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We Men Aren't Bothered By This "F***boy" Thing

We Men Aren't Bothered By This

No, ladies, we will not accept a term that demonizes us the way "slut" happened to you. Guys aren't going to call each other this. We're not going to repress our slutty behavior because some girls call us something that sounds like a prebubesent boy with a chain around his neck that's only brough out for sex. All that you have going for you is the element of surprise because it's new, but it's doesn't have lasting appeal. I've already been called this by over a dozen women and I'm not bothered.

We Men Aren't Bothered By This "F***boy" Thing

Men are too confident to be phased by this silly attempt at evening the playing field, so stop using this word if you want to be taken seriously. We don't look for social cues for how to conduct ourselves. We just live. It wouldn't occur to a man to consider that his actions could disqualify him from the respect of several females, becuase he would never, in the first place, consider the respect of someone else over the respect he has for himself. If he feels there's nothing wrong with his promiscuous behavior, he could care less that some woman claims to abhor it. He understands this is the only paradigm that does not include emotional slavery and so f***boy is simply an attempt at convincing him that a girl's opinion of him is of higher value than self opinion, which he rejects and disregards.

We Men Aren't Bothered By This "F***boy" Thing

We don't do it for the validation. We don't do it to feel warm inside. We don't do it to feel like one of the pack. We do it for the purpose of actually finding sex pretty darn awesome. If I've dedicated a large portion of my life to sex and have developed less "picky" tastes it's because we sex more like a hippie would...about spreading love into the vaginas of many, many women whether we develop strong attachments to them or not. We are impermanent. Nothing we do will matter in a hundred years. We are valueless to the cosmic universe and yet this is the ultimate freedom because we have no responsiblity. The universe is not counting on us to do anything. We live for our own intentions. We're men we work hard, we play hard, and we strive for success in all endeavors.

We Men Aren't Bothered By This "F***boy" Thing

We Men Aren't Bothered By This "F***boy" Thing

We Men Aren't Bothered By This "F***boy" Thing

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hard working cultured men aren't promiscuous, and haven't ever been promiscuous.

    Masculinity is not equal to promiscuity, being sexual is not equal to promiscuity.

    Promiscuity is not a natural sexual behaviour, it is like fatness and its effects are just as sever on mental and physical health as extreme obesity.

    The only place promiscuity was widespread before the sexual revolution was ghettos, which are the source of violence, child abuse, economic and intellectual poverty, lack of emotional empathy, STDs, subclinical mental disorders.

    What you are doing in your societies is expanding ghettos.

    "Males" are not naturally promiscuous neither are females.

    When intellectual and economic poverty is widespread, when nuclear family and your middle class is destroyed and you are getting poorer by second, when there is an erosion of empathy in the society, when there is an epidemic of narcissism and depression disorders, when antidepressant use has increased 400 percent, when in 40 years STDs rise from 4 to 24 and annual new infections are 20 million, when more than 750,000 teen pregnancies occur each year and the number of single mothers on welfare are skyrocketing, of course promiscuity will become your new "normal" and you don't even understand what was the world like before sexual revolution, because you are no longer normal.

    You are living and grown up in a society with a ghetto culture. Insensitive, without any personal depth, without any motive to try to deeply understand other people, drowned in trends you blindly follow, affected by hippie culture of irresponsibility and parasitism, of course that makes you sexually satisfied with impersonal sex, because you have no strong personhood yourself.

    Don't even consider yourself slightly normal if you are satisfied being promiscuous.

    • This comment deserves ALL the likes!!!

    • pretty sure anybody with hitler in their username doesn't deserve any likes...

    • Anti depressants are up 400% because doctors and psychologists had them out like candy and the drug companies are happy because profits are up400%. Std's have always been prevalent before modern medicine ie Syphilis and others which thanks to penicillin you never hear of anymore. Those 750,000 teen pregnancies dont take into account of those that are in a steady relationship and all unwanted pregnancies can be avoided easily with proper sex education and contraception. Years ago before contraception unmarried teen girls got pregnant all the time and were forced to get married or sent away to relatives and the baby would be brought up by the granmother as her child or put in a institution forever and the baby adopted it was all about aperrances the difference now that is all out in the open. Cultured men have traditionally always been promiscuous wife swapping and whoring which was fine as long as it was keep private. Women no longer have to stay with a bad husband

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  • You right except us guys will and do call each other fuck boys but the thing is we don't mean the way women on here do. Fuckboy is just another insult like being called a dumbass, bitchnigga, or whatever. Only on here do I hear fuck boy being used like it means manslut.

    • Same here. I've never heard it used as a synonym for "manwhore." Every time I've heard it used, it's been used more like "you pussy/bitch".

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  • I don't think you get what fuckboy means... It doesn't mean the guy is promiscuous, although he often is, but thats not the meaning. And its not exactly an insult like the term "slut" is seen as.
    As for myself, my friends and my community we use the term for someone who is "too good to be true", and they have very similar characteristics in the way they go about wooing a girl and manipulating her into getting into her pants with loads and loads of lies and leading her on so she thinks he legit likes/loves her when he doesn't. And also, player isn't necessarily synonymous to fuckboy, a lot of people can spot a player from miles and the girl most of the time knows what she is walking into. But fuckboys can seriously make it seem like he is a genuine guy when he is not. And although I could use the term player as well in some cases, for some reason using the term fuckboy to my friends just seems to have more of an effect on them and makes them more likely to leave the lying asshole.

    But anyways, of course most guys aren't bothered by the whole fuckboy thing because it doesn't affect them like it does for the girls being played and led on thinking it was real, only to end up being used. I have seen a lot of guys get all defensive about it when I call them out on it though. But its definitely not a term guys would be using towards each other though because they have no reason to, unless the guy is calling out his friend to stop being a fuckboy (lying, playing, manipulating, the girl), only because he doesn't think its okay to do that to people.

    • downvote. ur def not getting what it means--at least in america

    • I guess urban slangs have different meanings in different countries

    • thats exactly what I thought the meaning was! and im from the US

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  • "Men are too confident to be phased by this silly attempt at evening the playing field, so stop using this word if you want to be taken seriously. We don't look for social cues for how to conduct ourselves. We just live. It wouldn't occur to a man to consider that his actions could disqualify him from the respect of several females, because he would never, in the first place, consider the respect of someone else over the respect he has for himself. If he feels there's nothing wrong with his promiscuous behavior, he could care less that some woman claims to abhor it. He understands this is the only paradigm that does not include emotional slavery and so f***boy is simply an attempt at convincing him that a girl's opinion of him is of higher value than self opinion, which he rejects and disregards."

    This really hit the nail on the head! Women shouldn't take it to heart when they're called sluts, because really, who cares what others think? Do what makes you happy! Also, the only people I know of who use the term "fuckboy" are 16-year-old high school girls, and it's just a pretty stupid sounding word in general.

  • I'm still just really confused as to when "fuckboy" changed from meaning you were a clown, or a joke, or someone not to be taken seriously. That's the only kind of "fuckboy" I've ever heard of outside of this site. Like at least five years ago, if not less, that was the only meaning fuckboy had.

  • Haha none of my business and personally I couldn't care less who calls me what. I know who and what I am. But it seems to me that u r bothered by the term, for if u were not, then u wouldn't have taken the time to write this my take on it

    • i want them to know so they stop trying lol

    • Haha ya I hear ya I just couldn't resist buggin u a bit lol I think about 5% of guys (if that) would be annoyed by being called a f***boy and about 95% of girls hate being called a slut (at least not while in the bedroom lol there some quite like being called a slut)

  • It is nothing new. There are lots of words for guys that already mean the same thing as fuck boy already. Player, man whore, womanizer, etc. Men get slut shamed way more often than women do. The only guys that are actually going to see it as an insult are generally feminist white knights desperately trying to please women so they too can get laid.

    Men aren't even phased by these types of insults. Even if I called a man a whore, he would just respond "Thank you". Most men just don't view sex the same way that women tend to. Telling a guy he has lots of women that want to have sex with him is not an insult to a man, it is a compliment. A man has to prove himself worthy for sex. A woman just has to spread her legs. Our situations just aren't comparable.

    • Men do NOT get slut shamed way more often than women do. Are you kidding me?

    • @Adekae No I am not kidding. Our shamming commonly comes in the form of being called perverts our accused of only thinking with our penis.

  • The only reason you don't care is because it doesn't lower your value with the opposite sex. That's it. xD

    • but girls who use it are trying to haha

  • I think you're mistaken. I don't know how it's used in your neck of the woods, but in Chicago, it's not synonymous with a promiscuous man. It's more synonymous with "player", a guy who manipulates girls to get in their pants. He can be promiscuous, but it's not shaming the promiscuity, just the manipulation tactics. It's not the male equivalent of "slut" either because the guys who bone them usually know that she just wants sex no strings attached.
    Often behaving in a way and claiming to be "different" than other guys. It's kinda like a friendzone, mangina, white knight, and player all rolled into one horrible sludge of a guy.
    Nothing to be proud of, but these men seem to take pride in sociopathic behavior. "Yeah bro! I led Stacy on and then I just pumped and dumped her ass, she still thinks we're in a relationship". "But did you hit it?" "Yup." "Nice".

    Also, player is not really available because men take pride in manipulating women for sex. Of course not all men. Just as some women take pride manipulating men (usually with sex) for material possessions. Of course not all women.

    I see nothing wrong with either being promiscuous so long as they are both (or all, if you're into group sex) adults, consenting, and aware that it's just sex.

    I don't like that word and don't use it. I think it's fucked up how we can think of insults like "thots" and "fuckboys" but can't think of why the opposite gender doesn't take us seriously.

    • interesting... yeah i guess there are some guys who take too much pride in being a snake to get sex... but that's not me. i get it cuz i'm dope

    • In the dance of sexuality, men and women use manipulation tactics whether they know it or not to attract the other sex. It's just how nature made us.

    • Great comment. Nothing wrong with a guy sleeping around as long as the girls he's with know who he is.

  • Do you think the first woman called a slut were bothered? I'm guessing not... it takes awhile for this type of stuff to take hold, if it does it's job no one is going after you but the generation after you. I agree with you no one should be demonized for their sexuality, esp. if it has more to do with the other genders insecurity then anything else. I personally think all of the labels like this should go... it says a lot more about the person who uses them then it does about the person they are talking about anyway.

    • exactly! wish i could MHO this

  • I'm mildly surprised that anyone would care about terms li

    • Oops, i messed up my post ha. Anyway, I'm surprised anyone cares about terms that negatively describe someone who sleeps with multiple people... *most* people these days have slept with more than one person or had sex just for fun... so someone who is using derogatory terms like this is probably jealous, insecure, or purposely trying to hurt someone. Why else would someone call someone else a fuckboy or slut? It's just silly.

    • so true !

  • Uh, I've seen quite a few guys bitch about it. Actually, probably at least 50. You really should learn to speak for yourself.

    Anyway, women have been called names like sluts and whores for centuries and centuries. This word is what, several years old?

    • well i'm only hearing it now... maybe it's just taking off as a really popular thing to say?

    • I guess.

    • If they're bitching about it, it's probably only as leverage when women are all bitching about being called sluts and whores and blaming men in their never ending endeavor to find oppression in every little nook and cranny. I've seen about 100 of those, on GAG alone. The vast majority of men are not going to give a fuck. No idea what your point was on the second thing. Just comes off like "but wommmmmmen", to me. He wasn't using the term as a means to say "Yeah, but men--" Although, there was a nice implication.

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  • I've been called a fuckboy before and it's really hard to take it seriously. It's like "Haha, you think I get tons of sex and girls? Alright. I won't disagree I guess."

  • Ah, that Lana Del Rey gif gives me the shivers, man.

    • that's the girl on the car?

    • yep.

  • I don't get what the problem is. That's not something I'm called a lot, but it certainly doesn't offend me. I'd rather be called that and getting "it", than not being called that and never getting a piece.

    • exactly

  • I hate the term 'fuckboy'. So stupid and immature.

    • yes!

  • Honestly, the term fuck boy sounds like such a little girl insult lol. I can't take it seriously when a girl uses it in any way aside from joking

  • Well I turned down sex a couple of weeks ago so y'all can't call me that, and no i dont get it often. I've had it twice in as many years

    • why on earth would you do that?

    • Because I dont have feelings for her, Id had sex with her a couple of times in the past month anyway - well, 4 tbh, I went for round 2 both times... and now for me at my age, the appeal of random sex is pretty low...

    • lol you're only 28

  • Most (straight) guys have so much respect for the social and emotional skill of consistently getting pussy, that they will refuse to use this "fuckboy " term about other guys in this context.

    • What do you mean they have respect for the skill? Are you saying that it's hard?

  • It's a stupid term that reeks with desperation on the behalf of the people trying to make it a 'thing'.

    I suppose it's easier to make up another word (as if there was anything wrong with 'manwhore') than to change your thinking that enjoying sex and having fun with it is somehow wrong, and needing to shame people whose enjoyment isn't hurting you in any way.

  • that is sexist.
    I d agree if it goes both ways for guys and girls. I don't give a shit if someone sleeps around as long as he s careful and clean.
    but in the end every behavior has a name though it is what it is, I am just indifferent.

    • funny you say this now after you inspired this take ;p

    • say what? cause I called you a fuckboy? I only did cause you called me a slut lol

    • ask forgiveness in front of all these people

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  • Lmao fuckboi

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