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Okay. After reading everything that has been posted on here to read. I think I'm good now. The woman opinions are pretty much the same as my own. But i can't answer the question because I'm not a guy. I don't know why guys do what they do. I'm a woman and all I can do is guess, or ask. Which is why I asked. And it seems like with all male responses, that this is what men do. They masturbate to woman to keep them from cheating because they are animals and it's their instinct to Desire a lot of woman of many kinds. And they don't want to jack off to their girlfriend because they are bored with with their girlfriend and need to have something new. Either cheating or porn. Which is basically what was said but it was made to sound more scientific then barbaric. And woman can be barbaric too. I like watching porn myself. Not nearly as much, and only when I can't get it from my man.
But I do understand it. You like it. You need to feel like you are a stud muffin who is having sex with with various woman because simply the one you got isn't quite enough. OR you are apart we from your woman and need to handle things yourself. Both are fine. Woman do it too. But don't paint it as a scientific, human hormones make us this way blah blah, we are men, hear us roar crap! Your dogs. Sometimes loyal, sometimes not. Sometimes playful, sometimes not. And you like to hump stuffed animals as much as a female companion... Yes, as I have been told by many men now, it's in your nature....fine. Great. It's in woman's nature too sometimes. But just say it straight up, guys are barbaric. And some woman are too.
What surprises me the most. Is how woman try to understand this. I was shown that I'm not the only woman to ask this question. Tones of woman have. Why? Because we want to understand men. We want to know how to deal with the porn thing. How to adjust to you.... How many men have wondered or tried to understand why the porn thing bothers some woman. Everytime I had posted in this feed that I'm OK with porn. Just not when I'm in the other room, waiting for you to finish jacking it to pictures of someone else, while I'm left wanting you but your need to feel like you are fucking someone else leaves me dissatisfied. That bothers me. Hurts my feelings and makes me feel pretty shitty. But in an attempt to tell me why you guys are like this, I was told I was wrong 'no no, it's not about you. He is a man....blah blah'. Well yeah! It is about me too. If your sex life starts to suffer because of your urge to wank it to something 'new', you are no man. I'm not asking you to stop watching porn. I get it if I'm not around. If I am, include me. You want to wank it, let me watch. Let me do something! I don't want to be locked out on the other side of the door making you breakfast while you jerk it to something 'new'. Uhh, f*ck you!? Do you MEN understand. I like porn, my guy likes porn. Fine. I like porn when I'm lonely because I need some help getting off. He likes porn apparently because he needs to feel like he is with someone else. WHATEVER. But, if it becomes a problem in a relationship, will any man try to understand why? Or will they put up their defences and try even harder to explain that they are just being guys? We (or at least I) get it. Your just being guys! Now it's your turn to get it....it's not always an ok thing to do. Give and take. Happy medium. I shouldn't be told to get over it. I should be told 'okay I understand' the same way I have said 'okay I understand'
And for the record, gentlemen. Porn is not sex. For those who say it brings life for the bedroom, that is horse shit (specially if you never make it to bedroom cause you are wanking it) But I can see why you guys think that. I'll let you in on a little secret....girls in porn videos, are faking it. Seriously I'm not just saying that. Read interviews with porn stars. A lot of times they fake it. And a lot of times, the sex they have on tape, is nothing like what they have with their partner off screen. I'm a kinky person, and I'll try anything once. But seriously, a lot of things is pornos is filmed so you can see what's going on, not filmed to feel good. I don't know about other girls, but if you are not an extreme bendable Barbie, it friggen KILLS to have your legs up buy your head for more that 5 mins. But it looks good on camera. And if you picked up your pussy eating skills from pornos. Forget everything you know. It's filmed so you can see the guy/or girl flicking her tongue. But that little flicking. It doesn't do shit. Get in there damn it. The clit is the exact same as the tip of your dicks. Every nerve ending is right there. That's why a lot of girls need clit stimulation to even climax. What do you like done the tip of your dick. You like is sucked on. Little licks is just a teaser. You want it sucked on and you want a mouth or hand to move up and down around it. Well, suck on a clit. Press your tongue on it and move it up and down. Little licks and flicks like in pornos is just teasing.
And 'porn helps us last longer' just so you know. There is such thing as too long. There is too quick, and too long. Nothing sucks more than a guy who takes forever to come and you have been done and just want it end already, except a guy who finishes to quickly and your left horny....
I have taken the time to try and understand men. Mostly my boyfriend. To help me say 'okay, I get it' but not one man who explained to me to help me understand said 'okay, I get it' to me when I tried to help them understand why it can be bothersom. I'm wrong. It has nothing to do with me. Life f*ck it doesn't. It has everything to do with me. If your woman is trying to bend herself differently to suit you and understand you, least you can do is bend back for her. Give and take people. Compromise people.
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