I get to have sex
Some men are just happy to be getting to have sex. Life is simple. You work hard, you're nice to people, and occasionally, an attractive woman wants to go home with you and you get to slip it in for an hour or so. Then you go back to your buddies, you feel like the man for a week or so and then you simply live an average life until the next chick comes along. Maybe this one you'll date...or not...you don't really worry about it.
I have to perform
Some men get really bogged down by sex as performance art. Usually this happens because they screwed some girl over and so as revenge they called him a lousy lay, or maybe he's just a bit less coordinated than the average guy and so he is actually a lousy lay. In any case, this guy feels he has something to prove and fears failing that sex is more of a fitness test than a pleasurable experience. Poor guy.
I get to give her the thrill of her life
Some men have the opposite problem. They somehow learned a few things that most guys don't know about great sex and got props on it from girl after girl after girl. Now they believe their God's gift to women and their confidence translates to sexual charisma.
This is love
Some guys girl will avoid if they're looking for a nice, quick, clean lay. This is why it's better to be a little cheeky and rude to girls sitting alone at a club--they're looking for a jerk who won't get attached and into them. They also could intimacy issues themselves (God forbid women actually have issues of their own and aren't perfect little dolls for male amusement.) In either case, this guy will have a hard time distinguishing love from just plain, nasty, sex.
I'm bored
This guy just is bored and so he calls a girl up to come over and he'll give her a good time. His narcissism and inability to be affected by her feminine guiles makes him irresitable in the most ironic way possible.
Other guys would think I'm awesome
This is the girl who's drop dead gorgeous that you know guys would be extremely jealous about. Even if they never see you with her...you'll you hooked up with her...you'll know.
I'm getting my fix
Guys get this way a lot of the time from porn. They are so horny and are looknig for any girl who can satiate them until they need it again.
Reaffirming identity
They want to be the guy who gets laid. It's very important to them on some level what others think and so as he's trying to convince himself that he's a player, he's forcing himself to be something he's not. A man should never have to try to act like himself. That is the biggest contradiction in terms.
Worship
They have pined for this girl for a long time and they finally get to see her naked. Dope.
Hate
They hate this girl. They've argued. She makes him crazy. He releases the nexus of his fury into sex...great sex.
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