behaviour.

[myTake Owner]

@TheGuyFromMiddleEast I know and that's the biggest commentary we had on our test. But then again, 300/300 is a big group and the results are overly clear. Also the total number of guys and girls on tinder isn't that different.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

@myTake Owner the bigness of the group is not significant in what i'm talking about. The bigger sample group is, you get the general characteristic of the big picture better, but it doesn't do anything about what @0112358 said. However, if you know that the number of men using Tinder is not really different than the number of women using it, then you're right. With this group, if you'd like, you can scale down the group to show the statistics better if you'd like. Something like this, if men using Tinder is twice more than women using Tinder, than twice more men than found in this 300 men of sample group gets to have sex in general. Just multiply the numbers to give a better insight. Consult any engineer or simply anyone who has taken a statistics class to help you out with this.

[jokesonyou]

It's confusing because you're supposed to be the damsel in distress who is oppressed while men are privileged. Doesn't compute, does it? It's almost like our entire understanding of men and women is based on a cruel lie.

[jokesonyou]

You don't need a Tinder study. This phenomenon is well known by biologists who study human mating. Geneticists can show that we are descended from twice as many women as men. The reproductive success of men has always been half that of women. Since the sexual revolution and the decline of marriage, the predictable demographic problems have already surfaced in any number of countries. Aside from the disastrous economic and political fallout from declining birth rates, you have widening gender disparities in reproduction. For instance, in Norway it is now the case that 26% of men go without having children while only 13% of women do. And this even when research shows that men and women expect and want to have children equally. It's only for men that it's more likely not to pan out. In Japan, you have the "grasseater" phenomenon, an estimated million men that don't even bother with careers or leaving their parents houses. It's a disaster. I guess this is "gender equality" and

[tgheretford]

@TheGuyFromMiddleEast - the information and sources I can gather regarding suggest that Tinder use is about 50/50. For general dating websites it can be up to 60-40 either way depending on a 5% margin of error, but with the exception of one outlier article, generally there is nowhere near a situation where men make up 67/33 of users on Tinder. I would suggest that the study represents fairly well the make up of men and women using Tinder and also backs up other scientific studies in this field that I am aware of. I too also look forward to the study being published so I can go through it myself.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

@tgheretford If that's the case, I agree. I have written that comment in the absence of such knowledge.

[AndyOh]

I think I need to do some research on Tinder!

[ThisDudeHere]

And then women continue on saying that they have it just as hard as guys do when it comes to getting sex or dates...

[jokesonyou]

I have a hunch women women will stop saying this as people begin to catch on.

[AleDeEurope]

I'm not surprised at all by what you said, given that almost every time a woman swipes right, she's getting a match, while guys have a very very low percentage to get a match.

Though I don't know who you are and how reliable you are, maybe you're just throwing out random facts and trolling us all. You should have shown prove about who you are and/or this study.

[ccp16]

I thought the same thing... not to call out lies on no proof alone, but literally every piece of this reaffirms all stereotypes... especially the ones that insecure GAG men are most likely to think about. I would just like some better proof is all.

[BertMacklinFBI]

lol

fuck tinder

[WeeGeeTheSecond]

precisely

[Sinister]

@BertMacklinFBI - I second this motion!

[pavlove]

why?

[CHARismatic110]

This.

[Rcjh1987]

this

[Rcjh1987]

tinder sounds like a setup to disaster. I've never or will use it.

[Starfishlover]

I don't need tinder. I get picked up left, right and centre... in real life :)

[HikerDude]

Must be a busy street corner.

[Starfishlover]

Oh definitely

[jokesonyou]

So what? All you have to do is have a vagina. Most fat girls can say the same thing.

[Johnagain]

@jokesonyou Broo-Ha, ha, ha! You tell 'er.

[zombiebabe]

yea... tinder is used to hookup...

[TripleAce]

Not surprised, Women just try to pretend there not like that... they like to blame men about being perverts and this and that.. but the reality is there worse just more discreet. Men are not discreet so its more bold

[myTake Owner]

Well it is true that women tend to lie more about sex, which is also because they are easily labeled as "sluts" compared to guys. There have been tests where they asked a big group of females sexual questions where they had to fill in their name, then asked another group the same questions anonymously. A lot of questions had extremely different results, like how often they had casual encounters: average 1 to average 5, if they have ever cheated: 5% suddenly 30%, ... you get the picture. So yes it's true that they hide a lot of facts, but the fact that they are less oppressed now is a good thing. Depends on how you view it.

[dudeman]

its not a good thing for society. its simply evidence of our decaying civilization. in no way is that a good thing.

[itsmatty]

@dudeman agreed. how is women lying more to fool men because they want to keep their options open a good thing?

[ChocEyes]

Well, good for them. That's what Tinder is for, right? :) All is good. On a side note, I would be very interested in seeing this research and the methodology you used.

[Sexualchrist]

All of the women having sex with just some of the guys hey? Who knew?(sarcasm)

[brain5000]

filler filler filler

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[brain5000]

Muscular, well endowed... maybe not relaxed.

[brain5000]

" Muscular, well-endowed relaxed and (surprise!) a little beerbelly? The girls described the men's attractive personal traids as "they know what they want and don't hold back to take it." Why don't women just admit that it's a physical attraction and stop the BS about "they know what they want blah blah blah." Ordinary looking dudes know what they want, too. You're probably not smashing them on Tinder.

[brain5000]

It is also interesting that the "Wanna smash?" line works. How many women complain about getting that initial introductory email on a dating site to that effect? I don't get it.

[brain5000]

In any event, remember, 80 percent of men: you'll find someone. :P

[FakeName123]

Hard, wild, fast, doggy style sex sounds about right.