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I'm constantly seeing girls asking questions on how many times should a girl be giving a guy a blow job, when should she be giving a blow job and how to give a great blow job etc? After having given probably well over 500 pretty lame blow jobs I've finally nailed them!! (pun intended) 
Now I've always enjoyed giving a blowjob, and there's nothing sexier to a man, than a woman who is enthusiastic about going down on him, and who worships his man junk like it's the greatest thing in the world (just ask any man! ). But like I said previously I've never really been that great at it, and I've read so many articles on how to try and improve my skills. Most of which have mentioned ball fondling, alternating licking and sucking, using your hands to go up and down his shaft, or using a twisting motion, learning to deep throat etc. (which unfortunately on two occasions has resulted in me throwing up on the guy... queue extreme embarrassment!!!) And with all this different advice it's sort of taken the fun out of it because I'm concentrating to hard on trying to be good and it hasn't really been that pleasurable for me at all, so I'd put it off even though I know he desperately wants one.
How many times and when should you be blowing his ding-dong?
There's no right and wrong answer, If you don't want to give a guy a blow job, it's fine. Almost all guys will be absolutely devastated but it's not a requirement. It's not your role as a woman, the same way it's not his role to go down on you, as a man. Initially I never liked the idea of going down on a guy, it seemed so degrading to me, and I was grossed out by it. But having found myself a loving relationship I changed my mind, I want to do anything and everything I can to please my man! However I still hate to give them to guys I've just met, who I know don't really respect me. So i feel like the right time is when you feel respected. As for how many times the average guy will usually say 3-4 times a week would be perfect for him. But again less is okay and more is even better... honestly no guy is ever really going to turn one down so they're happy with whatever they can get! Plus a blow job is always great foreplay before sex, and if you really want him fudging your brains out I can highly recommend giving him some pre-sex popsicle loving!
Okay time to blow his c*ck... and his mind!
The moment you have all been waiting for.... Ladies! I want you to familiarise yourself with my two best friends (if you haven't already) Frenulum, and Perineum. These two are the key to a mind-boggling blow job! I mean don't get me wrong, guys will love any blow job you give them whether or not you're any good at it; as long as you don't use your teeth. But no woman wants to give her man the same old run-of-the-mill blow job, am I right? You want to blow his DAMN mind!!! You want him moaning! You want him swearing and short of breath because it feels so good and he can't get enough of it!
I say try to forget most of the stuff you ever heard about giving blow jobs, the whole "do this... don't do that"... there never really seems to be any sort of common ground of what is desired and what is loathed... until now. So who are these 2 anatomical men i speak of? Let me introduce you.
Frenulum- an elastic band of tissue on the underside of the penis the connects the head to the shaft.
OKay.... so now you're wondering what exactly you do with this piece of skin that will make any man weak at the knees. Well let me tell you! Forget the whole bobbing your head up and down the guys whole shaft. Forget it... you can do it every now and then for added lubrication, but try not to make this your main move for a blowjob. Instead what you should do is as follows:
1. Hold his penis in your dominant hand
2. Lubricate penis either with saliva, vaginal juices or you know.... lube
3. place your lips around his corona (aka the head of his penis) and stick your tongue out so it is right on his frenulum.
4. Now start licking up and down his frenulum, with moderate pressure whilst keeping a light grip on his head with your lips.
5. Once you get a good rhythm going start to move your hand up and down his shaft, and maintain the same pace- removing your tounge from his frenulum when your hand is moving up his shaft, and returning it when it is moving down
This technique may seem a bit confusing at first, but once you work out how to coordinate yourself, you will not regret it one bit! I've never heard my boyfriend moan so much in his life during a blow job... and he's the lucky guy who's received majority of those 500+ blow jobs i mentioned at the start of this article. Practice makes perfect! Your free hand can the be used for testicle fondling and If you do want to you can still do your usual blow job techniques however i highly reccommend sticking to this one as it is less painful for you, easier, and not to mention more pleasurable for him, as long as you maintain the same steady pace, he will be moaning in no time!
Perineum- Also commonly known as the Gooch the Perineum is the area between the anus and the scrotum(male) or vulva (female).
What to do with it? Lick it, stroke it with medium pressure. And for an amazing orgasm for him, I cannot stress more that you should either suck the area, or press your tounge or fingers hard against as he is cuming. Guaranteed most sensational orgasm of his life!
Hope this all helps, and don't forget to let me know how you go if you decide to try it out :)
SIDE NOTE: you need to be well aware that whilst some guys may like some things others may not, so it is up to you to communicate with the guy and find out what makes him go crazy and what he can't stand. E.g. you're usually told guys love it when you fondle their balls whilst you're giving him a blow job, but guess what?!? there are actually guys out there who don't like it and actually find it a turn off.
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