Do you ever feel that a woman can treat you how you perceive her? Or how you behave to her and she mirrors?
It seems that a woman will say she wants something, but actually her actions display nearly the opposite. So she says she wants a nice, charming, polite, kind, sweet guy who treats her nice, who texts her stuff, who responds to her. Yet this guy she is extremely slow with, may delay and not be as flirty back to?!
Someone who isn't as sweet or kind, but just hits on her, well to him, she reveals her inner slutty side?
Women treat you how you treat them
See below and opine...
THE WOMAN
- nice personality (sweet, kind, caring)
- fairly innocent in behavior
- very sexy/pretty
Now say she has two men who interact with her.
BOTH ARE EQUALLY ATTRACTIVE:
GUY 1
in her social circle. He is interested in who she is, her interests, passions. He uplifts her. He also texts her, makes her laugh, is sweet, kind etc. He's also pretty charming and treats her like a lady. He is also exciting and they have fun together. She loves his texts, she loves his company, she loves how he remembers things about her. He's fun, he's subtle, he's great.
GUY 2:
someone she met more recently. He may either be in her social circle as an entrant or else someone she just runs into. Now he isn't sweet. He doesn't text her that much at all. He isn't that nice or a gentleman. He doesn't act kindly in that sense. He isn't as eloquent as Guy 1. He can be crazy at times, maybe taking pics with the ladies etc. He is more in your face. He can also be fun, more in your face.
Now for the same woman, if EACH GUY HAS A SEXUAL CONVERSATION WITH HER, will she respond differently?
Indeed, a woman will probably treat each guy differently based on how they treat her. But the confusing thing is, despite women saying they want a nice guy, that guy doesn't see her sexy side or her acting wild? Is this because of the anti-slut defence? Is it that she wants to appear innocent even though the good guy would love to see this side of her?
Sometimes a guy who treats a woman worse (no texts, no sweet words, etc) will have the woman acting so slutty to him. Whereas a good guy has the same woman acting so innocent and hardly initiating etc.
Whilst a good guy wants to have fun with her, she acts like an angel, whilst she dreams about getting a cum facial or having dirty sex, and possibly having that or acting flirty and letting herself go with a not so good guy who isn't actually nice to her?!
FOR EACH OF THESE SCENARIOS, HOW DOES EACH GUY GET TREATED BY THE SAME WOMAN?
1. So if she is hit on, or the guy tells her she looks hot, and he imagines her doing dirty things?
2. If the guy makes a move, which guy is she likely to go to bed with FAST?
3. If she is in bed, which guy is going to be able to call her "a dirty slut", "his cum slut", "a dirty girl" etc?
4. Who will she be dirty for in bed? Guy 1 or 2? Will she be worried about looking like a slut to guy 1 and then not be her full sexual animal that is within her?
5. Who would she want to get a cum facial from?
6. Who would she want to get banged from behind from doggystyle?
7. Who would she act like a total slut for, the guy who is nice to her and she sees now and again, or the guy who she probably won't stay in touch with that much?
8. If a woman met a great guy when she had a boyfriend, and they became friends, and she later became single, would she ever consider that guy as a boyfriend or lover material? What can that guy do? Or will she only act innocent around him?
The lover sees the woman in the top image fast and gets to see her being kinky and free. She then acts innocent and dresses like this for the good guy with him wondering how to tell his female friend she looks cute and he'd love to see more (like the lover saw above).
When you look into a woman’s eyes she should see that you know she wants to get fucked.
Women quickly categorize men. How you behave will determine what role she can see you play in her life.
So in order to be successful with women, can a guy simply never be friendly and kind to a woman?!
If a guy meets a girl with a boyfriend at uni or work, and can't avoid her, naturally they may end up being friends. Now a lot of people claim that the guy is therefore friendzoned, but in this case, there is still a chance right? But the thing is if the girl becomes single, she will most likely act innocent around the guy (friend), when he would be totally fine with her being free and her sexy self?! Sigh...women.
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