Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Who owns who?
As most know me for being a Master in the BDSM lifestyle I am updating this particular writing by explaining the situation of the reason I wrote this a year ago.. I have been with my partner for a number of years in this lifestyle... I her Master she is my sub. She has been totally in it for me now going on 25 years... My little girl, my naughty bratty girl.. She catered for all my needs and wants.. A great play partner loyal and devoted loving submissive wife..This is my absolute answer to the question,, can a Master of bdsm fall in love with his sub, slave, subordinate, what ever he would call her...
My submissive wife has had Multiple Sclerosis 2 years after our marriage... She wanted a divorce but I refused.. I told here we are in this together.. Later in life she became quadriplegic and suffered dementia.. I As her caregiver I refused to let her suffer in a nursing facility.... They just couldn't give her the care I could give... This went on for a number of years as I reached out to find comfort from others to help me on my journey to keep my sanity, as I went through hell with her, in her torment of this terrible disease.... This is what I wrote on a blog on another website in a group of others like me..
A Master is not someone who merely revels in the benefits that he reaps from the power and control that he wields over his sub. A Master is not just an automaton who emotionally doles out orders and watches with amusement as his minions perform his bidding. A Master is not a person who only relishes the benefits that his superior status entitles him.
Certainly all of these characteristics could and often do exist within a Master. He may be demanding and at times selfish. He may genuinely enjoy and even be aroused by the power that he has over a sub. He may be able to expertly control his emotions, issuing his commands and enforcing his discipline with stone-faced determination.
But a true Master, a Master, so invested in his sub that he is actually in a way a slave himself. He is a slave to his love for her. He was a slave to his responsibility. He was a slave to the passion and the commitment. He was a slave to his overwhelming desire to protect his property at all costs. He was a slave to his slave. I knew without questions that he loved her so much he'd literally lay down his life for her. He owned her, and his ownership owned him.
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1Firstly, I am very sorry for your wife. Now she is free from pain of the medical condition she had. Secondly, I think what you wrote is so sweet and interesting at the same time. I hope you have peace.
Master I a so sorry to hear about your wife.
reading this has given me another look at how a master and subs relationship works.
I'm so so sorry about your wife,
I had an aunt who died of MS
I wouldn't wish that even on my worst enemy