7 Things Girls should Never, Ever Do to Other Girls 💄

[Sophiaaaaaa]

It's hard being a girl, and especially hard when other girls are constantly making life harder for you. Here's a list of little things girls should stop doing to others, in order to make their lives more peaceful.

1. Slut Shaming

Girls should be able to wear whatever the hell they want. They should be able to do whatever the hell they want to do. As long as this doesn't hurt another (and I'm NOT talking about guys getting an erection/ tempted into rape) they have every right to wear their booty shorts or bralettes.

Even if you personally don't agree, it doesn't have anything to do with you ultimately. Just because a girl is wearing a hijab, doesn't make her a terrorist, just because a guy is wearing glasses, doesn't make him a prude geek. So just because a girl is showing off her figure, doesn't make her lose all respect.

2: Calling others ugly

I've kind of noticed that people think it's okay to call others ugly. It's not. Seriously. Just because she isn't to your standards, doesn't make it okay to call her ugly. Words like this shatter a girls self esteem, which other girls should know is very fragile.

3: Dating a guy who doesn't respect others

So I remember this guy who kept trying to hook up with me. I'll admit that I thought he was pretty cute. Until he called my new friend 'an ugly bitch'. She overheard him and reported him for it. But when she found out I was into him she said it was okay and that he was "probably just joking around". And me (being stupid) excused him, so the moral is, don't date idiots.

4: Snarky comments on a girls style

Yeah, we all read magazines, follow beauty gurus and are thrown into cities of high fashion billboards and the new army of the 'cool supermodels'. However, we still have a rare flock of birds who express their style differntly, and often get shit for it. We also have a squad of girls who prefer the laid back, tomboyish look. We have a few females who like to show off their figures. Ultimately, we all have individual taste, and it's wrong to hate a girl for what she chooses to wear.

5: Hating on a girl who has a bit of history

Yeah, they is always that girl who 'got drunk and have 5 guys a blowjob each last year', who 'claimed she was a nympho' and who 'dates everyone. Male, female, animal'. Truth is, statistically, all of us have had at least three totally untrue rumours spread about us. And even if they is proof some beef happened to this girl a while ago, that doesn't say she isn't a worthy person,

6: Hooking up with a guy who already has a girlfriend

Even if you hate his girlfriend, even if they are on a break, even if he claims she won't care, DONT hook up with a guy with a girlfriend. Cheating shatters relationships. If the guy is totally in love with you, then he shouldn't be with her in the first place. Don't trust two timers. Ever.

7: Disrespecting yourself

Remember, you are not ugly, you are not a failure, your not a slut, or prude, or stupid, or worthless. You are a human who deserves respect. So don't hurt yourself, or let anyone get to you.

[SunsetRose]

I love this, especially #3. I once dated a guy who had no respect for others- it was pretty crappy. My number one test now is watching the way a person treats others. Luckily my boyfriend passed.

[anonman32]

the word slut has gotten way out of context. and you know what woman should start doing? not caring about other peoples opinions.

[lumos]

Really great take, thank you. Girl on girl hate really needs to stop.

[Tanisha69]

good luck with that. I can name 10 girls I hate right now

[KRIEL55]

@Tanisha69 that is why she said it needs to stop. you just proved her point about how common it is.

[Tanisha69]

@KRIEL55 how u gonna stop people from hating? lol if jesus couldnt do it you can't. just the way it is.

[KRIEL55]

@Tanisha69 when did i say im going to stop it. i simply agreed that women should stop hating each other. and you act as though Jesus really went down here and told women to stop arguing and well said no. our lives on earth are tests, God isn't going to constantly tell us to do the right thing. for now, we control our lives and so do the people around us.

[Tanisha69]

@KRIEL55 Yes Jesus said stop hating. not in those words but.

[KRIEL55]

@Tanisha69 well yeah i get what your saying, but people have been sinning since the beginning of time it's not that surprising that not everyone is listening. even the most religious people sometimes drift and judge others

[Tanisha69]

@KRIEL55 true

[AnayaWilliams]

I feel like we go through some much and that society is so hard on us. I just want all of us to get along that's all. I see girls on instagram hating other girls photos all because of the way they may dress, or how thin or skinny they are its just really sad. We as young women should take up for one another and just be positive and spread positively.

[Tanisha69]

Not the way it works. and if other girls want me to take up for them and be positive they should stay out of my face and not put my name in there mouths.

[SarahsSummer]

Such a great take. Very insightful and even more so considering you are so young. I applaud you and hope this take of yours gains some real traction. so many girls on this site and in the world, need to hear it. ☮💜😊

[Poppykate]

Let's stop judging other women by their weight. Either large or small. ( that's their problem). Also, let's try to stop comparing ourselves to other women- in general. It only makes us feel bad about our insecurities and failures. Everyone has their own unique life path, you can't compared an orange with a pineapple.

[TheDevilInside]

Don't disrespect yourself... But by dressing like a Street prostitute, you are disrespecting yourself and giving people permission to treat you with less respect.

[Song4TheBroken]

Why so fucking ignorant?

[KRIEL55]

WHO is dressing like a street prostitute? nowhere in the post does it say its okay to walk around with your ass and titties literally hanging out. if by "street prostitute" you mean not covered up from head to toe, then just like @song4thebroken said, you are ignorant. there is nothing wrong with showing a little skin and i dont know if you're just that much of a push over so you think that just because you wear shorts or a tank top it means others can disrespect you, but most women have enough confidence and self respect not to put up with that and dont allow others to treat them poorly simply because they dont dress like they're Amish.

[TheDevilInside]

Calm your tits guys... By dressing like a prostitute I meant showing more than a little skin. Duh.

[cherrymarina]

Crappy list involving crappy people. I'm not gonna treat everyone special. Only those who deserve being treated with respect will get my respect.

[thewanderingme]

3 and 7 aren't actually being done to other females.

[damnwinter]

Yeah this is all very pretty but I'm gonna reserve the right to call the girl shamelessly hitting on my boyfriend 'a slut'. Basically you can't shame shameless people, can you? :)

[ChocoLada]

Fantastic Mytake, I like it :D

[kittykatbrat]

Tbh, I don't believe in girl or guy codes.
Just common respect.

[Yeahno12]

What a great take!

[Song4TheBroken]

@serfgbnh You thirsty

[helloitsmethere]

This is very much needed.

[Benk111]

What about dating a friends ex boyfriend is that ok

[goldielocks2]

no, never. NEVER EVER

[lumos]

It's only ok if the friend is completely ok with it.

[goldielocks2]

@lumos they might act ok about it, but it's never actually ok. for real

[lumos]

@goldielocks2 that's a bit of a generalization. If your "friend" can't even be honest to you about their feelings for their ex then they're not really that great of a friend to begin with. Two of my friends have dated the same guy and they were fine. It didn't work out for either of them with him but it didn't get in the way of their friendship at all.

[goldielocks2]

@lumos it's never ok. if one of my friends was to date my ex I wouldn't be able to look at them the same way. some people might be ok with it, but deep down they wish their friend and their ex wouldn't hook up.

[goldielocks2]

@lumos actually, you might be right in some circumstances. maybe if you didn't have deep feelings for your ex, it would be ok. I always have really deep feelings and they never fully go away even years later, so I don't think that I would ever be ok with one of my friends dating my former lover.

[jesusnicolas768]

Very nice I like it

[ChrisBrowned]

Good

[Sophiaaaaaa]

Thanks

[Pilulu]

How is telling myself that I'm ugly and fat being disrespectful? I'm being honest with myself.

[Anonymous]

Do some girls compete with each other?

[Anonymous]

Problem with the first one. I call a spade a spade, and truthfully don't give a damn about what people think. I'm honest like that. Anyways, if a girl sleeps around or goes around giving multiple guys blow/hand-jobs, I will believe you a slut, because you are engaging in slutty behavior. Girls believe they can do what they want, and it's true, but it doesn't mean they can prevent others from judging they accordingly. I'm not okay with promiscuous people-you want to do it, just don't bring it around me, because I don't want it. I will believe that a girl who acts the part of a slut is a slut. Doesn't look good for your character, and like I said-call something what it is.

[Sophiaaaaaa]

I don't care if you think someone's a slut. The question is, do you still think they deserve respect?

[Opinion Owner]

I won't be rude to her unless she's rude to me. But I'm not likely to take her seriously.

[Anonymous]

Feminazi alert. Basically you just want women to be allowed to get away with doing what they like and never have to take responsibility for anything. Special snowflake or what. Women always do this to guys, but I suppose that is ok

[KRIEL55]

meninazi alert. no thats not a thing yet but that is definitely the best word to describe you. not a damn thing was said about hating men and this whole post was dedicated for women. and get away with what? having some freedom and self respect? smh just stop.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 no you want to be allowed to sleep around and not called what they are.

[KRIEL55]

who? me? i do whatever i want i dont allow closed minded stuck in the past sexist men such as yourself control my life, yet i've only had sex while being in serious relationships because im not into random hook ups. what is wrong with women having freedom? we've been oppressed for ages on top of ages on top of ages while men had the freedom to do whatever they wanted, but as soon as we get the power to act the same way as men, everything that men do is suddenly wrong and immoral just because women are now doing it too. its a sad thing to be so insecure that you feel the need to slut shame on a post thats simply telling women to unite.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 yep proper feminazi.

[KRIEL55]

HA all you have to say? pathetic. almost as pathetic as your petty insecurities about equality. but not yet, nothing is as sad as that.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 you the one with insecurities about equality love.

[KRIEL55]

im not the one anonymously slut shaming a whole gender on a post that has literally nothing to do with it simply because im afraid they'll have as much power.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 of the hat fits and all that. If a women sleeps around or cheats she is a SLUT.

[KRIEL55]

if the hat fits? this post isn't even about sex. you just saw a post which title talked about women being nice to each other so you felt the need to come call everyone feminazis simply because you're too insecure to accept women being friends and having power and freedom. and the word slut is immature. if a woman sleeps around and cheats, she is promiscuous. just like if a man does it. it has nothing to do with gender.

[Tanisha69]

I have to kind of agree. have some self respect if you want others to respect you.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 if a women sleeps around she is a slut, slags, whoare. These words were invented for a reason.

[Opinion Owner]

@Tanisha69 agree with whom

[KRIEL55]

@Tanisha69 that is a valid statement but who are you referring it to? this anonymous poster made a completely irrelevant post, calling her a feminazi simply because she said women need to stop bashing on each other. it had nothing to do with men or sleeping around.

[KRIEL55]

yeah they're invented for a reason, to keep women from doing the same exact things that men do. which is extremely ignorant.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 I was mostly on about women who sleep around and don't expect to be criticized for it.

[KRIEL55]

so your saying no men were sleeping around? men never had more then one sexual partner? men never cheated? really now.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 bullshit, it is about standards. You want to do everything that men do, is that why you smoking as much drinking as much, and sleeping around as much just to even when thinks up, thus putting your health at risk. You clearly have no self respect so why should anyone respect you for it. Grow up.

[KRIEL55]

i drink and smoke and sleep around as much as men? how exactly do you know me so well? thats what i'd like to know aha, it equality has nothing to do with wanting to be like men. it has all to do with openly expressing our urges. women dont like sex just because men like sex. we like sex because we are HUMAN. if you dont know this simple fact, i feel genuinely bad for you. we dont "put our health at risk" just because men do it either. some of us just like to smoke and drink. are you seriously going to tell me that its somehow horrible for women but natural for men? ones again, we are both human. we are NOT that different. have you ever met a woman in person? is it really that hard to see that we're way more similar than we are different. your stupidity shocks me. and i have no self respect because i want women to have respect? wtf? haha if i had no self respect, i'd just be a sheep and agree with sexist petty men like you.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 I've seen your age now. That explains a lot.

[KRIEL55]

i've seen your age, and i was SHOCKED. a grown man THIS insecure? a grown man who still can't properly respond? im only 18 and somehow have way more knowledge then you on this topic. im amazed.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 You have no knowledge on this subject and probably nothing else

[KRIEL55]

and where is your evidence exactly? every time i make a valid point, you completely change the subject and say something almost as irrelevant as the comment you made on this post.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 everything you say is invalid

[KRIEL55]

thats exactly why you couldnt properly respond and felt the need to change the subject every single time. (x i feel like you're lying about your age. can't believe a grown man is that ignorant and confused.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 you are ignorant

[KRIEL55]

thats reeeeally all you have to say? no wonder you post anonymously.

[Opinion Owner]

@KRIEL55 bore off now

[BaileyisDarcy]

Dude, you're down to three word answers. Youve lost. you're wrong. You know it. Now give up and accept the truth.

[KRIEL55]

@BaileyisDarcy thank you for pointing it out (:

[KRIEL55]

@BaileyisDarcy and he still somehow thinks he can say im wrong (x and allll he has to say to you is that your immature even though he doesn't know a damn thing about you. i said it before and i'll say it again, pathetic.

[BaileyisDarcy]

@KRIEL55 Yep. Also Anon? When have you ever won an argument by throwing insults rather than actually making valid points? Just think about that yeah.

[Opinion Owner]

@BaileyisDarcy I already made the valid points I wanted to make.

[KRIEL55]

i didn't see a single valid point. and every time you thought you actually said something sensible, i had a good response back and you had nothing to say back other then "no, you're wrong". just stop.

[ShaeNielson]

So because women shouldn't hate and disrespect themselves and each other, we're crazy feminizes? Grow some balls you hypersensitive turbopussy.

[Sophiaaaaaa]

@KRIEL55

[Anonymous]

I disagree with two. You should never call someone fat, but someone truly does have an ugly face, it is okay to tell them.

[Song4TheBroken]

How the fuck does that work? It's waaay more acceptable to call someone fat than ugly. Being obese is a personal decision, they're choosing to stuff their face with more calories than their body needs. Being 'ugly' is not only completely subjective, but also entirely out of the individual's control. Yeah sure, there are certain things you can do to improve your facial aesthetics but to make any noticeable difference requires plastic surgery. And even with plastic surgery there's only so much you can alter and you can't change your underlying facial structure.

[zagor]

I have to agree with S4TB; so you shouldn't call out someone for something that is usually a result of their personal choices (and will ultimately affect their health), but it is OK to do so for something that is a result of genetics - and also largely a matter of personal taste? That makes no sense.