5 Reasons Why Fewer Men Want to Take Girls out on Dates These Days and be Romantic

[BubbleBoy69]

These days most guys don't take girls on dates but rather chose the words "Hang out" when talking to girls. There are many reason why guys aren't taking women on dates. I'll list some below.

1) The most logical one is because chivalry is dead and women killed it

Gone are the days where being a gentleman got you somewhere with women. Going on proper dates, buying a girl a rose, dropping her off and calling her at the end later that night to see she got home safe doesn't get you anywhere and in fact hurts you. Women seem to think if you do all this for them, they have you wrapped around their finger and you are not much a challenge and therefore easy. This is the same reason why women respond better to men who either range from not showing too much interest in them at the start to not giving too shits about them causing these women to chase them for validation.

Now I'm not saying sex is men's main focus when it comes to women but a main goal incentive to get with women is to get sex. Why should a guy wine and dine you and spend months trying to win you over when you most likely gave up sex to some pretty boy/rich guy on a random night on the town or perhaps over on tinder who just message a few words and ask you to come to his place to chill and watch Netflix ?

2) Most women aren't ladies anymore

Women have loss their femininity and act basically like men today. Many of them drink like sailors, sleep around, focus on their career/education, and have lost the ability to be loving/supporting to men. We have so many feminist brainwash which states it's rather demeaning for a woman to be in a supporting role. Women today think it's empowering to not only belittle men but to compete with them for job position, dominance in relationship.

By doing away with gender roles we have undermine relationship stability and now a days we have many women frustrated in finding a mate. Despite what women say, women aren't attracted to men who suck up to them (white knights) and are weak, feminize. This group of men is growing in numbers in the west as we continue to undermine positive male figures (fathers), demonize masculinity and put in place things like creep shaming basically discouraging men to take the lead in dating.

3) Hook up culture

One of the main focal points of men committing to women is sex. Thanks to hookup culture and women giving out sex so easily. Many men who just want sex have no reason to be romantic anymore. Especially high status males/men who get the same effect as an average girl (many people offering them sex).

4) No guy wants to be a cuck

Just as technology has made it easier for women to expand their scope of men thanks to dating sites/tinder/bumble. Men have also used this not only to expand their net but communicate with each other what girls are doing behind their back.

Many men have found out whether through experience or listening to others that girls will go out on dates with one guy and then that same night or days in between not seeing each other sleep with another man. So you as a man are investing time/money/emotion into a girl and probably getting at best a kiss on the cheek at the end of the night while she's down gobbling another guy's cock and swallowing his load in between your date sessions.The excuse women use to do this is because "we weren't exclusive yet".

5) Constant flaking and no contact

Many girls thanks to how many options they have see no problem in just stop contacting or cancelling dates at the very last minute on guys.

So many guys go out on date and again waste time, money on a girl who is just up and going to ghost him. The girl tells him she had a wonderful time only for her to never contact him again. Sometimes guys don't even get a date and the girl just cancels on him at the very last 5 minutes as he's about to exit the front door to see her.

[AleDeEurope]

Though I don't agree with some of the thing you said, overall, you're correct.
Now you don't know if the girl is actually looking for a relationship, or she's just using you for the attention, the money, the free food... Also, no guy wants a girl who has been with so many guys you bump into one of those guys every day, cause even girls dislike guys like that, but apparently it's ok for them to fuck the whole city.
I know there are great girls out there, but in order to find that girl you gotta first deal with the shitty ones.

[anonymous83]

This has really gotten out of hand. The biggest problem is this social justice bullsh*t being taught in university. Because of it women are becoming racist, misandrist scumbags. If we killed this 3rd wave feminism, social justice bullsh*t then maybe men would not have to retaliate with movements like MGTOW. This is getting out of hand. We've gone from oppressing women to oppressing men and everybody acts like its ok. We need to learn to cooperate again before we kill each other.

[BubbleBoy69]

https://i.imgur.com/Ys6OfP8.jpg

The seeds have already been planted.

[anonymous83]

no, no, no... not again... not another holocaust... you've gotta be freaking kidding me.

[dazed15]

This is how guys used to treat women. They, in gaining a little power, have turned the tables. Unless you are Hot, male or female, you are pretty much settling/begging for dates. You may get lucky, but probably not. The last 10 women I talked to (no holding hands, kissing or anything else) told me two weeks later they were pregnant. I'm not sure what that is about, though, it could be a way to make me write them off. If i barely met you, do you really think I'm going to stick around and help you raise someone else's child? I normally make girls made at me so they will leave me alone, if I'm not into them. Anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months later, here they come again.

[AskMe15]

You seem like you know what you are talking about, so question for you. I'm a girl with standards, and I am actually looking for a relationship. Lets say I go out on a date, the guy was nice and all but I just didn't feel any chemistry with them. I don't want to hurt them or stand them up, cuz I take my word very seriously. So do I just say no to the second date if he ask?

[AynonOMouse]

Just say you don't really feel a connection.

[AskMe15]

@AynonOMouse Wouldn't it seem like I just used him to get a free meal then? Cuz I know like guys won't let you go dutch on the bill.

[AynonOMouse]

I would if it were me. If you know you don't want to see him again, just tell him, "I'm sorry, but I don't really feel a connection. Is it okay if I pay for my half of the date to be fair?" Then both people should be fine. Nobody should feel like got used that way.

[AskMe15]

@AynonOMouse Ahh. Touche. Thank you for your help! :)

[ProbablyTooMature]

Basically just that. Say, "I had a good time, but I just didn't feel a spark/connection/chemistry/whatever word you use." No hard feelings.

[BambooforPanda]

Hey it's better than never getting to have sex outside of wedlock. And really there are just so many benefits of the current set up that it's worth this consequence.

Although I do find that your take only talks about one stereotype of a woman - at rather the most extreme end, and really poorly represents the average woman in many cases in your take. Mainly I just can't get behind the arrogant mysogynistic undertones.

Is he going on dates to start a relationship or just fuck her, because if the latter, well then there is your problem lol. That said there are also still women who would like the romatic dates and then fuck situation over the just go out and get fucked situation.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Because girls don't seem to want to anymore.
It seems like barely anyone wants to go do something as simple as eating and talking. They always wanna have multiple things to distract them.

[WoOolfy]

Don't know how it got to this but yeeep, I agree...

[ProbablyTooMature]

CUCK IS NOT A GODDAMN WORD.

That is all.

[aliceinwonderland69]

I was prepared to hate you but this is more true than I would like it to be.

[Scrambledagain]

I also struggle with the investment vs results dilemma in the dating game. That's why it's just logical to get prostitutes. Same thing, you just cut to the chase faster.

[singlebee]

Couldn't agree with you more... This is sad and no wonder most men like me won't take dating seriously or even think of marriage... The way now a days women.. Are

[singlebee]

Also not to mention most girls chasing jerks or staying with abusive bfs..! All these women are damaged goods...

[funny_strange_man]

There are guys who are just as bad.

[John_Doesnt]

Why take out an annoying, expensive human woman when I have a perfect holographic Japanese wife?
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[funny_strange_man]

Guys can be just as bad. I sm not saying all guys are bad. There are still guys and women who like or even love romance. There is nothing wrong with a woman working. You make it seem like a woman should be at home doing all the cleaning, laundry and cooking. Guys should help out with it also. This is 2016 and not the 1950s so get with the program. There are guys who cancel dates at the last minute. To say chivalry is dead is nonsense. I have seen plenty of guys who are chivalrous and women who enjoy it. That's all I gave to say for now.

[masc23]

Umm I don't care for feminism and their shitty little ways because I want to be myself. I do believe in chivalry to some extent, I can be romantic if I want.

[Anonymous]

I think what it comes down to is that a lot of women will have sex or hook up with guys they are attracted to.

So trying to woo them via dating is a bad idea. Either they want to fuck you or they don't. If they don't, there's no point going on dates. If they do, there's no need to. So rather then plow a lot of emotional energy into dating, you're better off aiming for sex right away.

Now if you want nothing but sex, you're done. If you want more, you can turn that hooking up into more. But there's no point trying to build an emotional foundation if there's no sexual attraction. And a girl who is willing to hook up, would hook up with you if there is.

[BubbleBoy69]

Pretty much. This is why it's kind of funny when women complain about guys not being romantic anymore and taking them out on dates and just wanting to hookup.

[Anonymous]

I totally disagree with your take.

[Anonymous]

So true.