13 Clues She Won't Be Jumping Your Bones Any Time Soon

[BubbleBoy69]

1. When there is an opportunity to kiss, she turns her face to the side so you end up kissing her on the cheek.

2. Declines any attempt at you trying to be chivalrous.

She doesn't want you to walk her home, walk her to her car. She want to avoid the awkward moment of you to being alone together and the potential that you’ll make a move and she’ll have to turn you down (or she might actual think your creepy and might try to rape her).

3. She has said to your face that she thinks of you "like a brother."

4. She has referred to you as "bro" or "dude".

Girls rarely use this phrase for guys they are interested in but almost always use this phrase for guys they have zero sexual attraction for. You are her "bro"...BRO.

5. She tries to set you up with her friends.

Maybe some women are dumb enough to do this in high school if they are still unsure about having feelings for you but past the teenage year no woman is going to want to set you up or talk about setting you up if they have some interest in you.

6. When you ask her to hang out her response is "Sure. Who else is coming?"

7. She doesn't let you pay for her or if she does she makes sure to pay you back at some point.

8. If she uses the word "cute" rather than “hot” or something less emotional like “good looking” instead of “sexy" to refer to your appearance, whether in person or your FB pictures.

She will probably also couch this as an objective claim, like “anyone would think you are good-looking” versus a personal compliment like “I think you’re very sexy.”

9. If you are either others places to hang out she will sit on a different piece of furniture than you.

If someone wants a "hang out" session to turn into "makeout session" they will be sitting next to you.

10. She doesn't dress up for you and is comfortable meeting you wearing baggy pants, messy hair and bad breath.

You aren't a guy she wants to look her best for and impress.

11. She never touches you in a way that indicates she finds you sexually attractive.

12. She never text/initiate contact first at all.

13. You look up for articles like these because deep down you know she is just not that into you but just need confirmation.

[John_Doesnt]

Which is why the whole friendzone thing is really for men who don't know that being a real man will get the girl most of the time.
I've had those experiences and also seen them with other guys. A lot of times a guy gets "friend zoned" because he wussed out of admitting he likes her, but once he makes a real forward move things will definitely change. A real man doesn't get friendzoned at all, we either move on and stop being friends or just come out and say "Hey I think you're hot/beautiful and want to start dating." What possible reason could you have for torturing yourself by being just friends with a woman you like?

[redeyemindtricks]

#4 is totally wrong.
I call everyone dude -- and always did, including random fuck-buddies way back when I was 'bout that life. And from what I can tell, absolutely the same is true in my oldest son's (13 years old) circle -- girls are just as likely to be hooking up with boys they call "dude" as with other boys.

[kat_gran]

AHhaha damnnn ainooo lol haha

[Dim_121]

Great mytake now we just need one for the girls.

[teatea111]

That last one thoughhhh
So true lol

[LittleSally]

I agree with all of these EXCEPT 8, 9 and 11...
Those are really just not true at all. But I know guys think those are also indicative of a lack of attraction - not even men use those to indicate they aren't attracted to women. Except maybe the sitting on the same furnature part... (More men than women.)

[JohnDoe3000]

Yes, 11 doesn't mean anything if they never touch their opposite gender friends either. 8 is just ridiculous, who the hell announces their interest by putting suggestive comments under people's FB pictures? 9 only goes for very confident people or people who never even think about how their behavior comes across. 13 is just plain mean, I guess not entirely untrue, but kinda counterproductive when you're just not that confident or the other person isn't flirting in a Hollywoodesque obvious manner.

[Jxpxtxr]

Good points I think every guy should read this!.. although I personally always pay back everyone no matter if I'm interested in them or not because I simply don't like owing anybody anything so that might not always be an indicator. :P

[OlderAndWiser]

I think all of these are true - perhaps not 100% of the time - but usually good signs that she's just not into you!

[LucasGaribaldi]

I've always been the "shoulder to cry" buddy of some girl friends i had, and i always got friendzoned. I got tired and said "fuck it, i quit giving a shit to any of them". Girls find me more atractive now somehow.

[fauchelevent]

Hmm, I agree with most of these but definitely not the bro or dude thing :P I call my boyfriend dude all the time, I just call everyone that.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I usually get the "oh sure, but... not now. Some other time, definitely!" (meaning: never.) And then they never have a definite time.

Either they finally break down and admit they were just leading me on, they send a goon to tell me to stay away, or they get super childish and shoo me away like I have cooties or something.

I find it's rarely anything in the middle. They either really dig me, or I have to get run over by the hate train.

[Spermdumster666]

My brother was friend zoned by this girl he liked but according to him it hurt but because she kept setting him up with hot chicks he didn't mind so much lol

[ElissaDido]

Yup true

[Agrojag]

Yeah, I feel these are all good examples but I have one thing I disagree with. In my experience, girls almost never initiate conversation. I mean, I have female cousins and if I didn't initiate a conversation with them, I'd die before I ever heard from them again. So I don't think that's necessarily a bad sign. It's whether she responds or not is the key.

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah, I agree with this.

[PippiL]

"I'm manly as hell!"
Hahaha

[hazoplmeught]

All of these are at least 85% true, you nailed it man!

[sawno]

I disagree with a couple of these.
7. Many girls find it normal to pay for dates to and want to keep things equal, doesn't mean your chances are ruined at all.
8. I know multiple girls that find there boyfriend cute, not everyone is into the sexy type. Its more indicative of her personality then about your chances with her.
10. She is comfortable around you... Really? Comfortable is a bad thing? Why would a girl go out of her way for you every single day to look her best if you have already seen her without her makeup on for example or seen her on a day where she didn't look good (Sudden Skype call for example). If a girl is comfortable around you not looking her best yet still tries to look great most of the time thats actually a good sign to me because she knows your not going to run away the moment she doesn't.

[beautifulangel76]

Some of this doesn't necessarily mean that a girl isn't interested. It really depends on the girl.

[ManOnFire]

What's the point exactly? Both genders make it clear to each other when they're not interested. This sounds more like it's really just about trying to tell us how much a woman doesn't want a guy. It isn't anything we haven't already heard.

[TatyanaTheEmpress]

Lol, it's funny, but it's kinda true :P

[tenchu11]

And this is why you cut your losses and move onto to greener pastures. Then they get upset and start texting and wondering why you don't want to spend time with them. You can be their friend but don't make them a priority if it's not mutual