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All Men Want Sex

(Disclaimer: I do not claim to be an expert on men and these may be seen as generalizations)

All men want sex

I could never understand why some straight men get upset when they are accused of being sexually attracted to a female.

All Men Want Sex

A heterosexual male is attracted to women sexually, and homosexual men, are still men and are visual too.

Men are visual and when a guy sees a woman who he does not know, he would be lying if he said he cold approached her because she is smart and intelligent.

He approached her because he liked the way he looked, but I could never understand why some guys get upset when accused of liking a girl with a nice body. Did you not approach her because she is pretty?

All Men Want Sex

Did you not try to have a fling with a girl you did not find sexually attractive?

Yes some guys want relationships, but that does not mean that automatically they no longer want sex from the girl too but I think it is naive to think that a guy who I do not know approached me because I like Shakespearean literature.

If a guy wants to take me out on a date it is not because he wants to only have a friendship with me, even if he falls in love he will expect sex somewhere down the line.

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  • Of course (the vast majority of) men want sex. Anyone who denies that is delusional.

    Sure, we also sometimes want more than just sex too, but sex motivates the vast majority of our opposite-sex relationships.

    Here's the thing: men and women want relationships at about the same rate. Put a girl in a room with 100 single, age-appropriate guys, and she'll be interested in having a relationship with about 5 of them. Put a guy in a room with 100 single, age-appropriate girls, and he'll be interested in having a relationship with about 5 of them.

    The difference is that women, for the most part, restrict their interest in SEX to only those 5% of guys they'd want a relationship with - and MAYBE an extra 1% who is just a super-hot guy that she would be okay with banging casually, 'cause he's hot.

    Men, on the other hand, want sex with every woman he finds attractive, so in this hypothetical group of 100 girls, that's about 50 of them. Or, to put it another way, for every 10 girls in the room he'd like to bang, he'd only be interested in dating 1 of them. 90% of the "bangable" girls don't have a chance at a relationship with him, EVEN THOUGH he's have sex with her, because she's not his type or just doesn't do it for him when it comes to being in a relationship.

    Keep in mind, though, that this doesn't make men "worse" than women - recall that they are both only interested in 5% of the opposite sex for a relationship - but because of the way women think (only being interested in sex if they're interested in a relationship), they tend to equate men's interest in having sex with them as being interest in a relationship - even though the math says that 90% of the time, that's not true.

    In fact, women need to accept that, for men, desire for sex and the desire for a relationship is NOT AT ALL the same thing, and they must learn to separate the two when trying to examine a man's motivations - and this is something women are lousy at doing as a rule (men are just as lousy at thinking like women, so, again, no one is better than the other).

    • I am willing to bet that if left in the room long enough with those 100 girls, eventually, he'll have sex with them all lol

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  • I don't think there's anything wrong with most men wanting sex or viewing it as a big factor in being with a girl.
    For one, isn't that the difference between who is your friend, and who is your s/o? Sure, there's feelings and all. But they alone can take you only so far. Our ultimate purpose to being romantic is sex, for the sake of reproduction.

    I'm sure you wouldn't be all that 'have a fling with me but not find me sexually attractive' if a guy you were friends with or interested in said he loved you as a friend, but found you sexually repulsive.

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  • Thus is well written. As men we have an extremely high drive for physical intimacy. God put it there. The difference between a good man and a shallow man is how much he's willing to do to be with a woman physically.

    Is he willing to give her two dates, or is he willing to date her for one, two, three years in celibacy, get to know her on a level that nobody who compromises and has sex before marriage never will.

    In the end as men we need physical intimacy as bad as women need to be loved. It affirms us, builds us up, makes us feel wanted, desired, and worthy.

    It's just how far you're willing to go to get it. The more effort you put into her the bigger the reward.

    • Thank you

  • Yea, I agree. Most men want sex. Most women want sex. It's biological. Most people aren't asexual.

  • I think there's many approaches to this.

    Women would be similar in that way that they wouldn't approach a man that they didn't in some way find attractive. Women do cold approaches to. Perhaps women creates fantasies and romantic ideas about that stranger she is about to approach. And some of those women just want sex, just like men. This is quite common in the club scene.

    This is not saying that you are wrong about men.

    But if you are approaching an unknown woman you obviously have nothing else than looks to go on. But men can also, like women, create a mental and romantic idea about how he thinks or want this woman to be. She might dress a certain way or look a certain way that triggers emotions more than just sex.

    An approach can be the hope that she is everything he is hoping for, and only way to find out is to actually talk to her and get to know her.

  • I have never heard any one deny this, its the accusation that that is all their is to it that is denied or the idea that a man cannot be attracted to any type of woman but rather a very specific type.

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  • This is the best take I've ever read.
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  • So there was this guy who I never spoke to before his face was a bit familiar cause we took the same shuttle and one day he approached me made a funny comment to me I laughed and then he introduced himself. After that we became casual friends, at first we spent a lot of one on one time together and he never made a move. I was never sure if I was interested so I talked about guys I was seeing in front of him. To be honest I was never sure if he was attracted to me, lol I saw him watch my boobs maybe a couple times, but that was all. According to this logic was he sexually attracted to me then? lol

    • Most likely yes. But by talking about other guys you like you pushed him away.

  • Yes guys will usually approach a girl based on her looks, but this is only on the outset. Once we start the convo with her we want to know a whole lot more about her. She might Shakespearean lit and that could possibly make us like her more. It's not like we can find that out based on seeing her for the first time.

    Yes sex is usually pretty high up on the list for guys, but girls' want sex too. It is probably just wanted at different times in the relationship. Most guys I think would probably do it on the 1st date but girls much later. It doesn't mean we want only sex just that we want it to happen quicker in the first stages of a relationship.

    If a guy desires a relationship with a girl he will expect a lot more than just sex and I hope you don't think we are all just simple minded. We have standards too and things we look for in a girl that meet our criteria. Yes we want sex, but we want a whole lot more too. And what kinda girl doesn't want sex. she desires that part of the relationship as well.

  • Guys like sex, girls like sec and yes guys love sex so much but some girls get feelings from sex and sometimes if you have sex too fast in a relationship, things could end for other reasons leaving both people hurt... Girls are more emotional and protective about sex.. Guys act as if they don't care all the time even if they do care...

  • Some people don't understand words. They think that because a man want sex with a girl that he doesn't respect her when it has nothing to do with it. Or that if a man wants sex, then it's the only thing he wants. It's all black or white for many people. Therefore, a guy will react defensively if you put him on the spot because if he desires a woman, then automatically, he disrespects her and only wants sex from her and he'll look like an asshole. That's why...

  • That's right the girl's looks and sex has big importance for most men, but if an girl has good personality, and common interests it's an bonus, even if it's not an must for many guys.

  • Sex is in our DNA, like a moth to light, a fish to water, dogs and bones. We see pretty girls, or cleavage, or nice legs and we are attracted to women. Buuut, why would a woman show cleavage, her legs off, etc. if she did not want the attention?
    Yes, getting to bed eventually is kind of part of the relationship thing. But don't fault men for always wanting it. Women want love and a relationship right?

  • Yes. I approached you because I thought you looked like someone I would like to have sex with. But if in the course of doing so I find myself impressed with your knowledge of Shakespearean literature I'm a LOT more likely to perhaps want something more.

    Too many women get caught up being passive or uninteresting in dating. They get used to not having to put forth any effort or become vulnerable so they continue doing that and wonder why all men want nothing more than sex from them. If you are attractive and uninteresting I still want to sleep with you even if I don't necessarily want to hang out again.

  • What's the point of this OBVIOUS Take? You think women accept men's approaches because he has an amazing job and likes taking walks on the park? She doesn't know that, she accepts his approach because she finds him attractive.
    What you said is pure common sense, and it applies to both genders.

    We men get offended when you assume that we approach because we only want sex, which is not true in most cases. Most approach looking for a relationship, but obviously we want an attractive woman, so we approach the attractive ones. We want sex with her, but that's just a part of the relationship.

    I honestly don't see the purpose of this Take...

    • Why are you always coming with the intention of attacking someone? If you do not see the purpose of this mytake then why did you take the time to make that long opinion? You are all Pissed and butt hurt

    • I do not see the purpose of you replying

    • What are you talking about me being pissed and butthurt? The Take is pointless, that's what it is xD

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  • Prolly, cause the sexual urges come up :)
    My boyfriend wanted a serious relationship so we have one. Sex is ofcourse part of it; and tbh I want it more often than him.

  • I think it would upset guys because to talk about how men want sex usually isn't said in a kind way and has negative implications.

    I don't really think females want it less or are more reserved about it like people say, but that females try to seem like they're above wanting sex "like a man."

  • Lol I want sex too :)) most people do.

  • I don't think that any guy would sincerely say that he is not sexually attracted to a female (excluding homosexuals of course). Rather, the point I think that some guys are trying to make is that they are not allowing their sexual attraction to overrule everything else about a woman and/or be the sole thing that they focus on.

  • Hon, this Take was invented since the conception of Humankind. This coming from a woman is like.
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    • Your welcome And thank you for spending your time reading the mytake even though you think it's so obvious :)

    • Aw geez. You get brownie point for being straight forward at least. Many other women out there who beat around the bush to make a point.

    • I was being sarcastic lol

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  • All men want sex but sex is not all what men want.

    • Damn bruh, they should have had MHOs for MyTakes.

    • I don't think all men only want sex but the truth is some men only want sex

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