Sexual Relationships 
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A lot of people would have you believe that sexting is the dumbest thing to do not only because it "makes you look like a teenager" but because it "auto sends you to creep zone." This is false information. Sexting badly is something that teenagers do and auto sends you to the creep zone. Here are some helpful tips on sexting your way to her inner dirty thoughts, her ass in a super skinny thong, and ultimately the real thing:
Learn to type dirty
The things many women are ok with reading in these erotica fictions is downright nasty from a male's perspective, yet they gasp when they see a picture of a dick out of nowhere. For whatever reason, most girls seem to respond much more positively to being told there's a big penis that's waiting for them than to actually seeing it in a photo from your iPhone at least when they're not warmed up. By typing dirty and doing it well you not only can create really sexy images in her head which she will think about when you're not around but it's also more appropriate and will even come off as a really shocking but really sexy surprise. You just have to learn how to incorporate it organically by stating the fact that this is probably innappropriate. It's possible of course that you can get rejected just like you could if you were to make a move too soon in person, however, what's key about your sexting game being great is that you can tap into her primal sexuality as a woman that she may not even have known she had (it's better when they don't know actually.)
Timing, timing, and more timing
There's a lot to be said for charging straight out of the gate and if you have the luxury of playing a numbers game then go for it, but more often than your not you'll want to talk a little bit first before starting up. Remember sexting is a way of having sex when you can't actually have sex. You want to make sure the approach is right and that she's having a good time throughout. But here's where you can also have fun with it. Sexting her when she's in a class, sitting at work etc. when she tells you not to is a great time to do so. basically the only times never to sext is when you're still figuring her out (if she's saving herself for marriage or a relationship abort, abort, abort project) or if she's really stressed out to the point of anger or if something bad just happened...
It doesn't have to be casual
People forget many couples sext each other. It's a healthy way of keeping that physical bond going and keeping things spicy and exciting. You shouldn't have the attitude that you're pulling off something creepy (though you may feel like you are when you tell a girl how you want to undress her and she tells you to tell her more) You have to believe that what you're typing is sexy and real--not a ploy to get nudes to show your buddies but an actual expression of your physical desire for her. It can be more about making love than about humping. It can be whatever you both find sexy...
Age don't mean a thing (But keep it 18 years old and up)
It's kind of disgusting that people assosiate sexting with teenagers when teenagers shouldn't be sexting. It's a very grown up thing to do. Many incredibly dirty images of discussed and pictures (i actually would try to sext a lot without pictures first until you learn what you're doing) It's for people who are ready to have sex with each other. It's a thrill in it's own right because of the impossibility of it all--the tease. Will they actually hook up or will they just badly want to? So, don't trip that you're coming off as immature. Sexting well enough that she actually gets wet from things you tell her you want to do to her is a mature understanding of what turns a woman on sexually.
The Build Up is actually a good thing
So you might be worried that you can't possibly live up to these sexual fantasies you've given her, but it's the desire to have those sexual fantasies actual be coming to life that's going to make her enjoy it that much more. If you've been dying to get a blowjob from this one girl for ages and ages and she finally does it the moment her lips touch your penis you feel like some special dream is actually happening. That's what we're going for here. So when and if you do actually hook up after sexting for a while go into it knowing that she's going to see you through the lense of you being a dream sexual scenario come to life.
You will occasionally say something not sexy, but just move on
Like real sex, you will say the occasional thing that in your head was sexy or the pic of yourself that you thought looked good but actually looks funny--it happens because you're not a perfect fantasy but a person so just laugh and move on. It's easy not to lose the mood if you justkeep going.
They want what you've got
You will get a lot of eye rolls and jokes at your expense if and when you ask girls if you should sext this girl you like. They will almost always answer no. I don't know what motivates this as out of curiosity i once sexted a friend (y) who told the girl i was first talking (x) to not to sext me back and (y) ended up sexting me behind her friend (x) back. I'm not saying this to say girls are shady but just that for some reason they don't give the advice that they themselves follow so it's hard to really value it. I think a lot of factors go into this but just think that they want what you've got which is this fun little outlet and they don't want you to have it and are going to try to make you feel bad about it so you will give it up.
Write what you see...
You want to be incredibly visual without literally being visual. You don't want to say " I want to have sex with you" that's boring you say " i want to touch your hair and kiss your soft cheek and pull your panties gently down and slide into you"
You don't say "I'm going down on you" you say "I'm kissing your inner thigh as you're getting wetter and I lick your lips once and then insert my tongue deep inside you"
And if you're feeling daring you don't say "I want a threesome" you say "I'm imagining you sitting on top of this beautiful blonde girl's face and you're riding her mouth slowly" (I've noticed a lot of straight girls--if they're willing to indulge lesbian fantasizing it's almost always with a very beautiful girly girl like them with even longer hair and bigger tits; it also avoids giving her the image of you with another woman until she's so horny she doesn't care how effed up it is.)
Ok, that's all I can think of in this department for now...i'll leave you with this. behind closed doors...girls want to be bad.
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