The reason why mostly girls get slut-shamed is because they get pregnant. See, if a man has sex with a lot of women, he won't get pregnant and possibly die. If a girl has sex with a lot of men, she can get pregnant, and therefore she might die during labor. So, women are at risk for death if they have a lot of sex. If you know that and are still willing to sleep with a bunch of people, you'll be slut-shamed.
Other girls slut-shame you, not men. time.com/107228/women-misogyny-twitter-study-demos/. This article shows that women are more likely to do slut-shaming than men. That's probably because men like slutty girls. They're easy, they (Most likely) have lower standards. Which brings me to my last point...
Sluts have lower standards. Sluts sleep with a ton of people, so they probably aren't picky about who they sleep with. If you're not picky about that, you don't have high standards.
So, how can we avoid slut-shaming? To be honest, we really can't. Other girls will get jealous of you, and try to bring you down. Just ignore them. Be a slut if you want to, as long as it doesn't affect other people. The most us women can do is have standards, sleep with less people, and dress classily.
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