Being Really Hairy Sucks, Especially When Women Run the Other Way

Why being a hairy guy is bound to lower your self confidence and chances with women.

As a guy with a very hairy body it is nothing less than feeling cursed and being the odd man out . The women are bombarded with totally hairless male bodies in the media and magazines, and feel that men shouldn't have much hair in chest and arms. Nature has also tricked some of us men and made us hairier than the average man, and thought it was funny. But it is not funny. It just sucks to be a man who grows thick hairs all over he body .😭

Being Really Hairy Sucks, Especially When Women Run the Other Way

The worst is the hairy chest, belly and back. It's like universally accepted by women worldwide that they absolutely hate a man with lots of hair on his torso. Many a time they giggle and stare at a man who happen to be hairy and walks shirtless on the beach. The young girls treat it even worse . And we hairy men feel unworthy, unwanted and undesirable n undeserving of the ladies 😭

Being Really Hairy Sucks, Especially When Women Run the Other Way

Being Really Hairy Sucks, Especially When Women Run the Other Way

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  • You know, there's this funny realization most hairier guys have. First they don't care. Then they get all self conscious about it. Then SOMEONE convinces them to go dancing or so with a little hair showing. Laying the cards on the table basically... and what do you know, some people are really into it.

    Or maybe that was just my case? Either way, I am nearly as bad as the pictures here and it has been all positive for me. I am sure some girls wouldn't be into it but most won't care at all if they like you. And if they do care and like you... Not like shaving is THAT bad.

    • You hate being his way? Hiw has our experience with women? mm

    • I don't hate it at all. I am quite happy with all my traits. My experience with women.. Hmm. First night I went out and a friend convinced me to show a little of what was going on under (felt sleazy to me but hey, I can be a good sport) I actually had two girls on me. Went home with one. Which you know, cured me of any insecurities I might have had in regards to how unappealing/appealing it was. Outside of that I never had any complaints. The worst thing was my most recent ex who had the mean habit of pulling single strands out after sex if I wasn't paying attention. I think that had more to do with her having some sort of diabolical latent sadist tendencies though. That said, awesome girl.

    • So mind telling how hairy are you to begin with? And hiw do you generally dress up? Hiw did you show something of your hair at the party where you met two girls and one of them had sex? She said absolutely nothing about hiw hairy or icky it looked? Did she touch the hairs?

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  • Have you considered talking to a psychologist about your insecurity with your body hair? I'm just concerned, because you seem to post this an awful lot. Maybe the help can help you find confidence to either keep the hair, reduce it, or remove it. It's just hair. You're lucky your concern is something you can do something about.

    • I am thankful for your kind help. So you feel it's a thing that I can do something about? O ya? So when you shave or wax your pits or pubes , then does it get as smooth and as nice as your baby smooth chest? Doesn't it get prickly? Doesn't it grow back itchy stubbly and gets I friend patchy growth and what not? Imagine the same stuff happening all over my body.

    • No problem! I know insecurity can be crippling. Most of us have features we wish we could change. Shaving and waxing are not the only options. Laser hair removal will REDUCE the hair growth. Hair that thick against light/medium skintones is IDEAL for the laser. You are the ideal candidate. It is far more affordable now than ever before. Pick any area. Don't worry about affording entire body treatment. Just pick one body area. Like chest for example. See if it works. If it's something that affects your daily life so much, it's worth it to spend and try it out.

    • Hmm it surely is effecting my self within terms of women and sex. Shouldn't it affect and worry me? If YOU were in my shoes then?

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  • Look, I'll be honest... very little body hair is my PREFERENCE on a man, but if I think a guy is attractive and like his personality, body hair isn't going to make me run the other way. For example, my boyfriend is naturally quite hairy, and I think he is sexy af. The hair doesn't turn me off whatsoever. He does trim it in certain areas, and I like that he does, but if he were to shave or wax his entire body all the time, I'd be a little weirded out by that. I'd prefer if a guy is hairy that he embrace who he naturally is, trim it up, and be himself, a manly man who accepts and is confident of his body as is.

    • Ok. Means if we talk about your preference then it's a naturally less hairy man. But what's Wong if a very hairy man tries to be your ideal man by getting his whole body waxed regularly every month? He tries to impress you and make himself sexier to you.! Trim, means trim the torso, legs and arms if very hairy as in the picture? And shave the shoulders, neck, upper arms , back and butt?

    • What's wrong with it is that he is not being "him" in my opinion. And I find constant shaving and waxing of everything to be a more feminine behavior. Since I love my boyfriend, he is already ideal the way he is to me. Sexier than any hairless guy.

    • Okay. That's new kind of mentality! Bit it's cool. What if he trims the odd places such as the shoulders, upper arms and neck but leaves all else all natural? Would that be more weird and turn off than being fully hairless waxed bare?

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  • i don't mind hair but it's too much for me.
    :(

    • Ya you don't mind 18 strands of hairs I know Hah How about those legs and thighs?

    • legs and thighs are fine , i just don't like chest hair.

    • The hairy chest as in second pic? Thi much hairiness on thighs and legs as in pic is totally totally fine? Hairy arms like Robin Williams!

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  • Well I think it's hot.

    • Well all the pics above including legs?😞

    • Yeah you gotta take the whole package. It helps that you're built. Is that you in the second pic?

    • No it's not me. Why? Does he look nice and appealing? So you like this kind of stubble on face and this kind of chest hIr peeking up and visible in public?

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  • Not a big deal, just shave or wax them! As far as I know, women would take a very hairy man over someone with very less hair, anyday!

    • Thanks dude. Hiw do you say that women would take this hairy over very less hairy? If that was true then men wouldn't wax their self everywhere and women would not go for waxed men anyway😞

  • Different girls have different preferences for body hair, I personally know many who think the fad of hairless chests is stupid and prefer a lot of hair. You could always get rid of your hair if it's really making you insecure but no matter what, there will be someone who is into what you have. I think it's important to focus on what makes you feel comfortable in your own skin instead of what you think someone else will like, because you will never be able to cater to everyone. Plus any woman that expects you to be less hairy but gets mad when men/society says the same to her is a hypocrite who isn't worth your time

    • Okay And ya it's so frustrating to be the hairiest person while other men and women have almost hairless bodies. I see men in tank top and they have hairless upper arms and torso. Women obviously look extremely hairless on whole bodies and yes their chests are naturally super hairless. I envy. And you personally know one two girls who feel hIrless chests/abs is weird? But would they want this super hairy chest/abs then? And how about the very hairy legs and thighs?

  • Some girls like it, some don't. If you dislike it you can just shave or wax.

  • I so hate a hairless man!! I love a man with hair on his body.

    • Hmmm many women in general dislike hairless man as hairless as baby bottom. But would you be ok / like this much hairs all over including this furry abdomen , chest and thighs? How about hairy shoulders / upper arms?

    • The more the better!!

    • Is there a scope for more in those torso and legs / thighs hair in those pics? :/ How about hairy shoulders , upper arms and neck?

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  • WHAT are you saying? * raises hand * I wouldn't run the other way. Most reasonable women aren't going to either. I'd NEVER do such a thing to someone. It's sad and ignorant.

    At least to me: Idgaf, as long as you aren't full on caveman, cro-magnon level shit... ** shrugs **
    Means you're an of-age, healthy, hot blooded homo sapien male. Nothing to be ashamed of or feel bad about. THis is also why I don't look at magazines and shit anymore. I really don't. I get your point though.

    I also went through my own bodily hair saga of acceptance. Now I just shave when it's too hot, or when I want to of my own free will. Cause the people who are all acting like dipshits over it are diphits and very ignorant. My long time ex was hairy. I thought it was hot because he owned and rocked it. He just happened to have hair on him. Same goes for you.

    If you own it and rock it, there nothing those dumbass girls can do or say. They're just that, GIRLS. Wherever the hell you are, be like: I'm sexy and handsome! I'm the most handsome man here, yes I am! I'm the sexiest motherfucker! ** eyeroll ** bitch please. Remember this long term, cause you WISH you can have THIS. And you just made sure it's closed for business.

    • AND, if it's really bothersome to you: laser hair removal. There's things where you can be hairless permanently.

  • It shouldn't affect your confidence and tbh it's really sexy! People who would make fun of male body hairs are awful beings and I don't think there's a lot of them. Trust me, it's really a plus, well for me. Trimming or waxing a bit can make you feel better if you wanna but not all shaven, 'cause I personally like male body hairs! :)

    • Some men and women do poke comments about body hairs. And not only male in face female body hair should not be made fun of. It's normal and kind of sexy 😉 for female to have hair as well. 😃 So which of this is the sexiest pic here? How would you say about those legs and thighs?😞😭

    • Well, depends which body part of a woman has hair, and also on her preference. But for men, it's completely fine. Love the hair on the second and leg pics. The second pic looks hairy but at the same time it looks neat. And oh well the hairy legs, I would love to feel them when we cuddle. :D

    • Generally a woman has fine hairs only on her lower legs and fore arms. And they are straight civilised hairs 😃 The second guy I guess has trimmed his hairs. Hence they are neat and tidy. But they are all up till the beard 😞 do you like this kind of facial stubble and this kind of trimmed chest over the first picture of natural chest? Those legs would feel sexy up against female legs 😞😉😉😉😉

  • Thats a lot of hair... :o :o BUT have no fear, there are women who would find your very appealing.

    • Duh. Why would any woman find that appealing 😠

  • F thoes women! I love a hairy dude. It's hott! I find it gross and a turn off when you feel hair stubble on a guy. I only want to feel that on the face. Ewe!

    • Fur suites are awesome! 😊

    • Agree hat body stubble is icky and very weird. It's best when it's naturally less hairy, agree?😃

  • Dude, if a girl runs away from you because of hair, then she's not worth it. I don't really care, it's a lot of hair for me, but if you're a nice guy and we get along, I'm not going to run away.

    • lol , ya you won't literally run away for sure and i appreciate you for it , but wouldn't you be a bit turned off by this messy icky beast kind of fur? I mena its natural to be turned off and see it as messy and dirty. I have this much and i get put off by seeing myself naked eww

    • I wouldn't be put off... I mean, we probably wouldn't be cuddling that much after sex lol, but I've been through enough shitty relationships to know that body hair is a stupid reason not to be attracted to someone. As long as you treat me right, I can deal. Hell, I'm 5'3 and 174 pounds, so I have no right to judge anyone about body image.

    • No cuddles? :( you mean you won't mind hairy body during sex during the excited aroused moments but in general you would mind touching and looking aaaat them? In egenral you would prefer if this man kept wearing his full pants and shirt on during normal day to day life at home on a hot day?>

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  • The more I look at these pics the more I realize your not actually that hairy. You need to get out there and meet people. If people make fun of you, then says more about them then it does about you. Ignore it and rock that hot bod and cute face. If a girl is turned off by it then she's not the girl for you. Shake it off and put yourself back out there and date the next. But I do believe if you trim away you feel a lot better about yourself. Your hot and have sexy legs ;p

    • Thanks. Sexy legs... I bet they are nothing in terms of your sexy legs 😉😉😉😉

    • I'm a sucker for sexy legs ;p Aren't you a charmer *blush* haha

    • Even I am a sucker for sexy female legs. I can't get it enough. Lady legs are my huge weakness tbh and they are easily visible as well 😉😉😉😉

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  • I certainly wouldn't turn the other way if guy was as hairy as the men in the photos. I would be attracted to him. If your chest and legs are that hairy then I'd think you were pretty much perfect!!

    • Yes my chest abdomen and legs and thighs are in the last two pics all natural untrimmed.
      How about hairy shoulders and upper arms like this!
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    • I love hairy men so hairy shoulders and arms are not a problem. You have extremely sexy legs if that was your leg in the photo!

  • Those guys are really hairy.

    • Yup , gorillas for sure :o

  • I prefer my guys with a hairless back, chest, arms, and legs. So basically all over except for the hair on their head. It's also fine for them to have normal amounts on their arms and legs but not excessive like the guys in the pictures.

    • would you be ok with an artificially hairless man aka a very hairy man as in these pics but with all waxed hairless?

    • Yeah. If he properly grooms himself I'd be totally fine with that. Waxiing, laser hair removal or electrologist are good options.

  • there is nothing wrong about being hairy... really... i think us girls are more worried if we are too hairy for the guy. if we don't shave. then guys don't look at us.

    Plus if she loves you, this wouldn't even bother her!

    • Haha okk

    • Those legs and shoulders? Fine

  • I don't mind any types of body hair on men and I think that many people still have some very false expectations when it comes to judging an another persons appereance.
    One thing about shaving actually bothers me a lot - when men shave their belly. It looks odd and not attractive. The stripe starting from the belly button and ending in the pants and all the natural hair should always be there.
    I would prefer a hairy man to a man who hides his true self and shaves his body. ^-^
    Also, you almost look like a werewolf which is mythological and awesome!
    Sorry for bad English :)

    • What if a man has a lot more hair on his whole belly rather than just that fine line of hair in the middle of belly?😞 How to shave the whole chest and belly and leave that fine line in middle, ? won't it look weird then?😞 How about hairy shoulders? That werewolf comments is a compliment or an insult? It sounds more if an insult though 😭

    • I'm pretty bad at English so It's hard to make stuff clear, I'm sorry I wasn't talking about only the line, I also said that all the natural hair should be there. No, why would you shave for the line if it's already there with all the other hair? lol I'm sorry if it sounds like an insult, it's just that I have read stories about werewolves and how manly their human form should look like so I thought it would be cool to just leave a compliment ^~^

    • Aww ok. That was a compliment! I took it as an offence and insult maybe bi am insecure and all. I have sime hair in shoulders as well 😭 So you mean hairless belly looks odd on a man esp when it's due to shaving? Leave it all natural whatever it is , without trim and all? Hiw about hairy groin and butt?

  • Testerone issue?

    • You mean hormonal imbalance?

    • You have too much of it

    • Maybe. Its bad, ya? And apart from medical issue it is aesthetically unappealing and sexually turn off?

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  • I prefer men bare, honestly. I understand that testosterone tends to cause hairiness, but for me it's a huge turn-off. I have known a lot of women who preferred hair, so it's probably just a personal preference.

    • Don't try to be nice by adding that you have known women who preferred very hairy men. Nah, why on earth would anyone like messy icky thing like excess hairiness! I agree it's a turn off and if I was a woman even I would have hated such men.😃

    • I wasn't being nice. My mom and my sister both have a thing for hairy guys. Upside is, we're never competing.

    • Your own sis? Elder mature? Do they/would they prefer this much amount of hairiness?

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