How To Give Oral To Your Man 101

How To Give Oral To Your Man 101
Good evening class,

I am Professor. Zee. I will be covering Oral Sex 101, in this section I will introduce the basics of giving oral sex to a man. Please, don't have things misconstrued, anyone can wrap their lips around a cock. But what separates an artist from a regular painter, is pure want and passion. How many of you can work a penis like a stripper would a pole?
By the end of this class, I will instill knowledge in you, that will give you a boost to be on your way to do just that.

How To Give Oral To Your Man 101

The Warm Up

Have you ever been immediately able to separate those who are enthusiastic about the actions they perform from those who are not? For example, take a police officer for instance, there's plenty of them around but what makes one stand out to you, is the one that does his job effectively. You can tell this officer is different from most because he has a passion for his job. He likes what he does.

So class, when you're about to give oral it's important for it to be:

A) Something you want to do.
Not something your partner pressures or forces you to perform by persuasion.
If you aren't enthusiatic about the idea, it will show!
It will either be "just another blow job" that he has gotten or not a good one at all.
B) Make sure you relax.
When you do the rest will come naturally, like a rapper to a beat you will freestyle on his penis and do things out of pure passion.
You may even surprise yourself!

Those two tips are the most important of all. If you have passion, that means you have devotion, this will allow you to build on knowledge that you already have.

How To Give Oral To Your Man 101

Techniques for Beginners

A) No teeth.
The feeling of teeth can be rather painful and uncomfortable. Make sure you enlongate your lips, over your teeth while performing oral. Your mouth should look like the letter "O", wrap your lips tightly around his penis.
The tighter you wrap it the better, you want it to feel like a glove.
The tight, wet, moist environment feels similar to the cavity of a vagina, this is why giving oral sex can be one of the best sensations for a man.

B) Make it nice and wet.
If your mouth is dry, take as much of his penis down your throat as you can. This will make the saliva come up from your throat, and allow him to be drenched in wetness.
The wetter the better, make it hot and nasty!

C) Focus on his head.
The tip of his head is one of the most sensitive parts, make sure you twirl your tongue around it.
If he is uncircumcised, gently push his skin back exposing his head.

D) Lick up and down his shaft.
Stick your tongue out and lick up and down his shaft.
This is one of the main parts where enthusiasm comes into play.
Allow yourself to be free and fully enjoy your guy.
Don't put so much thought into what you do.
When your mind steps outside of its safe shell, you may even find yourself moaning,
while you look into his eyes and lick his member.
The moaning is a turn on, because this shows you aren't just robotic, you're actually enjoying giving oral.

This is important because one feeling genuinely desired adds to arousal.

E) Deepthroat.
With practice you will get better. You don't have to deepthroat throughout the entire oral session but do it as much as you can. If you can't take him all, allow the inches you can take, to fill your mouth up. When you feel like you about about to gag stop briefly, if you find that you cannot continue, mix up your routine (by doing techniques C or D). When you feel you are at ease, start deepthroating once again. Challenge yourself, see if you can do it longer.

F) Your hands aren't just an accessory.
Use your hands. While you are sucking him, massage his balls for an added sensation.
If you're willing to be nasty, after massaging his balls, start gently sucking them.
I personally love to use my hands to jerk him off, while sucking his balls, for an added sensation.

How To Give Oral To Your Man 101

You'll find yourself going back and forth between different techniques.
When you do, remember always make occasional eye contact, his reaction works as feedback to tell you if he is enjoying what you are doing.
There's so much more things not mentioned that can be introduced into the world of giving oral.
You will discover them on your own, as you explore your lover.
You may even get creative and add tricks of your own.
Eventually, you will develop your own technique, and not need a guideline.

How To Give Oral To Your Man 101

Questions or comments anyone?

Class is out of session.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hah you stole my glitterlips! LOL

    • I found it on google , lol. I thought of you when I saw them, and remembered you are one kinky lady yourself so you must approve of this take!

    • These aren't your actual lips however, so all is good. These lips are around to do their service !

    • Hehe you lie like a rug, I cropped that shit so it'd fit on my profile. The original looks like this:
      www.languageofdesires.com/.../...f_Lust_Review.jpg

      It's all good tho. I don't own the original, either. (:

      @Consultantisback said it best... doing God's work. Fighting the good fight, etc. LOL

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Most Helpful Guy

  • YOU ARE DOING GOD'S WORK
    Lmao

    • Stop male genital mutilation.. I could have had more pleasure?

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  • 1) Focusing on the head isn't as pleasurable as you make it out to be. The most sensitive, and orgasm-inducing portion of the penis is down the back of the shaft, just at the base of the head to about 1/4-1/2 down.

    2) Deepthroating is unnecessary and is only there to put on a 'show' for the guy. For me personally, it doesn't add much except for more saliva.

    3) Treat the balls with respect, 'cause some ladies go kinda' nuts (see what I did there) with them and either squeeze or pull to hard. Yes, it's great when also working the cock, but be careful not to focus too much on them.

    Other than that, a decent, generalized, myTake.

    • I am speaking on experience. I have a tongue piercing as well. My guy goes especially nuts when I am playing with his head, way more than the shaft area. Everyone is different. This is why reading ones body language is important as mentioned here

    • And some guys likes girl to be rough on their balls. I had a guy that wanted me to squeeze them with all of my might and even step on them. In this take I put gently suck them because most guy's from my experience like them to be handled with care. Deep throating makes my guy cum quicker because of his sensitivity. The key here is communication with your partner and observing him. Great :) alterations Now girls know how to specifically please you

    • The 'rough on nuts' thing is called a fetish, and I pointed that out as a warning. As for the 'head play' and your guy going nuts because of your piercing - he's faking it. You can barely feel a woman's tongue piercing and it basically does nothing extra. And yes, you're right - everyone is different, but you never said that in the myTake - I'm pointing out some of the things that, based on my experience, aren't "do this and it'll work every time."

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  • Haha this is really nice. I really agree with part B, C and E.
    And the eye contact is a must for sure. Blowjobs are indeed the idea of mimicking the vagina, as you mentioned of the 3 factors; wetness, tightness and warmness.

    • Mmmmm you know what you're doing huh :P

  • Darn it now I really wanna suck a dick and try this. :(

    • Get to it!!! :P

    • Get it gurl!

  • I think this is a great myTake. These questions get asked so frequently on here, so it's great that you have hit everything for them. The only thing that I feel like is common sense but for some reason I think a lot of girls forget (obviously I'm a woman speaking from conversations with my fella and friends) is that you need suction. Side note... maybe my guy and friends are just freaks and most men don't enjoy that?
    But suction. After all you are "sucking dick" so suck! I have heard so many of my male friends state that girls who gave them head just moved their lips up and down without any suction. Now as I said, I think that's common sense, but apparently not, and maybe most guys don't like that. Just speaking from my crowd, we could be freaks 😜 lol.

    • Lol I swear, there are some funny-ass girls here. I mean... I guess there's suction? It's not like a straw, or something, though. In any case, I'm more of an open-wide-and-let-the-boy-fuck-it kinda girl. We both win, that way. As regards yr friends, and their war stories? Dude, I will never, ever forget the time when my oldest brother threw open the door one day at 1AM in peals of laughter. Apparently, some poor girl thought the "blow" in blowjob was literal. He had literally been laughing his ass off the whole way home, after dropping her off. At least 10-15 minute drive.

    • @redeyemindtricks Lol a straw😂, seriously my best friend complains of that frequently. "They just move their lips up and down with no suction". That is hilarious about your brother! Poor girl. I'm sure she never did that again, what a rough way to learn.

    • Hah, nah, my oldest bro is a consummate gentleman. I swear, if you open up the dictionary to "classy", his picture's probably right there. I'm sure he managed to hold the laugh until the door slammed shut. I mean... if anyone could, he could. LOL

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  • I don't complain whether I get head or not, but good job Professor Zee! Loved it!

  • Good take! Definitely gonna remember some of these for this newbie in oral.
    Just a little question, I don't want him to cum in my mouth. How can I prevent that?

    • I suggest being up front with him and telling him that you do not swallow, so tell him before hand so he can take it out. If there's any where else you'd rather him cum, then direct the attention in that place (ex. boobs, face etc.)

    • If you tell him dont then its more of a turn on for men to do it for your reaction its a turn on watching women suffer like pushing there head all the way down to listen to them choke.

  • It certainly seems you know what you're talking about! Great mytake

  • Write a take on "How to get ready for receiving oral" or just tell me directly 😅

    • How to get ready? Is there some special preparation I'm aware of? :)

    • *unaware of?

    • I'm asking. Like how your pubic hair should look or should you have them in the first place or not? Should you apply some creams/lotions/colognes? Does good underwear matter? How to moan (intentionally)? Etc. Etc.

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  • thanks for writing this , very helpful. "like a rapper to a beat you will freestyle on his penis"- my favorite line tho :P :D

  • I really enjoyed your MyTake. Thanks. It's great general knowledge for many just beginning oral for their partner and for those who want to do more.
    I'm really blown (no pun) away by all the male haters who needed to comment. It's got to be that the only way they know how to speak is to be argumentative. It's probably been too long since they have enjoyed (if ever) a good bj. I just want to say thanks again and don't let the haters hate get you down.

    • Thanks for the words of encouragement

  • wow, very nice.
    the only thing I would change is...
    1) many guys, like myself, don't feel any difference when a woman does deep throat. I see no reason to chock yourself if it won't make any difference to me. So i tell women not to if I see them do it.
    2) wetter is not always better. I had a woman spit on my cock once which was such a turn off I had to ask her to please not do that and to watch less porn. Due to medications for back pain, I need more friction to make things finish (if we have had sex multiple times in a short amount of days.). So the least amount of saliva to do the job, the better.
    but bless you on behalf of all guys for your post... lol

  • Personally just a little bit of teeth contact on the shaft gets me going.

  • Amen...

  • The concept of oral sex is ridiculous, the thought if is is immoral and the doing of it is disgusting... right there along with anal sex.

    -Not like I call that "having sex" anyways.

    • Immoral?

    • @Indigocloud Immoral... it's like trying to stick a socket of a appliance back into it's self instead of the wall. Lets plug than refrigerator into that toster oven, lol. I mean sheesh, penises were meant to goingot a vagina and impregnate the female, lol. It's insane that everyone can't see it. Lets just say... I'm just glad ladies ears and nostrils aren't really big.

    • *meant to go into*

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  • Excellent job! Although you did mention going up and down the shaft, I would just add that the most sensitive part of the shaft is the inch or so just below the head of the penis on the underside. That's why girls who can't deepthroat can still give an amazing blowjob. And your mention of stimulating the guy's balls is also very important. Great work! 👍

  • Deepthroat is a personal obsession for me, yeah. So I need a girl who can really do it and keep me gobbled up balls deep even when I cum.

    Hmmm. I should post a Take on how to eat p*ssy.

    • Yes you should. There are never enough of those XD

    • I did the male version of this, but I'm looking forward to see one written by a male, haha :)

    • I think it's because when a guy writes something on how to please a woman, the women will just say he doesn't know what he's talking about because he's a guy.

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  • This reminds me how much I LOVE doing this. So guys, question... how pleasurable is sucking on the balls. I sadly focus so much on the shaft but I may just do more ball work if it makes oral better...

    • That is exactly what I thought when I read this !!!

    • Omg tbh it feels fawking AMAZING getting my boys sucked lol. And tongue flicks :P

    • @thisdudejimmy ah so is it nicer than the actual shaft? Do you like both at the same time?

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  • The guys will definitely worship you now.

    • not me

    • I dont give a fuck who you are

  • Yes this is good, side note to girls: Do not pull away when the guy starts cumming and ruin the orgasm, horrible feeling.

    • SO you mean we have to swallow your cum? What if we dont like to

    • @kitty71 No I didn't say that, you can spit it out if you dont like it. Im saying dont pull away once he starts to orgasm

    • So we just have to hold it int he throat until you guys finish cumming then whenu finished we spit it?

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  • if you can deep throat, it really makes the guy lose control. so at least try it. they even like it more when you can't but still try to. :)
    lick the balls.

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