Guys: Sexually Pleasing Women and Proper Love Making Tips

Guys: Sexually pleasing women (proper love making)

So guys are forevermore posting on here about pleasing women (sexually). Granted all women are not the same and some of these might work on some women while others will not. Making love is a trial and error thing, as time passes you'll each (man/woman) learn more about what your partner likes, loves and what drives them CR@ZY! That's why sex does get better with time. So in trying to put some of those questions to bed, here are some instructions. Let's jump right in...

Touch her sensually

Guys: Sexually Pleasing Women and Proper Love Making Tips

It's not a race to see how many body parts you can touch the fastest. Groping is good when things get rougher but even then doing it sensually heightens her arousal. Imagine a massage here... the masseuse glides their hands slowly down your back but they seem to catch every sport at the same time. Do this from her shoulders, down her sides (rib area), then cup her breasts and give a gentle squeeze. Then move your way down-- not too slowly but not too fast either... until you reach between her legs. Of course you can do these sensual touches during sex too. In my opinion it's like telling the woman she's way more than just a hole; that two second pause where you do this before continuing to make love will be magical.

Find her sensitive spots

Guys: Sexually Pleasing Women and Proper Love Making Tips

This is important. You guys would know! Find out which spots make her wild. You can do this by gauging her reaction while you kiss her body. She might wiggle or shiver when you kiss her in a certain spot (besides the obvious spot) which would be your cue. Common ones are the neck, shoulders, lower abdomen, top of the spine, and the toes (I guess you would only try this if she has 'good' feet). When you know these spots, use them to your advantage. Teasing her there (touches, kisses and sucking) will make her hot, make her wet and sometimes make her beg you for sex if done well enough.

Foreplay makes a world of difference

Guys: Sexually Pleasing Women and Proper Love Making Tips

Women like feeling special just like men do. Men enjoy getting their erections massaged/sucked and guess what, the women enjoy some pre-sex attention too. Don't be selfish, the less selfish you are is the more likely she'll want to do things to please you too. Hand stimulation is really good foreplay, and if you're into it your tongue stimulation can be as well. I recommend using them both to pack a sexual punch she'll moan/cry for. Pretend the vagina is the prize... Gently squeeze her ass, plant many soft kisses on her inner thighs; working your way up from mid thighs. Just when you get close enough to taste it... don't. Start from mid thigh on the other leg. When you get to it again, maybe give a lick but not too much (still building arousal) and focus on the clit. At the same time, begin plunging your fingers into her, adding more fingers as you see fit. When you feel like it, lick the lower part of her 'hole' while your fingers are moving in and out. Or remove your fingers and just plant your tongue in there (entirely up to you).

Nuzzling is a good thing

Rubbing your nose on hers and kissing her anywhere genlty while you're inside her is a good thing. Playing with her breasts and nuzzling them before/in between sucking them is a good thing. Kisses on the forehead are also a good thing.

Be rough but gentle

Sometimes a woman wants to get a little rough. By all means go right ahead! But understand that not all women enjoy you fucking them so hard it hurts or feeling they're suffocating because you're holding their neck that tight for those few minutes. If a woman asks you to be rough go up a notch and keep going up one notch alone until you find how far she's willing to go. Generally, you can be rough but gentle. Try squeezing her butt, pulling her down onto your shaft as you thrust forward. The amount of force used will vary depending on what she's comfortable with. Also place your arms around her (if you are having sex from the back) as if you were doing the heimlich manouvre, but let each hand hold one of her shoulders or breasts instead. Again pull her down onto you as you thrust forward. Smacking her on the ass is another way to get rough, as well as putting her in a chokehold, or my personal favourite holding on to her hair... not yanking it too hard (that hurts) but a good tug while fucking her brains out never gets old.

Giving compliments goes a long way

Guys: Sexually Pleasing Women and Proper Love Making Tips

During sex be open... tell her she feels good, tell her you love being inside her, tell her she's so fucking sexy, tell her you could live inside her. You want to make her feel good about herself. Chances are when you start treating her like this, she'll soon start reciprocating. And if a woman at anytime decides to get on top, if you want her to do that again you should let her know how awesome it feels by; talking dirty to her (for example "Yesss, sit on my dick baby" or "You look so good riding my cock"), egging her on (example "Oh fuck yes" or "Don't stop baby"), saying "that feels so fucking good" and you can hold her by the hips and help her as she comes down on you.

Being clean is a must

Now don't underestimate this one. A clean downstairs is not hurting anybody. If you expect your erection to be sucked/licked, more times than not the woman expects you to be clean and fresh down there. A bath can be a sexy thing, you can use it to initiate sex/foreplay by you washing her (sensually) and letting her wash you (you know what I mean). You can take it to the bed after round one of hot steamy love making in the bathroom is done.

Communication is key

Be sure to tell her what you like or don't like, but be tactful about it. Have these discussions outside of sex, like maybe right after when you're both lying there naked. Maybe start this conversation by first asking her what she likes or would like to try. After you listened, tell her your side.

Please note, this is all subject to your own interpretation of what you think she will like. I hate overly long GAG takes so I decided to stop here though it already seems quite long :/ I hope it helps!

Girls let me know what you think... Guys you can too if you like :)

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes! Foreplay is everything to me. I need to feel safe, respected and appreciated otherwise my arousal can only go so far. My best experiences were always people who made me feel like they wanted to take their time with me. Lots of sensual touching and dry humping. Lots of kisses all over my body. And great oral/fingering. How you touch a woman's body can be a huge game changer. Having confidence but being slow, deliberate, passionate and gentle goes a long way. One guy in particular really took his time. There was a huge buildup just teasing me with light touches to my belly, thighs. It was painfully arousing. Then he'd get on top of me and grind me while mostly clothed, making indirect contact with my clit. Again just taking his time. Then he insisted on doing oral on me. He had clearly done his research because he was doing the "come hither" motion at the perfect tempo inside me with his fingers. And he paid so much delicate attention to my clit alternating between tongue and finger. I was so wet that we actually chuckled about it. So guys -- take your time! It takes more to get us going and you will love the reward.

    • I know girl... Some guys just don't get that taking their time makes every ending ten times happier!

Most Helpful Guy

  • The biggest tip I'd give which most guys and even women don't get is that foreplay starts the first time you catch her eye and only stops when you are actually having or recovering from sex.

    What I'm saying is your whole attitude, the way you do and say everything can be a caress if you make it one. You can start building up her excitement before you get anywhere near a bed.

    • I agree with you 100%

    • Is this why if a girl wants you and she can't get you it gets her even more excited and desperate?

    • so true and very much what i mean when i say i'm attracted to mannerisms

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  • Hi. I really recommend to all guys to try and hold their ejaculation. If you last 5m, go for 10, if you last 15m, go for 30. There's no specific time but the more you hold your orgasm, the more satisfying will be your sex. One can do the best foreplay (cool tips described btw), even having her with a couple -or lots- of orgasms with it, but when our orgasm come just within minutes after you started to digging her, that's a bad ending to the history you are creating together.

    There're some methods using breathing, eating, exercising and/or meditation (I use the last two, and for me works like a charm) but needs dedication. One can hold the erection longer and have the feeling of a real man (or pornstar), who has his woman satisfied and her world rocked.

    The first step is to study one self. Masturbate and recognize the stages of your orgasm (or try while sex but is more difficult to concentrate on one self on that scenario). Stop when you feel the load moving. It's difficult for staters since one had the "urgency", I identified on myself three stages, there're shorts so one has to know it very well to act in time. When the load move you have to stop the digging.

    While doing sex, don't stop the act for your partner, so once outside go for more kissing, playing and/or liking. Within minutes (with time, will be within seconds) your load will be "stabilized", so you can go back to business again, and with more experience, you will be having more time between the pre-load stage.

    One can say "hey, she'll be having lots of orgasm while there's just one for me?". The answer is yes and no. Going with this kind of technique where you can control every stage of your ejaculation, one can have a similar feeling of an orgasm without having to drop your load (not happen always, but I've feel the same as a full load orgasm, without having the load delivered. True history). So as you are feeling all the goods, you have the control on when to deliver the load (which, by the way, will feel like the best orgasm you'll ever had).

    That's a difficult goal but not impossible. Every woman is different so the same way you act on one, won't affect the same way on other. With some you'll need a couple of minutes (of digging, not foreplay) with other, you'll need more time to have her reach her orgasm. Do you ever dreamed of her begging to you to stop the pleasure? One feels like a sex god. This technique take time an patience to be adopted, but -no pun intended- delivers.

    • Thanks for your input! :)

  • Yes, this is all very true!

    I would personally like to place an emphasis on sensual touching and foreplay. That's a must for me. I LOVE when he pays close attention to my neck (touching/kissing). It definitely helps build arousal. I also love dirty talk too, that's hot.

    The most important thing is good communication though. Figuring out what each other likes or doesn't like is essential to good sex because everyone is different and therefore, will have different limits.

    Great take :)

    • Thank you :)

  • The basics we all know about... wheres the good stuff?

    • You'd be surprised how many people don't know this.

  • About 90-95% of this is perfect for me. There were only like 2 or 3 things that made me think "no" in reference to what I like. But, being clean (bathed and teeth brushed) is an absolute must. Otherwise, I am turned off. This is a GREAT take. Bravo!

    • Thanks *high five* :)

    • Lol. You're welcome. *hive five* 😆

  • no no don't be rough! ... that's my job! lol

  • After I read this I showed my wife. She asked me if I wrote it XD excellent take my friend! According to my wife I do much better than she could ever want. Though I think she's sparing my feelings. I always want to do better. She appreciates it and tries to return but sometimes she goes a little overboard. I'm largely submissive in nature. She is very much dominant. This is how we work. Though I enjoy taking the reins occasionally. Variety is very much a necessity. Different positions, holes, even rooms can make a difference. Sex is definitely a trial and error act. However making suggestions of where people can start to figure out what makes their partner tick? You have my full support my friend!

    • *wink wink* Lol thank you, glad to be of service :)

  • Very good mytake !
    only thing is many girls like many diffrent things, my favorite is still to pin her down hold both her wrists with one hand and kiss her in her neck and go with my other hand around her body to hunt for the sesitive spots (not clit/nippels) and i keep doing that untill she begs me to fuck her, and then i still make her say please

    and talking down to her during sex, calling her things like whore slut etc (based in sentences contantly talking down to her)
    Just completly dominating her.

    I also bounded her to the bed one time blindfolded her and used to feather to tickle her around her body, and touch/kiss her on the non sexiual sensetive spots
    Its bedsides very hot, also very fun to do this :P, mess with her mind a bit
    without her expecting entering her, also seemed extreemly intense for her

    However great mytake, hope i didn't make anyone wet xD

    • Thank you (did not make me wet though sorry lol) And yes as I said each person is different... thanks for your contribution :)

  • All guys should read this. And realize that it isn't all about us pleasing them, they have to return the favor SOMETIMES! Great take!

    • Thanks ^_^

    • You're welcome :)

  • Great take, but could have just said "eating pussy" is king.

    I've had sex with 2 women and both were genuinely surprised that I wanted to perform oral on them. Needless to say, they enjoyed it and paid me back in full with some of the best cowgirling I've had.

    Seriously, just get good at eating pussy.
    The tongue is the clit's drug of choice haha

  • Rough but gentle? That's like saying a spoon should be hot but cold😂

  • I agree with everything you said. If a guy follows what you said here, I am basically in heaven! I love a man praising me during sex, and being a little rough as well. The tug in the hair really never gets old!

    • I know right! that tugging *happy sigh* lol

  • These are genrelly the tips I follow and I have always had an amazing sex life, I think this goes both ways as far as advice is concerned

    • Agreed! It definitely goes both ways Well most of it anyhow lol :)

  • interesting take

  • It works well for guys who knows nothing about the woman's body

  • Nice MyTake, I like it :D

    • Thanks! :)

  • I'm bellegirl and I approve this take! 😊

    • Thanks

    • Nice lol

  • Was hoping for something I didn't already have a handle on.

    Oh well, I'm sure it's useful for the inexperienced.

    • Good for you! At least you got a reminder then :)

  • Gotta preheat that oven! ;-)

    • It's funny cause it's true lol

  • Nice Take, very educational :)

    • Thank you! :)

  • Man, here's my tip:
    Do strategic foreplay.
    Finger the p***y, while you are kissing her, get her to a point where she almost orgasms, then stop. She will be super horny at that point, and she's do almost anything. Try some new stuff if you want. Then afterwards, you finish her off.

    • Thank you for your contribution :)

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