It's a great thing to do with your girl(s), but it takes a little getting used to do right. It's not like porn, boys...
*Note this is mainly for introducing girls to anal sex, not having it with girls who are already well accustomed to it.
The first thing to consider is how dangerous anal sex can be. In my experience, girls can get hurt much more easily by vigorous anal sex than vaginal sex, so you'll want to heed the old "only fools rush in" saying. Also, I've noticed condoms slip down and even off sometimes durinal anal.
But the good stuff. It's dominant to take a girl's ass, which is why i think many straight guys are into it despite it being an actviity that gay guys do a lot more often. It's also a brand new hole of pleasure to discover. Discovery is on your side...you're a frontiersman. Let your confidence come in this fact as you set down this path towards anal pleasure...
It can be painful, obviously, but that means you will just need to be smarter about how you bring it up. Never bring it up if she's not aroused at the moment of hearing it...there's a lot of things that may and will run through her mind--what if it hurts? what if you start thinking about other guys she could have had anal sex with or just the fact that you were able to have it with her and then you think she's a slut? What if she's trying to save it for her husband?
Now that you've brought it up when she's wet and horny, you'll want to know what to do about it...if she really is brand new to it, use lube on her and for the first few times playing with it just use your fingers. A good time to do this is when you're eating her out telling her you're going to play with her ass and then start fingering her ass. Should be noted that this is one of those rare instances where it's ok for a man to get a manicure as cuticles and long fingernails inside her ass can end very, very poorly...
After she's gotten used to fingering, I finally make it the move for real anal sex. Again, analytically...this will always seem a bad idea. So the, wait until you've brought her to almost come doggystyle then stop slap it with your dick and then lube up. I've noticed vaseline works better because it's thicker and you should put it both inside her and on your dick
you're still not out of of the woods yet (or into them as it were...) Be slow with the process of pushing a bit more and more inside of her with each stroke. It should take five or so minutes to get in there enough to start really having anal sex...don't rush this. This is the one time in sex it's ok to go slow motion and actually preferred...
She can also squat on it and whiel this seems a lot tougher on the girl it has the bonus of being able to finger her while she's also getting you anally. Experiment here.
So, gentlemen, if you're an ass virgin yourself, you likely cringed at a lot of this, but after much trial and error i can say this is the deep and dirty of being able to actually take that thing you stare as so much. Again, I'd say only do this with girls you're dating since it is a process, but I do forsee this becoming more common than it already is so you might as well get a head start
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