"I know this sounds incredibly lame, but I don't want losing my virginity to feel like I'm losing something. I want it to feel like I'm finding something. I want sex to be amazing. I want it to be life-alteringly wonderful. And I want it to happen with someone I love. " -Sonya Sones.
I’m a virgin. I know that I will not be having sex until I find the right man for me. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and the idea of it, but this is just my personal choice and I'm not embarrassed by it. I've come so close to having sex many times, showing I've got the will power to stop myself. This is because I feel I shouldn't be losing my virginity to somebody that I'm not in love with. Some people are embarrassed of the fact they haven’t had sex yet by a certain age. To be honest, that is something you should never feel embarrassed about. Having sex is a big deal and you should do it when you’re ready and when the time is right. You should never pressure yourself into having sex if you don’t want to. So, here are 4 reasons why it’s okay to wait to have sex:
1. You're Not Ready Yet
This is pretty much common sense. You should have sex when you feel comfortable having sex, not when you think you should have sex. Everyone feels ready for this moment in their lives at different times. For some girls, it's at a young age, or for others, it's much older. Either way, you should have sex when YOU feel ready.
2. You're Sticking To Your Beliefs
Are you religious and that's why you're waiting to have sex? That's totally fine! Maybe you're even waiting until after marriage to do it. If you really believe in this religion and this is what you want to do, waiting to have sex means sticking to your beliefs, and that is always an awesome feeling.
3. "Everyone Else Is Doing It"
You know what you want; you're waiting for the right person. If that's the case, keep on waiting until you meet that person. You might feel like all of your friends are doing it or everyone you know is doing it, that doesn't mean you have to do it. It's completely fine to wait until you meet someone you truly care about to share that moment with. Don't feel pressure to do something you don't want to do just to impress other people.
4. You'll Learn There Are People Worth Waiting For
When you have a specific reason for waiting to have sex, it can also mean ruling out the people who aren't worth your time. You'll find out which guys or girls are willing to wait for you and which are only interested in one thing; sex.
So, there you have it! These are only 4 reasons why it is completely okay waiting to have sex. Yes I'm a virgin, but I’m confident about my choices. I feel like I haven’t betrayed who I am because I know what I want; honeslty, I always have and I’m willing to wait. Even though sometimes, waiting is tough. Now, I’m also waiting for the next moment that I’ll have to tell a new guy that "Yes, I’m still a virgin". This time I’ll say it proudly, without shame, and without apologizing for who I am.
Are you waiting to have sex? Why are you waiting? If you’re not waiting for a particular reason, are you embarrassed of being a virgin?
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