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Penis Size Doesn't Matter if a Woman Truly Likes You

Penis size does not matter when the woman truly likes you.

Yes, I said it. Women, if you have an issue with your man's size, then you really don't like or love him as much as you think you do.

You can beat around the bush all you want, but you don't actually like or love a man if you cheat on him, laugh at him, or dump him because of something over which he has zero control.

I've been depressed all my life, thinking that I wasn't big enough to have a normal relationship with a woman (I am below average, but it's not a micro-penis). I honestly wanted to kill myself at times because I was so painfully lonely.

After years of therapy, I reluctantly entered the dating world. A month ago, I met a wonderful woman. We clicked on so many levels, both intellectually and physically. We had undeniable chemistry. I was faced with the inevitable moment of truth when we became intimate. I can't even begin to describe how nervous I was when it came time for me to show her what I had, and you know what? None of those nightmare scenarios I described above happened. She was perfectly happy with it, and we proceeded to spend the next few days making each other feel amazing.

Penis Size Doesn't Matter if a Woman Truly Likes You

I have found that most people are selfish these days. Perhaps you can blame it on Hollywood, with shows like Sex and the City ("oh he's so wonderful, but his penis is small, so I'm going to dump him and date a jerk instead"), and the media constantly harping on about how "bigger is better."

I would argue that many people today do not know how to love unconditionally. Unconditional love means accepting your partner for all of who they are, "warts and all."

If a partner refuses to learn how to pleasure you by whatever methods necessary, then by all means, find someone else who will. However, to break up with someone over size alone is a very shallow thing to do. It shows that you didn't care about them at all as a human being. You were simply expecting them to be a walking, talking sex toy for your pleasure.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Nice take, and similar to you I have found the things you had to say were true for me as well. It has been my experience that it is far more important how you treat a woman than how many inches you do or do not have. My wife loves and accepts me for the way I am and I certainly love and accept her for the way she is as well.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Penis size doesn't matter because they all feel the SAME. I'm only like four inches long up there even when I'm turned on. Now I admit big ones look sexier but they feel the same as small ones.

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  • Well for me, its a whichever comes first basis. I will say if he got small penis and I found out before we actually got into relationship, then no, I probably will not start the relationship with him. But, if we are already in a relationship, that means he must have nice personality and something like that, then I found out he got small penis, then I definitely won't dump him just based on his size, the premise is I truly love him. A small penis is fine, just that the truth is an average or bigger size is a bonus.

  • I agree. If I'm to the point where I am seeing his penis, I already really like him and I'm not going to dump him based on the size of his penis. My current boyfriend is quite large down there, but I'd love him and want him just as much if he was smaller. As long as a woman keeps herself in nice shape down there, levels, etc., she would likely get pleasure from any size penis that a grown man would have. I'm sorry you felt like dying before because of something you cannot help. But I'm happy to hear you've found someone who makes you happy. That in itself makes her a gem.

    • That's kegels, not levels. Dumb autocorrect

    • Even if a man was very thin and really small like 2 inches full? You would be ok? And how about if he was very hairy on body , would that be an issuesas well?

    • @dcoolguy I haven't come across a guy with a penis that size, but I have had some exes that were pretty small and it wasn't an issue. So that's what I'm basing my answer on. I doubt it would be very common for a grown man to only be two inches fully erect. As for hairy, although it isn't my preference, it doesn't bother me whatsoever. My current boyfriend is quite hairy (Arabic ethnicity), and I find him sexy as **ck. If he were to spend a lot of time shaving his entire body I would probably be more turned off by his doing that than just letting himself be how he naturally is.

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  • i agree with this completely, and can even relate to it on a level (since women face similar issues when it comes to breast size).

    when it comes to penis size, i've been all over the map. and, to be honest, i prefer a guy who's confident in what he has and knows how to use it, regardless of what's in his pants.

    mainstream media is designed to prey on our insecurities. how else will they sell their products, if not by convincing us that we're painfully inadequate? people also tend to forget that the average size is between 5-6 inches, since all they see are the massive ones in porn. but, to anyone who truly loves you, what you have (or don't) down under won't define you.

    so happy to hear that things worked out with your lady-friend. :) always glad to see a happy ending (pun intended) for someone who deserves it.

    cheers!

    -von

  • You're right.

  • Yasss! About time someone got straight to the point. If I got into a relationship with a guy and his equipment was smaller than average. I really wouldn't give a damn if he couldn't please me with it. He could find other ways to please me. If I like him enough I'll see past that and be thankful that I'm with such a great guy. Right now its hard to find one. Lol!

  • Good for you. It's very sad that intimate details have become a joke amongst youth. Where are our priorities? Seriously. It's like people wanna live their youth and are doomed to be miserable as they grow older because they didn't put their attention into seeking meaning and meaningful relationships.

    Genitalia is private. It comes with the package. Pursue the guy/girl you are interested in and accept what he/she's got. I think sex education about variety and what's normal is lacking here, and as such, porn and TV/film sets the standards inappropriately. We aren't meant to be perfect like celebrities. For them, their looks is their money. For us, not the case.

    I've never had a penis preference, and I couldn't force myself to. I just want a good man for me. I also think though people talk a lot of talk, in reality, they are more forgiving.

  • Considering 90% of people (at least in the West) see each other's genitals before the "love" stage, you can't really bring up the argument that if she doesn't accept your tiny penis then she doesn't love you.
    We all have an imaginary checklist when it comes to dating, and for the vast majority of people, sexual satisfaction is in that list, and up high.
    The truth is that a tiny penis is very likely not going to satisfy most women. Yes, you can do oral, but with oral you don't reach that level of intimacy that you do during intercourse.

    Every woman cares about size, but that doesn't mean they just want big dicks, they care about a size that is going to be able to satisfy her.
    So yes, you're right that if she doesn't accept your penis, she's not the right one for you, but you can't blame her for that, you can't expect women to live a dissatisfied sexual life just so that you can feel good about your penis.

    • It's not the man's fault, either. We can't choose what we are born with.

    • But you're right. The western world has prioritized selfishness over love.

    • Considering the divorce rate, it's pretty safe to say that most people are incapable of love in our society.

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  • Perfect take

  • I have to disagree with you, sorry.
    If a woman needs a bigger penis to be sexually stimulated sufficiently, and you can't deliver that, she has every right to break up with you for that. She shouldn't have to accept less, simply because u were born that way.
    It's like someone else said, loving them 'for who they are' comes with all their qualities, good and bad. Penis size is a quality just like any other. Some people don't care about size, others do, just like some people don't care about fidelity and others do. If you think a loyal woman is important, you wouldn't date someone who cheated on you, even if she was great in every other way. You wouldn't accept infidelity, then it's fine for someone else to not accept 'small penis'.

    • If you're okay with your partner being with you just because of your size, then more power to you. Just don't be sad when she dumps you when a bigger penis comes along.

    • Well, she's not, but just so you know, that is important to some people, important enough that it can make or break a relationship if they absolutely need it.

    • They don't LOVE you, then. That was the whole point of my take.

  • You made my day!
    Now I'm confident enough that I'll give women mind blowing orgasms with my micro penis 😀

  • Haha, no.

    /thread

    • "/thread" Haha, no. A woman who cares about size is selfish. End of story.

    • Well they have no obligation to stay in a relationship in which they feel dissatisfied and miserable.

  • I agree. Same for women and breast size or any other part of their body they may be insecure about, if a guy loves you, it doesn't matter.

  • Agree agree agree! Wonderful 😊.

  • Honestly, if I'm not sexually satisfied the relationship won't progress that far. My first had a small penis and I had trouble getting any kind of stimulation, leaving us using only two positions that actually got me anywhere. The relationship didn't last because he didn't like having to put more effort in and I was tired of having to fight for an orgasm.

    • He was in the wrong for not trying to please you. If he WAS doing everything possible to please you, then it would have been shallow to end it.

    • Maybe, but it really isn't your place to judge.

    • Should he have left you because your breasts are too small, or because your vagina is too loose? Those are equally as shallow, but men get far more criticism for doing that. Women get a pass for being shallow in our society. If he didn't try to please you, then he SHOULD be judged.

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  • Its kinda funny...
    Back when you deceived that it did matter people would tell you that it didn't.
    Now that you are saying that it doesn't matter, people are telling you that it does :D

    Regardless, congrats on your new-found confidence.

    • Thanks, and for what it's worth, only one girl so far has disagreed, and five girls have liked the post... So it's 7-1 in favor of love trumping size.

  • I definitely agree. I dont care about the size down below if i really do love everything about you. Even if it was really tiny, we can make it work somehow haha. I feel like the media make it seem like sex is everything in a relationship, and if you dont have great sex, you aren't in the right relationship, but i feel like its the other way around. A great relationship with the person you love the most will produce the greatest sex because real feelings are involved and thats not something you can get with just anyone.

  • Strong cope. If you are sub 6 inches.. I got some bad news for you boyo.

    • Pretty much this. Expect your girl to be getting dicked down by mandingo on the side.

    • @BubbleBoy69 stop living in a porn fantasy, and stop dating shallow women. Problem solved.

  • True. I'd be fine with any man I like or love as long as his penis isn't... Um.. What's the word for it? Tiny.

    • Then frankly, you don't love him. Call it what you will, you don't love him as a person.

    • Well I'd need to be attracted to him first then comes love genius

    • Looks fade, genius.

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  • Women idolise men that have fun and make them laugh. Men love men like that too just in a different way

  • -.- das not true no matter how much I love him if his dick is about 5 inches das a turn off for me.. What's the point of loveing someone who can't even make me feel good lolz

    • Would you leave him if he became paralyzed below the waist?

    • No I wouldn't.. I would stay by his side and take care of him but da and having a tiny.. d are two different reasons

    • In what way? They are exactly the same.

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